to be honest love never really stuck around for me so really hoping I find the right one even though love takes time and alot hard work to be willing to be there for one another not just give up if something happens but being able to apologize for mistake each other made or about fight you started holdind each other up and willing to be there through storms is what love means to me

The best relationships I have been in, I never had to fight for each other...we both just wanted to make it work I guess. Now it might feel like it is just two of us against the world but a good relationship should never need to even be questioned.

That's so true the best love comes within you and yourself

Love works out the way you are. In other words, what resonates with you.
If you have a skewed belief & view about relationships, that's what you will attract & manifest.
If your self-esteem and self-love, feeling of worthiness, are low, you cannot attract a great partner.

If you have a good healthy view & belief of relationships, healthy levels of self-love and self-esteem, it shouldn't be very difficult.

Love certainly isn't hard work and fighting for it to last and so on.
In a good relationship you may have the occasional bump, but you talk about it and move on.

If you had a good relationship, you would not be on here.

Let's not forget this is both a dating and social site, you can be here for one or the other or both. In my opinion there needs to be that mutual attraction, similar goals, values, and compatibility, and wanting to make things work. Taking the time to learn about each other by becoming best of friends, before making the big leap in to marriage or living together.

Not necessarily
I have four wives and am still here 🤷

why I am here is to use my voice from past relationships not here say I'm here because I'm perfect at them. I'm here because its a free damn country.

Well, I'm glad you are here, hoping to catch the benefit of your voice on relationships.

"If you had a good relationship, you would not be on here."

Sometimes your spouse dies.

This sounds so intriguing to read, even though I still have to wonder why are you still on here if you have a perfect relationship, I hope you are not trying to cheat ?