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shhhhhhhh muriel youre terrible!!!
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hey,i'm glad that i posted this topic then..there's a glimmer of hope for me still..perhaps my next relationship will be with a woman who is a little more understanding.. thanks for the feedbacks Be honest and up front from the beginning, if she shows signs of being clingy or starts to question you, move on... it would be her own insecurity...and a man like you needs a secure woman! |
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hmmmmmmmmm well that month better include non stop sex!!! oh yeah - I totally forgot that you get to have sex when you are in a relationship! I have been single way too long, I think. |
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hmmmmmmmmm well that month better include non stop sex!!! oh yeah - I totally forgot that you get to have sex when you are in a relationship! I have been single way too long, I think. Oh yeah......theres the sex thing..... |
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very true miss gowings..in these past many years i have been through more relationships then i myself would care to count,with women who believed that they were strong enough.
and for the other question..the answer is yes. sure there was telephone calls and emailings but it was never enough to shed the cold hard fact that my woman was at home waiting. and for me it was always difficult to be away when i had that special woman. |
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of course if you both work at the relationship
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i wouldnt mind it at all......as long as he is faithful.... |
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you got a great 1 as well miss hikerchick..
i agree that if the lady has her own life and strong independence,then she would be fine on her own until my return..thanks |
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trust and faithfulness is always assured..and lots of sex is always on the menu when i come back home miss gypsy.lol..
in fact i sometimes felt like i was alienating my family and friends,because i always spent most of my time with my lady. koodos |
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very true miss gowings..in these past many years i have been through more relationships then i myself would care to count,with women who believed that they were strong enough. and for the other question..the answer is yes. sure there was telephone calls and emailings but it was never enough to shed the cold hard fact that my woman was at home waiting. and for me it was always difficult to be away when i had that special woman. Hmmm, I'm going to address the "at home waiting" She or (I) wouldnt be at home "waiting" That implicates sitting by the phone, laying on the couch, eating bonbons and singing oh whoah is me, my man is gone. She or (I) would be at home living. Doing things that make me happy, being involved with something. But the love you (we) share would be so strong, that we could overcome the distance between, and make the times together count so as not to question the times we were apart..... |
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very true miss gowings..in these past many years i have been through more relationships then i myself would care to count,with women who believed that they were strong enough. and for the other question..the answer is yes. sure there was telephone calls and emailings but it was never enough to shed the cold hard fact that my woman was at home waiting. and for me it was always difficult to be away when i had that special woman. Hmmm, I'm going to address the "at home waiting" She or (I) wouldnt be at home "waiting" That implicates sitting by the phone, laying on the couch, eating bonbons and singing oh whoah is me, my man is gone. She or (I) would be at home living. Doing things that make me happy, being involved with something. But the love you (we) share would be so strong, that we could overcome the distance between, and make the times together count so as not to question the times we were apart..... right - like we are right now, living our full and exciting lives!! JK - I agree - the "at home waiting" comment made my neck hairs rise up too, until I really thought about what I am doing right now. |
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very true miss gowings..in these past many years i have been through more relationships then i myself would care to count,with women who believed that they were strong enough. and for the other question..the answer is yes. sure there was telephone calls and emailings but it was never enough to shed the cold hard fact that my woman was at home waiting. and for me it was always difficult to be away when i had that special woman. Hmmm, I'm going to address the "at home waiting" She or (I) wouldnt be at home "waiting" That implicates sitting by the phone, laying on the couch, eating bonbons and singing oh whoah is me, my man is gone. She or (I) would be at home living. Doing things that make me happy, being involved with something. But the love you (we) share would be so strong, that we could overcome the distance between, and make the times together count so as not to question the times we were apart..... right - like we are right now, living our full and exciting lives!! JK - I agree - the "at home waiting" comment made my neck hairs rise up too, until I really thought about what I am doing right now. Not sure what you are doing, but I turned down at least a dozen dates to be online tonight |
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Yes, they can. The problem usually ends up when the person traveling all the time retires. The spouse at home all the time developed a certain pattern to life and isn't always able to adjust to the traveling spouse being home all the time.
