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Okay so I have another opinion on this matter maybe I'm right maybe I'm wrong. But............. here it is never less.
I have looked at your profile yeah I perved ya hehehehe Shshshs. But being serious your a very good looking man. It could very well be that the women feel that they would not even have a chance with you. So they tend to stand back and not approach you in order not to be let down in the process of it. Just like the case of some men that come upon a lady that looks like a model they tend to hang back for they feel as if they would not have a chance with them.  But as far as beibg intimidated by you think it is more or less they are afraid to be turned down or not good enough for you. Therefore they tend to wait for you to make the first move.  I hate to say it but even I to this day if I see someone that is real good looking and I feel I don't have a chance I do tend to stay back and observe as well.  Maybe that will put a little light into it for you.
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Chuck, I've seen you a little around here and there, to me, you don't come across as intimidating. Just be true to who you are. People will either be ok with it or they won't, but changing or wondering if you should change for someone else, not really worth your time. No matter what, if you're ok with yourself, that's all that really matters. Oh I'm not changing for anyone sweetie, been there done that. |
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Chuck, I've seen you a little around here and there, to me, you don't come across as intimidating. Just be true to who you are. People will either be ok with it or they won't, but changing or wondering if you should change for someone else, not really worth your time. No matter what, if you're ok with yourself, that's all that really matters. Oh I'm not changing for anyone sweetie, been there done that. Good 
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Okay so I have another opinion on this matter maybe I'm right maybe I'm wrong. But............. here it is never less. I have looked at your profile yeah I perved ya hehehehe Shshshs. But being serious your a very good looking man. It could very well be that the women feel that they would not even have a chance with you. So they tend to stand back and not approach you in order not to be let down in the process of it. Just like the case of some men that come upon a lady that looks like a model they tend to hang back for they feel as if they would not have a chance with them. But as far as beibg intimidated by you think it is more or less they are afraid to be turned down or not good enough for you. Therefore they tend to wait for you to make the first move. I hate to say it but even I to this day if I see someone that is real good looking and I feel I don't have a chance I do tend to stay back and observe as well. Maybe that will put a little light into it for you. I don t know the answer but even the "model types" don t intimidate me, eveyone puts their pants on one leg at a time. Maybe its their lack of confidence I guess |
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Okay so I have another opinion on this matter maybe I'm right maybe I'm wrong. But............. here it is never less. I have looked at your profile yeah I perved ya hehehehe Shshshs. But being serious your a very good looking man. It could very well be that the women feel that they would not even have a chance with you. So they tend to stand back and not approach you in order not to be let down in the process of it. Just like the case of some men that come upon a lady that looks like a model they tend to hang back for they feel as if they would not have a chance with them. But as far as beibg intimidated by you think it is more or less they are afraid to be turned down or not good enough for you. Therefore they tend to wait for you to make the first move. I hate to say it but even I to this day if I see someone that is real good looking and I feel I don't have a chance I do tend to stay back and observe as well. Maybe that will put a little light into it for you. I don t know the answer but even the "model types" don t intimidate me, eveyone puts their pants on one leg at a time. Maybe its their lack of confidence I guess Humm maybe your right about that but I have seen the same with my son he has turned out to be a very good looking man and have noticed that the girls tend to shy back on him as well. But I have noticed he goes for all types of girls he don't just go for the real pretty ones it all depends on there personality. |
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Okay so I have another opinion on this matter maybe I'm right maybe I'm wrong. But............. here it is never less. I have looked at your profile yeah I perved ya hehehehe Shshshs. But being serious your a very good looking man. It could very well be that the women feel that they would not even have a chance with you. So they tend to stand back and not approach you in order not to be let down in the process of it. Just like the case of some men that come upon a lady that looks like a model they tend to hang back for they feel as if they would not have a chance with them. But as far as beibg intimidated by you think it is more or less they are afraid to be turned down or not good enough for you. Therefore they tend to wait for you to make the first move. I hate to say it but even I to this day if I see someone that is real good looking and I feel I don't have a chance I do tend to stay back and observe as well. Maybe that will put a little light into it for you. I don t know the answer but even the "model types" don t intimidate me, eveyone puts their pants on one leg at a time. Maybe its their lack of confidence I guess Humm maybe your right about that but I have seen the same with my son he has turned out to be a very good looking man and have noticed that the girls tend to shy back on him as well. But I have noticed he goes for all types of girls he don't just go for the real pretty ones it all depends on there personality. he must look like his mom |
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I kind of understand what you are saying now. I have that myself. I think what they mean is that you are an attractive man. That through some insecurities that they have within themselves they are scared to approach you and face rejection. It isn't you fault. You just need to find a strong secure women that has enough confidence in herself. Good luck.  I feel i'm more attractive inside than out. The problem is they have to be confident enough to get to know the inside.JMO |
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I kind of understand what you are saying now. I have that myself. I think what they mean is that you are an attractive man. That through some insecurities that they have within themselves they are scared to approach you and face rejection. It isn't you fault. You just need to find a strong secure women that has enough confidence in herself. Good luck. I feel i'm more attractive inside than out. The problem is they have to be confident enough to get to know the inside.JMO There lies the issue........ whats JMO? your initials? |
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just my opinion
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maybe because you have a strong sexy manly jaw??!!!
