Topic: One night stands.....
BlueskyJ's photo
Sun 01/06/08 10:30 PM
I'm moving up in the world...tired of one-nite stands....for now on no less than two-nite stands.....love gotta spread the love...but gotta watch out for those STD's= Short Thang Dangling...grumble laugh

mikecom21hotmaiL's photo
Mon 01/07/08 03:33 AM
Edited by mikecom21hotmaiL on Mon 01/07/08 03:36 AM

What is ya'lls views on one night stands?

Is the guy a stud...and the girl a slut?




I call them the girls with experience, and usually see it differcult in the morning for them to walk

laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

of course if they go home with someone else, sure their sluts, and i am no stud

mikecom21hotmaiL's photo
Mon 01/07/08 03:38 AM

Try this, if a man kills another man, he's a murder. If he kills 10 men, he's a monster. If he kills 100 men he is a hero, and if he kills 1000 he is a legend.

Back on topic, that's just life.


yes true, but if you suck one c0ck, you are always a c0cksucker

Dang

Moondark's photo
Mon 01/07/08 03:46 AM


personally i find it a little disgusting, you really don't know wher the other has been lately. if their gonna sleep with you after the first night then they've been doing it with others.....



How do you know that for sure?

What if the guy/girl hasn't and it was their first time....

I just never understood, how if a guy sleeps with a girl on the first night...then he is high-fiving his buds...but when a girl does it...people are fast to jump the gun and think that she is a whore who sleeps around....

I agree with you that, I would assume the same thing...




I don't really think people are that harsh on women any more. At least not around a lot of the people I have known. I've had a couple when I was young and stupid. On the other hand, I wasn't thinking it was going to be a one night stand. But then, maybe it doesn't count. I knew them for a little while, it was just after we had sex I never heard from them again. Of course, I was in the Navy and a little nieve.

I know some women who have been out looking only for the sex and the one night stand, but after a particular nasty divorce, I really couldn't blame her.

I think the only ones we really judge anymore are the ones who go out and have them weekend after weekend after weekend.

On the other hand, I do think we have started to judge men more harshly who do that. I've heard heard women call some men sluts and even their male friends call them sluts. And they do mean it in a critical way.

I think we are merging into a middle ground. Women can have more and sexual relationships without being labeled a slut but men are expected to be more reasonable and not just be hound dogs.

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Mon 01/07/08 04:49 AM

men are expected to be womanizers and lustful so people expect it.

women are expected to be innocent and delicate so people aren't expecting it...



it's just double standards is all. happens all the time various aspects of life.

That is the problem...The "Expectation" part of it anyway...
I don't think that people shouldn't "expect" much of anything from another....I think it means trying to mold someone into something that they aren't...by "society's" standards?..

As far as one night stands...I've never experienced it, but I do know a couple of girlfriends of mine who have, which was a LONG time ago, and they are still breathing today..One is now married and seems happy...So even though it isn't for me, that doesn't mean I expect anyone else to be like that, nor judge them for it..flowerforyou bigsmile

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Mon 01/07/08 04:49 AM
oops I meant should expect..not shouldn't....sheeesh..sorry..blushing glasses

Danette_Giavanna's photo
Mon 01/07/08 06:06 AM
I'm 32 never had one never will..The way I like my sex I prefer to be with someone that I'm comfortable with and can trust..I don't want to end up with some slobbering drunk man who needs GPS..scary...

alonenotlonely's photo
Mon 01/07/08 09:44 AM

I'm 32 never had one never will..The way I like my sex I prefer to be with someone that I'm comfortable with and can trust..I don't want to end up with some slobbering drunk man who needs GPS..scary...

Personally, she (or I) would have to be god-awful bad in some way for it to just be a one-nighter.

kojack's photo
Mon 01/07/08 09:49 AM
No one night stands anymore for me, did that in my teens.

Rapunzel's photo
Mon 01/07/08 09:51 AM

i never understood that. a man sleeps with 100 women, hes a stud. a woman sleeps with 10 guys, shes a slut! what the hell!!!!????



oh, yeah..it is the great double standard sick

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Mon 01/07/08 09:53 AM
I am COMPLETLY faithfull to my Blow up doll ( she doent do one night stands cause she cant stand up!!)noway grumble happy

Rapunzel's photo
Mon 01/07/08 09:57 AM
hahahaha Mikey ..:wink:

leave it to you for some humor laugh bigsmile laugh


these days there are so many things to look out for
and just going to bed with someone,
as soon as you meet them
is like playing "russian roulette" with your life

in more ways than one

Myisland50's photo
Mon 01/07/08 10:05 AM
sex starts in the head,,,

the one on your shoulders sillyblushing laugh

Hard to be intelligent after one night,,,at least for meohwell

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Mon 01/07/08 10:11 AM
I like my other "head" better!!!noway :tongue: laugh

Myisland50's photo
Mon 01/07/08 10:14 AM

I like my other "head" better!!!noway :tongue: laugh


Is that how you popped Ms Blow Up Mikey?

kirota's photo
Mon 01/07/08 10:18 AM

your looking at the glass half full

you can get the same things for you better half. my x husband, nailed anything with legs in high school, did drugs and drank. unless you screen everyone you might be with and all there x's you just need to trust the person your with is honest. i understand you not wanting to die young... but hell i might die tomorrow i am really not worried what i die of if i make it to 90. i have kids, and iam ok being single right now, and having fun.


I didn't survive cancer to have a man whore kill me. Trust me I have faced death right in the face for something that I couldn't prevent.........but dying from aids is something I can prevent.

For some reason this as struck me wrong......half the reason relationships fail is because of cheating right? Well, did anybody every think that maybe because so many people are willing to have a one night stand that it makes it really easy for a cheater to take something home to their partner. Just a little food for thought. Enjoy the meal.

Rapunzel's photo
Mon 01/07/08 11:31 AM
Edited by Rapunzel on Mon 01/07/08 11:35 AM
hi Kirota ...flowerforyou
so good to see you drinker
and the strength and wisdom you exhibit drinker



a roll in the hay with some one you don't even know noway
~ let alone love ...huh
is not worth any of the possible repercussions noway

and when people allow married people
and players to have a field day,
then they are enabling promiscuity,
unfaithfulness & adultery sick

the "dogs in heat" and "alley cat "
mentality and behavior
reminds me of nothing more
than a bunch of cockroaches ...
no discretion or integrity
in their behavior...sick


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Mon 01/07/08 11:34 AM
I wear a body condom while typing to you horny people.....devil laugh

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Mon 01/07/08 11:35 AM
Oh! Really now!:tongue:

Mac60's photo
Mon 01/07/08 11:40 AM

i never understood that. a man sleeps with 100 women, hes a stud. a woman sleeps with 10 guys, shes a slut! what the hell!!!!????


Like Hank Hill told Bobby when he asked the same question(in different words):

"It's the old double standard, son. One of the few breaks we guys get in life. Learn to enjoy it."