A few years ago, I had no problem finding a relationship.
It is also fair to mention that when I did find that right girl, sex was almost immediate.
That was good, even though some of those relationships may have been a little flawed.

Well, it's been a year and five months since I've been in a relationship, and it's been at least 5 or 6 months since I've last had sex.

So, if it was so easy for me to get with someone in the past, why is it so hard now?

My sex drive hasn't been destroyed. Sure, it may not be strong due to me smoking marijuana, but it is still functioning properly. So, I can count that out.
I have confidence, and I love meeting new people, so we can factor that out.

I think it may be because I've grown apathetic or I would much rather wait around to see where things go... even though I still desire sex a lot.

I've been hanging out with a girl for the past few days.
She is excellent, and it is possible that we are going to date even though we have not spoke of it. Kind of an unspoken thing.
We've not had sex either.
I am thinking that just maybe I am allowing things to slow down simply because of past relationships.
Or maybe I really have become apathetic.

So, I am asking you, the reader... what do you think the problem is, even though I didn't give enough information?
Anything will help, and maybe it will get me going again.

-Russ

maybe youre just... uh... growing up?

let nature take its course..............

You must like cats...

damn double posting

Wow. Really good call. I absolutely adore cats.

Thats right.

I love sex. Don't get me wrong.
I also love having someone to hold, talk to, cuddle with, and help me see a blue sky when there is none.

I don't see myself getting married.
If I do, it will be in another 10 years, at least.

Maybe I just am growing up, or maybe I am too independent.

*shrugs*

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