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very true miss gowings..in these past many years i have been through more relationships then i myself would care to count,with women who believed that they were strong enough. and for the other question..the answer is yes. sure there was telephone calls and emailings but it was never enough to shed the cold hard fact that my woman was at home waiting. and for me it was always difficult to be away when i had that special woman. Hmmm, I'm going to address the "at home waiting" She or (I) wouldnt be at home "waiting" That implicates sitting by the phone, laying on the couch, eating bonbons and singing oh whoah is me, my man is gone. She or (I) would be at home living. Doing things that make me happy, being involved with something. But the love you (we) share would be so strong, that we could overcome the distance between, and make the times together count so as not to question the times we were apart..... right - like we are right now, living our full and exciting lives!! JK - I agree - the "at home waiting" comment made my neck hairs rise up too, until I really thought about what I am doing right now. Not sure what you are doing, but I turned down at least a dozen dates to be online tonight Oh- ok then. I stand corrected. |
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i completely agree miss gowings,i have always insisted to the lady that i was with at the time..(like say my last ex-for example)insisted that she does indeed go out with family and friends as often as she wishes.
in fact,not too long after i started to leave the province with the gang at work,i began to leave her a credit card for the soul purpose of it being used for fun and entertainment. but of course she would have to be home at a planned hour..(say after my shift was over in edmonton lets say,so we can talk) but her life was completely her own... while i was herniating my guts to put food on the table for us...lol |
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very true miss gowings..in these past many years i have been through more relationships then i myself would care to count,with women who believed that they were strong enough. and for the other question..the answer is yes. sure there was telephone calls and emailings but it was never enough to shed the cold hard fact that my woman was at home waiting. and for me it was always difficult to be away when i had that special woman. Hmmm, I'm going to address the "at home waiting" She or (I) wouldnt be at home "waiting" That implicates sitting by the phone, laying on the couch, eating bonbons and singing oh whoah is me, my man is gone. She or (I) would be at home living. Doing things that make me happy, being involved with something. But the love you (we) share would be so strong, that we could overcome the distance between, and make the times together count so as not to question the times we were apart..... right - like we are right now, living our full and exciting lives!! JK - I agree - the "at home waiting" comment made my neck hairs rise up too, until I really thought about what I am doing right now. Not sure what you are doing, but I turned down at least a dozen dates to be online tonight Oh- ok then. I stand corrected. HA I wish...been sitting here since 6 in my pjs, sipping Stoli & 7up...but I dreamed last night that I went out on a date... |
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sure if you love or care for someone enough
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very true miss gowings..in these past many years i have been through more relationships then i myself would care to count,with women who believed that they were strong enough. and for the other question..the answer is yes. sure there was telephone calls and emailings but it was never enough to shed the cold hard fact that my woman was at home waiting. and for me it was always difficult to be away when i had that special woman. Hmmm, I'm going to address the "at home waiting" She or (I) wouldnt be at home "waiting" That implicates sitting by the phone, laying on the couch, eating bonbons and singing oh whoah is me, my man is gone. She or (I) would be at home living. Doing things that make me happy, being involved with something. But the love you (we) share would be so strong, that we could overcome the distance between, and make the times together count so as not to question the times we were apart..... right - like we are right now, living our full and exciting lives!! JK - I agree - the "at home waiting" comment made my neck hairs rise up too, until I really thought about what I am doing right now. Not sure what you are doing, but I turned down at least a dozen dates to be online tonight Oh- ok then. I stand corrected. HA I wish...been sitting here since 6 in my pjs, sipping Stoli & 7up...but I dreamed last night that I went out on a date... was that you? |
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HA I wish...been sitting here since 6 in my pjs, sipping Stoli & 7up...but I dreamed last night that I went out on a date... I haven't even dreamed any dates. Gosh, that would be better than nothing. |
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i completely agree miss gowings,i have always insisted to the lady that i was with at the time..(like say my last ex-for example)insisted that she does indeed go out with family and friends as often as she wishes. in fact,not too long after i started to leave the province with the gang at work,i began to leave her a credit card for the soul purpose of it being used for fun and entertainment. but of course she would have to be home at a planned hour..(say after my shift was over in edmonton lets say,so we can talk) but her life was completely her own... while i was herniating my guts to put food on the table for us...lol OK, well,it seems to me she took it too far. There needs to be guidelines, like you say, to be able to talk and communicate. Maybe you shouldnt have given her a cc for her entertainment purposes. An independent gal has her own, and wouldn't be apt to take advantage of you if she is spending her own money. Just thinking out loud here. |
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