Topic: Mingle Jail...
Gia's photo
Thu 04/16/26 12:49 PM
Edited by Gia on Thu 04/16/26 12:55 PM
A lot of people got booted here, I honestly think it’s just the system they’re using. Bots flaging accounts?

I got a text from a few that had the same issue and said they hated it here now and I haven't seen them yet.

I got suspended on Facebook for 180 days. I tried appealing twice and even sent my ID, but nothing happened. Looks like I’ll have to start over again.

Honestly I don't even post there, I just keep in touch with friends, family, and in a couple of widow and coupon groups.

I hope you don't have anymore issues.

Zena's photo
Thu 04/16/26 02:55 PM

Yeah, the way they do things on here is messed up. You get punished without knowing what you are getting punished for doing. I still do not know for sure why they thought I was a fake profile or what ever. I can only guess at someone else reported me as such, but if it was because of my actions then I will probably do it again on here since I was never told I actually did anything wrong.


that seems to be the theme.. booting people without any explanations other than "code of conduct" WTF did I DO?? at least have the decency to tell us where we went wrong OR why we were booted huh... whoa

Zena's photo
Thu 04/16/26 03:17 PM

A lot of people got booted here, I honestly think it’s just the system they’re using. Bots flaging accounts?

I got a text from a few that had the same issue and said they hated it here now and I haven't seen them yet.

I got suspended on Facebook for 180 days. I tried appealing twice and even sent my ID, but nothing happened. Looks like I’ll have to start over again.

Honestly I don't even post there, I just keep in touch with friends, family, and in a couple of widow and coupon groups.

I hope you don't have anymore issues.


they closed my FB account.. I tried appealing twice too but they won't respond.. I use a VPN and never in the same place so I guess I LOOK like a scammer.. when I'm NOT obviously.. but if I keep ending up in Jail.. I'm gonna start asking everyone for $$ laugh

not much I CAN do.. I've reached out to the owner of the site but never heard back.. I don't get it but.. it is what it is.. 🤷:tone1:‍♀️

GravelRidgeBoy's photo
Thu 04/16/26 06:18 PM
When you had to make a new account here, did you have to use a different email address or can you have all your accounts on the same email address?

As messed up as this place is, they might let you make different accounts with the same email...lol But I did not want to do up a new email just to make a new account or I probably would have done that and started over...lol

Zena's photo
Fri 04/17/26 06:29 AM
I didn't even attempt the same email.. as I already have a few different ones (used for old work that just happen to still be active) I used a different one.. didn't wanna have any issues with that..

how.. if I may.. did you get back in so fast GRB? tomorrow will make 5 wks fer Zee ohwell

Marg's photo
Fri 04/17/26 07:41 AM
hmmmmmmmmmmmmm....... shades

Marg's photo
Fri 04/17/26 07:42 AM
totally agree....:thumbsup:

Zena's photo
Fri 04/17/26 09:53 AM

totally agree....:thumbsup:


ummmm.. with what??

GravelRidgeBoy's photo
Fri 04/17/26 02:37 PM

how.. if I may.. did you get back in so fast GRB? tomorrow will make 5 wks fer Zee ohwell
I do not know, most of the time is was just bots or automated messages that I got back, but I just left the chat window open and a couple times a day I would respond to them. Something like "It has been 8 days to correct your mistake that you said would only take 24-48 hours to fix..." lol Or "Hello? Is there anyone there?" lol I must have just got lucky and replied one time that there was an actual person looking at the messages...

Zena's photo
Fri 04/17/26 02:46 PM
good to know.. thanks GRB.. much appreciated.. I'll try that next time.. leaving the chat window open..

I've tried that "hello? anyone home?" line a few times.. laugh haven't had an answer yet but maybe if I do like you have.. I might get lucky.. thanks again!! drinker

GravelRidgeBoy's photo
Fri 04/17/26 02:56 PM
Yeah, I had to refresh the page a few times because I would come back to find the window closed on me, but I would open it again and start typing. Squeaky wheel gets the grease?...lol

Zena's photo
Fri 04/17/26 05:46 PM
laugh gotta try that tomorrow.. gotta grease those wheels huh.. I gots me some WD40 over here laugh

GravelRidgeBoy's photo
Fri 04/17/26 06:02 PM
Well if a little WD40 don't work, maybe you can figure out the fire hose size and let them have it...lol

Zena's photo
Fri 04/17/26 06:24 PM
believe you me.. if I cud? I'd hose those suckers down at the snap of ma fingers.. or wave of ma wand laugh

whoever came up with this azzinine idea of jailin peeps with nary a warnin OR a heads up.. shud be s*ot/drawn/AND quartered.. just sayin..

oh VAAANNNN.. laugh

GravelRidgeBoy's photo
Fri 04/17/26 11:42 PM
There is just no customer relations on this site, it was days before I got a reply that I thought might be an actual person...not a caring person but one that might be real...lol I know this is a free site, but I still feel like I am getting ripped off at times here...lol I really feel sorry for the people who actually pay for this treatment...

