Topic: wondering
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Fri 01/04/08 09:07 PM
shhhhhhhh muriel youre terrible!!!noway devil laugh

gowings2007's photo
Fri 01/04/08 09:10 PM

hey,i'm glad that i posted this topic then..there's a glimmer of hope for me still..perhaps my next relationship will be with a woman who is a little more understanding..

thanks for the feedbacks




Be honest and up front from the beginning, if she shows signs of being clingy or starts to question you, move on... it would be her own insecurity...and a man like you needs a secure woman!

hikerchick's photo
Fri 01/04/08 09:10 PM

hmmmmmmmmm well that month better include non stop sex!!!devil drinker devil


oh yeah - I totally forgot that you get to have sex when you are in a relationship! I have been single way too long, I think.bigsmile

gowings2007's photo
Fri 01/04/08 09:14 PM


hmmmmmmmmm well that month better include non stop sex!!!devil drinker devil


oh yeah - I totally forgot that you get to have sex when you are in a relationship! I have been single way too long, I think.bigsmile


Oh yeah......theres the sex thing.....

kolhauszer's photo
Fri 01/04/08 09:15 PM
very true miss gowings..in these past many years i have been through more relationships then i myself would care to count,with women who believed that they were strong enough.

and for the other question..the answer is yes.
sure there was telephone calls and emailings but it was never enough to shed the cold hard fact that my woman was at home waiting.
and for me it was always difficult to be away when i had that special woman.

brokenheart74's photo
Fri 01/04/08 09:16 PM
of course if you both work at the relationship

seahawks's photo
Fri 01/04/08 09:17 PM

i wouldnt mind it at all......as long as he is faithful....
so its trust issues u have with men.?

kolhauszer's photo
Fri 01/04/08 09:20 PM
you got a great 1 as well miss hikerchick..

i agree that if the lady has her own life and strong independence,then she would be fine on her own until my return..thanks

kolhauszer's photo
Fri 01/04/08 09:23 PM
trust and faithfulness is always assured..and lots of sex is always on the menu when i come back home miss gypsy.lol..
in fact i sometimes felt like i was alienating my family and friends,because i always spent most of my time with my lady.

koodos

gowings2007's photo
Fri 01/04/08 09:25 PM

very true miss gowings..in these past many years i have been through more relationships then i myself would care to count,with women who believed that they were strong enough.

and for the other question..the answer is yes.
sure there was telephone calls and emailings but it was never enough to shed the cold hard fact that my woman was at home waiting.
and for me it was always difficult to be away when i had that special woman.


Hmmm, I'm going to address the "at home waiting" She or (I) wouldnt be at home "waiting" That implicates sitting by the phone, laying on the couch, eating bonbons and singing oh whoah is me, my man is gone. She or (I) would be at home living. Doing things that make me happy, being involved with something. But the love you (we) share would be so strong, that we could overcome the distance between, and make the times together count so as not to question the times we were apart.....

hikerchick's photo
Fri 01/04/08 09:27 PM


very true miss gowings..in these past many years i have been through more relationships then i myself would care to count,with women who believed that they were strong enough.

and for the other question..the answer is yes.
sure there was telephone calls and emailings but it was never enough to shed the cold hard fact that my woman was at home waiting.
and for me it was always difficult to be away when i had that special woman.


Hmmm, I'm going to address the "at home waiting" She or (I) wouldnt be at home "waiting" That implicates sitting by the phone, laying on the couch, eating bonbons and singing oh whoah is me, my man is gone. She or (I) would be at home living. Doing things that make me happy, being involved with something. But the love you (we) share would be so strong, that we could overcome the distance between, and make the times together count so as not to question the times we were apart.....



right - like we are right now, living our full and exciting lives!!laugh

JK - I agree - the "at home waiting" comment made my neck hairs rise up too, until I really thought about what I am doing right now.

gowings2007's photo
Fri 01/04/08 09:30 PM



very true miss gowings..in these past many years i have been through more relationships then i myself would care to count,with women who believed that they were strong enough.

and for the other question..the answer is yes.
sure there was telephone calls and emailings but it was never enough to shed the cold hard fact that my woman was at home waiting.
and for me it was always difficult to be away when i had that special woman.


Hmmm, I'm going to address the "at home waiting" She or (I) wouldnt be at home "waiting" That implicates sitting by the phone, laying on the couch, eating bonbons and singing oh whoah is me, my man is gone. She or (I) would be at home living. Doing things that make me happy, being involved with something. But the love you (we) share would be so strong, that we could overcome the distance between, and make the times together count so as not to question the times we were apart.....



right - like we are right now, living our full and exciting lives!!laugh

JK - I agree - the "at home waiting" comment made my neck hairs rise up too, until I really thought about what I am doing right now.


Not sure what you are doing, but I turned down at least a dozen dates to be online tonight laugh laugh laugh

Moondark's photo
Fri 01/04/08 09:32 PM
Yes, they can. The problem usually ends up when the person traveling all the time retires. The spouse at home all the time developed a certain pattern to life and isn't always able to adjust to the traveling spouse being home all the time.

hikerchick's photo
Fri 01/04/08 09:34 PM




very true miss gowings..in these past many years i have been through more relationships then i myself would care to count,with women who believed that they were strong enough.

and for the other question..the answer is yes.
sure there was telephone calls and emailings but it was never enough to shed the cold hard fact that my woman was at home waiting.
and for me it was always difficult to be away when i had that special woman.