 
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just my opinion oh D'oh |
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maybe because you have a strong sexy manly jaw??!!! I kiss well too......just never get to that point ...........lol |
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Okay so I have another opinion on this matter maybe I'm right maybe I'm wrong. But............. here it is never less. I have looked at your profile yeah I perved ya hehehehe Shshshs. But being serious your a very good looking man. It could very well be that the women feel that they would not even have a chance with you. So they tend to stand back and not approach you in order not to be let down in the process of it. Just like the case of some men that come upon a lady that looks like a model they tend to hang back for they feel as if they would not have a chance with them. But as far as beibg intimidated by you think it is more or less they are afraid to be turned down or not good enough for you. Therefore they tend to wait for you to make the first move. I hate to say it but even I to this day if I see someone that is real good looking and I feel I don't have a chance I do tend to stay back and observe as well. Maybe that will put a little light into it for you. I don t know the answer but even the "model types" don t intimidate me, eveyone puts their pants on one leg at a time. Maybe its their lack of confidence I guess Humm maybe your right about that but I have seen the same with my son he has turned out to be a very good looking man and have noticed that the girls tend to shy back on him as well. But I have noticed he goes for all types of girls he don't just go for the real pretty ones it all depends on there personality. he must look like his mom  awww now your just too sweet and can't figure out why the women are not falling all over you as well. Shshshshs do they need a shove or what. Cause I have looked back at what you have said on other threads and see that you are not rude or crude just joking around and having a good time along the way. Which in life you must do. Myself if I was you I would not worry what someone else has said its there problem not yours. Some have problems of there own and well the only way they know how to deal with life is to put it off on someone else. You seem fine to me just as you are. Ohhh by the way your son looks just like his Dad sure your very proud of him as well. Just be yourself and let the others figure out there own problems you seem to have enough confidence and they need to get there own. |
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Okay so I have another opinion on this matter maybe I'm right maybe I'm wrong. But............. here it is never less. I have looked at your profile yeah I perved ya hehehehe Shshshs. But being serious your a very good looking man. It could very well be that the women feel that they would not even have a chance with you. So they tend to stand back and not approach you in order not to be let down in the process of it. Just like the case of some men that come upon a lady that looks like a model they tend to hang back for they feel as if they would not have a chance with them. But as far as beibg intimidated by you think it is more or less they are afraid to be turned down or not good enough for you. Therefore they tend to wait for you to make the first move. I hate to say it but even I to this day if I see someone that is real good looking and I feel I don't have a chance I do tend to stay back and observe as well. Maybe that will put a little light into it for you. I don t know the answer but even the "model types" don t intimidate me, eveyone puts their pants on one leg at a time. Maybe its their lack of confidence I guess Humm maybe your right about that but I have seen the same with my son he has turned out to be a very good looking man and have noticed that the girls tend to shy back on him as well. But I have noticed he goes for all types of girls he don't just go for the real pretty ones it all depends on there personality. he must look like his mom awww now your just too sweet and can't figure out why the women are not falling all over you as well. Shshshshs do they need a shove or what. Cause I have looked back at what you have said on other threads and see that you are not rude or crude just joking around and having a good time along the way. Which in life you must do. Myself if I was you I would not worry what someone else has said its there problem not yours. Some have problems of there own and well the only way they know how to deal with life is to put it off on someone else. You seem fine to me just as you are. Ohhh by the way your son looks just like his Dad sure your very proud of him as well. Just be yourself and let the others figure out there own problems you seem to have enough confidence and they need to get there own. Its not that I'm worried at all, its more of interested,everydays a good day in my world, but ty |
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Edited by
catchme_ifucan
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Thu 01/03/08 09:31 AM
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you saying I dance like a whiteboy?   Let's hope so! <<<<<<<<<<<<<<< & not Sceeered 
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you saying I dance like a whiteboy? Let's hope so! <<<<<<<<<<<<<<< & not Sceeered woooohoooo |
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Intimidating?
Pshaaaaaaaawwwww,,your just a big flirt,,,,
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Intimidating? Pshaaaaaaaawwwww,,your just a big flirt,,,,
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I get that as well.....I initimidate men....and have been told by men. When I ask them why I initimidate them they say........."look at you"........I dont get it.....Im not a supermodel......
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You don't seem unapproachable to me, but hell I am just an older gal, so I guess I would be way past that stage, you look like the type of man that would want a model on your arm though, but that's just stereotyping and a lot of peeps do that...so I guess as people get to know ya more and more, they will warm up to the idea that your just a man out there looking for love the same as the rest of us....
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