BTW, "oh VAAANNNN.."??? Is there a translation book for that one?...lol

Zena's photo
Sat 04/18/26 06:41 AM
oh.. I totally agree.. free or not.. the customer experience is absolute chit in recent years.. frustrated

laugh I was calling the site owner.. Vanchu.. laugh it used to be Van & Mike back in the day.. Mike was the more hands on one that interacted with us mere mortals more often.. he's gone now tho.. he'da fixed this chit in NO time.. but alas.. Van doesn't seem ta wanna get involved any longer so.. we're stuck with occasional 'real' peeps and AI bots whoa

TxsGal3333's photo
Sat 04/18/26 07:13 AM

When you had to make a new account here, did you have to use a different email address or can you have all your accounts on the same email address?

As messed up as this place is, they might let you make different accounts with the same email...lol But I did not want to do up a new email just to make a new account or I probably would have done that and started over...lol


GRB I actually used the same email when I got booted here for it is the only one I have..

When they finally decided to let me back in they said that they would shut down the extra profile I had used to get back in since I had the same email on both accounts.. But who knows what they are accepting anymore.. I was locked out for over a month.. And just kept emailing them with the link to my email and to the profile I wanted opened back up..

GravelRidgeBoy's photo
Sat 04/18/26 12:57 PM

oh.. I totally agree.. free or not.. the customer experience is absolute chit in recent years.. frustrated

laugh I was calling the site owner.. Vanchu.. laugh it used to be Van & Mike back in the day.. Mike was the more hands on one that interacted with us mere mortals more often.. he's gone now tho.. he'da fixed this chit in NO time.. but alas.. Van doesn't seem ta wanna get involved any longer so.. we're stuck with occasional 'real' peeps and AI bots whoa
I think this is the longest I have stuck around this site, usually I am here for a few weeks and then get annoyed with all the scammers so I leave until I forget about the scammers...lol So I don't know the people who use to run this place, to me it has always had bad customer service...

LOL...I thought maybe 'Oh VANNNN' might have been some strange saying like when the Jewish say "Oy vey"...lol It has been a while since I have been around Canadians...lol


GravelRidgeBoy's photo
Sat 04/18/26 01:00 PM


When you had to make a new account here, did you have to use a different email address or can you have all your accounts on the same email address?

As messed up as this place is, they might let you make different accounts with the same email...lol But I did not want to do up a new email just to make a new account or I probably would have done that and started over...lol


GRB I actually used the same email when I got booted here for it is the only one I have..

When they finally decided to let me back in they said that they would shut down the extra profile I had used to get back in since I had the same email on both accounts.. But who knows what they are accepting anymore.. I was locked out for over a month.. And just kept emailing them with the link to my email and to the profile I wanted opened back up..
I was considering trying it out, using my same email. I figure all these scammers on here are probably not using a different email for each profile, they use the same name and pictures for most of them so why not emails...lol

Zena's photo
Sat 04/18/26 03:50 PM


oh.. I totally agree.. free or not.. the customer experience is absolute chit in recent years.. frustrated

laugh I was calling the site owner.. Vanchu.. laugh it used to be Van & Mike back in the day.. Mike was the more hands on one that interacted with us mere mortals more often.. he's gone now tho.. he'da fixed this chit in NO time.. but alas.. Van doesn't seem ta wanna get involved any longer so.. we're stuck with occasional 'real' peeps and AI bots whoa
I think this is the longest I have stuck around this site, usually I am here for a few weeks and then get annoyed with all the scammers so I leave until I forget about the scammers...lol So I don't know the people who use to run this place, to me it has always had bad customer service...

LOL...I thought maybe 'Oh VANNNN' might have been some strange saying like when the Jewish say "Oy vey"...lol It has been a while since I have been around Canadians...lol




laugh I'm only here for the forums and emailing friends.. I don't even look at profiles or those that are "new to ma area".. besides.. being Zena feels like it's wrong, that I'm a FAKE laugh

Nope.. if I was gonna say Oye Vay.. I'd say Oye Vay.. laugh even tho I ain't jewish lol
not all Canadians are weird like me yanno.. laugh are we keepin you here???? spock bigsmile pitchfork

mind you.. there are so few REAL folks on here that I'm glad yer stickin around (fer now anyways).. adds spice to the gen pop laugh