Hmmm, I'm going to address the "at home waiting" She or (I) wouldnt be at home "waiting" That implicates sitting by the phone, laying on the couch, eating bonbons and singing oh whoah is me, my man is gone. She or (I) would be at home living. Doing things that make me happy, being involved with something. But the love you (we) share would be so strong, that we could overcome the distance between, and make the times together count so as not to question the times we were apart.....



right - like we are right now, living our full and exciting lives!!laugh

JK - I agree - the "at home waiting" comment made my neck hairs rise up too, until I really thought about what I am doing right now.


Not sure what you are doing, but I turned down at least a dozen dates to be online tonight laugh laugh laugh


Oh- ok then. I stand corrected.

kolhauszer's photo
Fri 01/04/08 09:38 PM
i completely agree miss gowings,i have always insisted to the lady that i was with at the time..(like say my last ex-for example)insisted that she does indeed go out with family and friends as often as she wishes.

in fact,not too long after i started to leave the province with the gang at work,i began to leave her a credit card for the soul purpose of it being used for fun and entertainment.
but of course she would have to be home at a planned hour..(say after my shift was over in edmonton lets say,so we can talk)
but her life was completely her own...

while i was herniating my guts to put food on the table for us...lol

gowings2007's photo
Fri 01/04/08 09:38 PM





very true miss gowings..in these past many years i have been through more relationships then i myself would care to count,with women who believed that they were strong enough.

and for the other question..the answer is yes.
sure there was telephone calls and emailings but it was never enough to shed the cold hard fact that my woman was at home waiting.
and for me it was always difficult to be away when i had that special woman.


Hmmm, I'm going to address the "at home waiting" She or (I) wouldnt be at home "waiting" That implicates sitting by the phone, laying on the couch, eating bonbons and singing oh whoah is me, my man is gone. She or (I) would be at home living. Doing things that make me happy, being involved with something. But the love you (we) share would be so strong, that we could overcome the distance between, and make the times together count so as not to question the times we were apart.....



right - like we are right now, living our full and exciting lives!!laugh

JK - I agree - the "at home waiting" comment made my neck hairs rise up too, until I really thought about what I am doing right now.


Not sure what you are doing, but I turned down at least a dozen dates to be online tonight laugh laugh laugh


Oh- ok then. I stand corrected.

HA I wish...been sitting here since 6 in my pjs, sipping Stoli & 7up...but I dreamed last night that I went out on a date...

madamx7316's photo
Fri 01/04/08 09:38 PM
sure if you love or care for someone enough

hikerchick's photo
Fri 01/04/08 09:42 PM






very true miss gowings..in these past many years i have been through more relationships then i myself would care to count,with women who believed that they were strong enough.

and for the other question..the answer is yes.
sure there was telephone calls and emailings but it was never enough to shed the cold hard fact that my woman was at home waiting.
and for me it was always difficult to be away when i had that special woman.


Hmmm, I'm going to address the "at home waiting" She or (I) wouldnt be at home "waiting" That implicates sitting by the phone, laying on the couch, eating bonbons and singing oh whoah is me, my man is gone. She or (I) would be at home living. Doing things that make me happy, being involved with something. But the love you (we) share would be so strong, that we could overcome the distance between, and make the times together count so as not to question the times we were apart.....



right - like we are right now, living our full and exciting lives!!laugh

JK - I agree - the "at home waiting" comment made my neck hairs rise up too, until I really thought about what I am doing right now.


Not sure what you are doing, but I turned down at least a dozen dates to be online tonight laugh laugh laugh


Oh- ok then. I stand corrected.

HA I wish...been sitting here since 6 in my pjs, sipping Stoli & 7up...but I dreamed last night that I went out on a date...


was that you?

Moondark's photo
Fri 01/04/08 09:44 PM


HA I wish...been sitting here since 6 in my pjs, sipping Stoli & 7up...but I dreamed last night that I went out on a date...


I haven't even dreamed any dates. Gosh, that would be better than nothing.

gowings2007's photo
Fri 01/04/08 09:44 PM

i completely agree miss gowings,i have always insisted to the lady that i was with at the time..(like say my last ex-for example)insisted that she does indeed go out with family and friends as often as she wishes.

in fact,not too long after i started to leave the province with the gang at work,i began to leave her a credit card for the soul purpose of it being used for fun and entertainment.
but of course she would have to be home at a planned hour..(say after my shift was over in edmonton lets say,so we can talk)
but her life was completely her own...

while i was herniating my guts to put food on the table for us...lol



OK, well,it seems to me she took it too far. There needs to be guidelines, like you say, to be able to talk and communicate. Maybe you shouldnt have given her a cc for her entertainment purposes. An independent gal has her own, and wouldn't be apt to take advantage of you if she is spending her own money. Just thinking out loud here.