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Chuck, I looked at your profile, I see nothing intimidating about you. How are you approaching ppl???? I have no problem approaching people , its more like they don t approach me until I initiate and then I ask why didn t you just come up and say hi,,,,,,,then bang "intimidated" its like wow, sak up. |
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Hmm, have you ever asked those who called you intimidating to see what exactly they mean by that?
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Chuck, I looked at your profile, I see nothing intimidating about you. How are you approaching ppl???? I have no problem approaching people , its more like they don t approach me until I initiate and then I ask why didn t you just come up and say hi,,,,,,,then bang "intimidated" its like wow, sak up. Well, keep approaching ppl, it sounds like the only way you will get to meet ppl. Good luck! |
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Hmm, have you ever asked those who called you intimidating to see what exactly they mean by that? I don t get to deep into it, just makes me go hmmmmmmmmm |
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Chuck, I looked at your profile, I see nothing intimidating about you. How are you approaching ppl???? I have no problem approaching people , its more like they don t approach me until I initiate and then I ask why didn t you just come up and say hi,,,,,,,then bang "intimidated" its like wow, sak up. Well, keep approaching ppl, it sounds like the only way you will get to meet ppl. Good luck! good advice,,,,,,,,lol |
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Chuck, I had an ex girlfriend tell me I was very intimidating as well.
Between you and me, I just think it's our mix of intelligence and good looks ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Too much for them to handle! ![]() |
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Chuck, I had an ex girlfriend tell me I was very intimidating as well. Between you and me, I just think it's our mix of intelligence and good looks ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Too much for them to handle! ![]() maybe |
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Honestly I don't know what it is because I don't think I'm intimidating either.
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Chuck, I had an ex girlfriend tell me I was very intimidating as well. Between you and me, I just think it's our mix of intelligence and good looks ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() Too much for them to handle! ![]() This has been happening for a while, I don t feel unapproachable, im a humble guy , |
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I kind of understand what you are saying now. I have that myself. I think what they mean is that you are an attractive man. That through some insecurities that they have within themselves they are scared to approach you and face rejection. It isn't you fault. You just need to find a strong secure women that has enough confidence in herself. Good luck.
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![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() <<<~~~~~is not intimidated!! ![]() |
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I kind of understand what you are saying now. I have that myself. I think what they mean is that you are an attractive man. That through some insecurities that they have within themselves they are scared to approach you and face rejection. It isn't you fault. You just need to find a strong secure women that has enough confidence in herself. Good luck. ![]() I feel i'm more attractive inside than out. |
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![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() <<<~~~~~is not intimidated!! ![]() you have not met me in person, I can be a handful |
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Edited by
s1owhand
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Thu 01/03/08 08:26 AM
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it could be your body language or the way you communicate in person it can be a subtle thing in your personal style. some people are quite sensitive to that. you should ask one of them.
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![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() <<<~~~~~is not intimidated!! ![]() you have not met me in person, I can be a handful ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() |
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Hi! Just maybe you come over to people as to over confident thus making yourself intimidating to many, maybe its just a cover for your real self ! If it is best dump it!
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Hi! Just maybe you come over to people as to over confident thus making yourself intimidating to many, maybe its just a cover for your real self ! If it is best dump it! nah, Im not a fake, I'm true to myself.......my real self has come out years ago, confident yea. why not. I like who I have become |
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![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() <<<~~~~~is not intimidated!! ![]() you have not met me in person, I can be a handful ![]() ![]() ![]() ![]() fresh girl ![]() |
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it could be your body language or the way you communicate in person it can be a subtle thing in your personal style. some people are quite sensitive to that. you should ask one of them. you saying I dance like a whiteboy? ![]() |
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Chuck, I've seen you a little around here and there, to me, you don't come across as intimidating. Just be true to who you are. People will either be ok with it or they won't, but changing or wondering if you should change for someone else, not really worth your time. No matter what, if you're ok with yourself, that's all that really matters.
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