I have been in and out of relationships and I have to admit, that one way or the other, I have been told that I do not know how to Love (not just once or twice..),.. pathetic.. maybe or maybe I was just with the wrong person.. How do you know if you have been in love?How do you know if you should go and give it another shot or to just call it quits with someone?.. how the hell do you know?.. I am so sick and tired of it, people always say.. when you find the right person.. you'll know.. but the thing is.. I dont know.. help me out before I decide to just be single forever and just decide to throw in the towel and live alone in this world.. I have thought about that most of the time...

relationships in and out of it.. hmmp...

Hmmmm I don't know I've been told I love too much lol. I guess you just have to live and learn.

and plus.. i am a single mom..

I'll send you an e-mail

thanks chasteh.. when you say love unconditionally.. what does that really mean? call me insensitive.. but i as i was thinking..maybe ive been numb already..

thanks fresno.. have you ever been in love?

I have, and maybe I will again............someday!

SWEETHEART UR SUCH A BEAUTIFUL WOMAN AND NEVER LET ANYONE TELL U THAT U DON'T LOVE THEM PROPERLY.....HAVE THEY EVER CONSIDERED IT MAY B THEM?????? I'VE BEEN SINGLE FOR NEARLY 5YRS NOW AND STILL KNOW THAT RIGHT GUY IS OUT THERE BABE WE JUST GORRA FIND HIM......AND WE WILL WHEN IT'S MEANT TO HAPPEN AND IT WILL!!!! WE WILL NEVER B ALONE IN LIFE BABE.....I'M SURE LOTS OF PEOPLE LOVE U FOR WHO U R AND NEVER CHANGE URSELF 4 ANYONE, MAY I WISH U ALL THE BEST IN LIFE AND NEVER GIVE UP HUN IT WILL COME TO U WHEN THE TIME IS RIGHT XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX

Love is unconditional! Love can also blind you! Love is , you will feel it.

I envy you and to all those people who can actually say and admit that..how can you actually say that?

Yes.. With my former wife of 18 years.... will never allow myself to feel that way again

Masey- Can you be any more specific? There are many ways to love and be loved. You know if you're in love-- all those people aren't wrong. Love cannot be restrained into parameters that would fit here and is not the same for everyone. If you can imagine yourself without the person and aren't more than irritated or discomfitted that they're gone.. that wasn't love. I think it's easier to examine yourself and determine what you think love is first. Because you're the one that has to live your life and the only one who can feel your feelings. Just keep in mind some people find it late, some never do, and some mistake lust for love. But if you find love, you'll be off "loving" and you'll not question it.

hi hw r u

I was with my former wife of 17 years, that was over 3 years ago and I hope like hell I can find the love I had for her to share with another!! I will just not allow LOVE to BLIND me again!

Thanks trinette for the compliment.. but im really serious.. I do have friends yes..but the fact that all of them are almost in a long term relationship is what is really bothering me.. how come I cant stay in one and they can? how does a girlfriend suppose to be with their boyfriend? Are you suppose to be submissive or just play it cool or be playful ?????

Just be YOU!!!!

Thats cool... i just never want to hurt after a break up like that again....

Hi everyone. I think that once you experience that REAL LOVE, you can never get it back. You can come close, but never get the real one back again. I was deeply in love with my girls father, together for many years. Then he started cheating on me. That right there killed the love I did have for him. I've been single a long time now. Maybe one day I will find another man to love, but, it will never be the same. Hopefully, it will be much, much better the second time around.

i have been in love on a few occasions. and it is correct to say that there is no denying it when it happens. there is a psychological and a biological response to someone which is simply overwhelming when you find someone who is especially compatible with you and who also finds you especially compatible with them.

unconditional love is the purest. it is the love of a child for her mother. you love them for being who and what they are with absolutely no other condition and it is reciprocal. they put your interest above their own.

that is why it is called "falling" in love. there is no control in falling. you don't even need to take a misstep. once you are in the air, you fall.

so, if you know about putting someone else's interest above your own - you may already know more about love than you realize!