im a 23 y/o mother witout a hubby and i dont need a hubby

lol Party Like A Rockstar Then

Righteous!!!

nah hun am working 24/7 lol

Husband's are WAY over rated most of the time anyway how old is ur daughter? I have an almost 2 and 4 year old, and after the separation the only thing that has changed is oh, well nothing..haha.. i still do everything like before!

shes 4 y/o lil gal hun hows ur kids?

ok ok a man's view here...
Husband's are over rated, this i know cause my Ma raised 2 kids by herself. now the only thing that changes is the fact that you dont get enough..umm "fun" thats it...and that can be fixed. Now I'm not sayin Guys are overrated (oh wait most are) but some arent the "raise a kid type" but thats fine cause i see that more kids that are raised by Ma the better...


Momma Knows best!!

I aint tryin to kiss rear here either!!

u can say dat again mother is da best

Well it would be nice if the men folk would participate in their kids lives and while i think husbands maybe overrated,fathers are very important too unless abusive.

I feel you girl i have alil one and the fatha beat the **** outta me after i had him

Flame suit on.

Did momma teach you to be a man?

Husbands may be overrated, but fathers are underrated.

I was raised by a single mom myself, but isn't the whole child rearing thing much easier with two parents around? That's my point, pure and simple. I'm not knocking single moms.

I darn sure am NOT saying single parents need to run out and find a mom/dad ASAP.

Single parents have to steel themselves against a fast paced uncaring world any way they can. But the children do not know how to do so.

OK, enough cold water, you can go back to husband bashing.

Husbands may be overrated, but fathers are underrated.

Amen!

Flame suit on.

Did momma teach you to be a man?

Husbands may be overrated, but fathers are underrated.

I was raised by a single mom myself, but isn't the whole child rearing thing much easier with two parents around? That's my point, pure and simple. I'm not knocking single moms.

I darn sure am NOT saying single parents need to run out and find a mom/dad ASAP.

Single parents have to steel themselves against a fast paced uncaring world any way they can. But the children do not know how to do so.

OK, enough cold water, you can go back to husband bashing.



Ok first off what do ya mean By "flame suit"? If you are sayin Im gay you off coarse here. My Mother raised 2 kids i was a 30 weeker in 84 i wasnt suppose to live, second there were times when we had the money for rent but not for food so my mom poaches squirrel...yeah country as hell, but better then lettin your kids starve!! My Ma has 2 replaced knees because she was takin care of us kids. I grew up to be not only a soldier but a tried and true Southern Gent. and no matter what i will always Hate my rela father for beatin my Ma round like a punchin bag, to this day i would go to his funeral and out 6 rounds in his coffin and piss on his grave cause of what he did. Now yes i did get a father figure in my life and he's still here, but my mom did 95% of the work, my father only donated the sperm.

OK, teaching suit on. ;)

From the early days of the Internet there was usenet. People talked just like we do here on this board today. When two or more people get into a verbal pissing contest, it was and still is, called a flame war. So, when someone says flame suit on, or /flame suit it means they are going to say something that they know might be taken the wrong way, or is prone to inciting discord. Even this explanation can be seen as condescending although it is not meant to be.

Moving on. My point was, and still is, do not underrate the father's role.

I am sorry you had/have a crappy dad. Forgive and move on when you are ready. Remember, forgiveness is not about legitimizing their conduct, it is about acceptance and growth within yourself.

I am a former Marine, so I may in time forgive your poor choice for service to our country. ;)

New Once a Marine Always a Marine...
Im in Iraq as i type you this response, and do aplogize for my rant but im just tired of the war im tired of knowin that some ppl will just walk away when they know about abuse of any kind, im just saddened by what our country has become.

well i'm not youngy, 41 and a single mom here, Its tough no matter what age you are and bein single.

I would gladly welcome the father's help, support, time spent with his son, etc. But I dont know where he is and he has NEVER tried to make contact with me.


therefore, anyone that is wanting to have a relationship with a 41 yr old woman, with a 4 yr old son... let me know

What's the point in ahving a guy around when you got a baby? You get attention, love and devotion without question and never have to worry about them waking up one morning and deciding that they hate your guts! babies are better than men any day!

i agree lol