im in a relationship with a guy who is younger than me,
and ive dropped hints that i dont really wanna be with him the way he wants to be with me (he said i love you like the first night we were together...) and it was weird... ive never broken up with anyone... and at 20 it seems rediculous to be scared to tell someone that you dont love them... how should i do this if i dont want to lose this persons friendship? =/ help?

just be honest and tell him how you feel. Not telling is worse, trust me. Things, at that point, will be what they will be.

it may hurt him but at younger then 20? hes got a full life ahead of him my advice do not lie tell him the truth its now or never

Darling you say that you are 20 and he is even younger then you........Hell he is just out of Pampers he has no idea the meaning of love...apart from whats below his belt.

just tell him the truth,its the only better way to not to loose him,

i had the same type of relationship with an older woman a couple years ago... chances are he doesn't know what love is he just has a bunch of horomones raging and he wants in your pants

you gotta set him straight, he'll understand eventually

Wow! You have never broken up with anybody!? Anyway, trust me I just had a long and painful breakup. Just be honest, there is no way around it. From what it sounds like he might be a little hurt being that he said I LOVE YOU and all. But time heals and you can't always try to spare someone's feelings, the more you wait the worse it will be for him and in a way you too. Just sit him down and tell him straight up "I don't think you and are going anywhere with our relationship, but I value your friendship". Then ask him if you can still be friends,just not in a relationship. He is gonna take it how he wants. All you can do is be positive.

tell him to hit the bricks.....

Ask him why he loves you.

Then look at his response.

you see, the below the belt comment?
thats surley not the problem, lmao...
he's 19, and wont be 20 till FAR after im 21.
so he's not technically that much younger.
and no, ive always been the one dumped... so yeah.
im just scared because i know i could see us together later on in life, but he's got SO SO SO much ahead of him, he wants to go to college, and he wants to open a custom bike shop... and he's just such a good guy.

Just be honest with him. Tell him you don't love him like he loves you. If you value this person, then stop stringing him along....

Custom bike shop after the fad is dying down? Isn't that like having a degree in business management in a flat market flooded with business management graduates. Or is that like someone who owns a beta or 8 track player who still thinks they're gonna make a comeback. He better go talk to some people in the bike business.

lmao.
something like that...

You tell him that because I think you are the least of his problems. I see college loans and debt and another poor bike builder as his main problems. Whew!

Be honest. Brutally honest. Have to. If he's got delusions of grandeur about being a chopper builder he's got delusions about you. Ya gotta love them dreamers. And quit sleepin with him! Yer sendin the wrong message!

i havent slept with him in about a month?

almost a month i think

When you play with his mind and you prop up his ideals because you think he's cute and you're sleeping with him and you're leading him on with your behavior by not being honest with him or yourself you can't be at all surprised that he confesses his love for you. You brought this on yourself. Now you're going to break a young mans heart and make him bitter and resentful towards women all because you couldn't tell him where you stand in your relationship from the beginning? There's 3 sides to every story. His side, her side, and the police report. Put yourself in his shoes now. Yeah I don't think you would enjoy being led on very much either. Am I correct?

Tell him all this. And cry a lot.

Tell him all this. And cry a lot. Wear lots of mascara that runs.