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Topic: More questions from me
stevenpwis Joined Sat 10/20/07 Posts: 999	Thu 01/03/08 11:52 AM
My question for people, hopefully some women can answer this for me. I am a very quiet person and I know women like a great conversationalist for one of the qualities in a man. I am slowly learning how to be better at conversation, but are there any women in the world who likes a quiet guy?

Hawaiigurl Joined Tue 02/27/07 Posts: 3265	Thu 01/03/08 11:54 AM
Quiet is good to SOME extent...but I rather have a guy who likes to talk and laugh when its appropriate and quiet when needed..

JayOhEeh Joined Tue 01/01/08 Posts: 294	Thu 01/03/08 11:55 AM
Surprisingly enough, there are. You'll find that many more women out there prefer the reserved type than they let on. More than anything, most women look for a balance. Knowing when you should be talkative and when you should be quiet is a very powerful tool in a relationship. Knowing when it's best to let silence do the talking will better any relationship.

Winx Joined Fri 08/31/07 Posts: 39051	Thu 01/03/08 11:56 AM
Being on the quiet side is not necessarily a bad thing. Conversation is great though. But..on the other side of the coin, I find men that talk way toooo much and cut me off when I am trying to say a sentence - annoying.

semiloco2007 Joined Wed 09/26/07 Posts: 232	Thu 01/03/08 11:56 AM
Yes all of them, dude all you need to do is learn the art of asking a simple question and then keeping you mouth shut hahahahaha. Example: "so tell me honey how do you feel about the new fall fasions this year" and then just shut up and listen to them ramble. hahahaha just kidding ladies.

stevenpwis Joined Sat 10/20/07 Posts: 999	Thu 01/03/08 11:57 AM
don't get me wrong, I do talk, just not as much as I should I guess

Gypsy41 Joined Tue 05/15/07 Posts: 123359	Thu 01/03/08 11:59 AM
My son's dad was good looking until he opened his mouth...

Rosebud2669 Joined Wed 12/26/07 Posts: 86	Thu 01/03/08 12:00 PM
I am a quiet person! I don't talk much and I should but that is me.

stevenpwis Joined Sat 10/20/07 Posts: 999	Thu 01/03/08 12:01 PM
my ex always tried getting me to talk, she would stare at me which would put me on the spot and i would get nervous.

stevenpwis Joined Sat 10/20/07 Posts: 999	Thu 01/03/08 12:02 PM
she tried to change me

pms64 Joined Thu 09/14/06 Posts: 1143	Thu 01/03/08 12:02 PM
Nothing at all wrong with a quiet guy, as long as he does talk once in awhile.

katydid34 Joined Mon 08/20/07 Posts: 659	Thu 01/03/08 12:03 PM
My son's dad was good looking until he opened his mouth... ahahahaha, i've known people like that too :)

katydid34 Joined Mon 08/20/07 Posts: 659	Thu 01/03/08 12:04 PM
I like quiet guys who answer emails when I send them. :P

lilith401 Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 19593	Thu 01/03/08 12:07 PM
My question for people, hopefully some women can answer this for me. I am a very quiet person and I know women like a great conversationalist for one of the qualities in a man. I am slowly learning how to be better at conversation, but are there any women in the world who likes a quiet guy? Steven: From the short period of time I've been posting, I have to say I have seen no shortage of comments and participation from you in written format. Stop typing and start talking out loud and you'll be fine.

Sex_Eye_Need Joined Tue 12/25/07 Posts: 119	Thu 01/03/08 12:13 PM
Sometimes, well most of the time, it's the quality of the conversation, not the quantity, that stimulates the mind of the strange creature we call woman.

stevenpwis Joined Sat 10/20/07 Posts: 999	Thu 01/03/08 12:15 PM
My question for people, hopefully some women can answer this for me. I am a very quiet person and I know women like a great conversationalist for one of the qualities in a man. I am slowly learning how to be better at conversation, but are there any women in the world who likes a quiet guy? Steven: From the short period of time I've been posting, I have to say I have seen no shortage of comments and participation from you in written format. Stop typing and start talking out loud and you'll be fine. The only problem is, I don't know if you've noticed, most of my topics were about one thing and that was the girl that I was with for a month and a half. I basically posted since day one of that short relationship. I just can't figure out what to talk about when I do talk.

stevenpwis Joined Sat 10/20/07 Posts: 999	Thu 01/03/08 12:16 PM Edited by stevenpwis on Thu 01/03/08 12:18 PM
Sometimes, well most of the time, it's the quality of the conversation, not the quantity, that stimulates the mind of the strange creature we call woman. My ex would actually put me down because I would have a conversation that only consisted of 2 to 4 sentences, she would tell me to make them longer.

Rosebud2669 Joined Wed 12/26/07 Posts: 86	Thu 01/03/08 12:19 PM
she tried to change me She shouldn't have tried to change you the only person that can change you is you and you will have to want to change. So be who you are and you will find the right person for you.

maraskia74 Joined Mon 12/03/07 Posts: 1017	Thu 01/03/08 12:21 PM
hell ya i lov quite guys, iam shy too, but once i get to know you good luck shutting me up lol

lilith401 Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 19593	Thu 01/03/08 12:33 PM
My The only problem is, I don't know if you've noticed, most of my topics were about one thing and that was the girl that I was with for a month and a half. I basically posted since day one of that short relationship. I just can't figure out what to talk about when I do talk. Steven- I never said that would fix it.. I said you'd be fine, but not tomorrow. You need to start somewhere, and there is no "quick fix" to your problem. There is a person in my life who often reminds me we all need to "look within" and if you truly want to improve yourself and be more socially "normal" than start with that. If you start nowhere, you get nowhere.