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Topic: L-O-V-E
chuck366 Joined Tue 10/16/07 Posts: 4666	Wed 01/02/08 10:16 AM
Uh oh masey I think I figured this out. Do your freinds and family call you ice princess for the reason you stated or because you are the type of person who over anylizes everything and intentionally puts excuses and obstacles in your own way of having a decent relationship? hmmmm...maybe I do overanalize.. and maybe I keep comparing myself and my relationships with others.. is that bad? . Only if it becomes habitual. Mr. Rights not going to have much patience with it. I don't feel you are drastic about it. I have seen others make a habit out of putting obstacles in the way and its monotonous and unproductive and becomes overbearing. Masey you are very smart. You are highly educated. You are fairly set in your directions in your life. I don't see you being too analytical. I see you being selective just like the rest of us which makes you wonderfully normal in my opinion. And thanks goofball for going easy on her. She's legitimate and refreshing compared to other posts. Don't you agree? See that's my point..if he thinks he is Mr. Right, then he should have the patience for me.. Thanks for the all the compliment, its nice to see that some people still see that in me, thanks for seing that..and being sensitive enough to go on easy on a girl whos just lost in thougt and is just completely clueless on this LOVE thing.. I mean sometimes I think that work is easier than heartly matters. Conflicts in work can be defined, measured, set a limit to.. but heartly matters.. tsk tsk tsk.. My grandfather used to say if you think of her when you masterbate, its love!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

maseygirl Joined Thu 03/15/07 Posts: 721	Wed 01/02/08 10:18 AM
im dumbfounded..

maseygirl Joined Thu 03/15/07 Posts: 721	Wed 01/02/08 10:19 AM


chuck366 Joined Tue 10/16/07 Posts: 4666	Wed 01/02/08 10:19 AM


longhairbiker Joined Tue 09/04/07 Posts: 26589	Wed 01/02/08 10:20 AM
(starts singing to myself) Whoa baby if I can't get love can I have a little sugar? Uh uh oh yeeeaaaahh! Oh baby if I can't have yo respect can I have some slim trim instead cuz I got booty on me mind uh huh! Shake it! You won't break it! Wanna kiss her but she's too damn tall. She smiled, said don't mean a thing when you're horizontal! Oooh weee! I think I'm falling in lust! Oh yeah baby! Zat be down! Lust? Word! Uh huh uh huh!

longhairbiker Joined Tue 09/04/07 Posts: 26589	Wed 01/02/08 10:25 AM
Sorry I got the hiccups. I mean hip hops.

maseygirl Joined Thu 03/15/07 Posts: 721	Wed 01/02/08 10:28 AM


longhairbiker Joined Tue 09/04/07 Posts: 26589	Wed 01/02/08 10:31 AM
I'm hopeful and simple. I would be happy to find someone with a smile as charming as maseys. And I would try my utmost and to the best of my ability to ensure that smile never leaves her face. That's love and dedication.

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Wed 01/02/08 10:33 AM
Just be thankful we don't live in a country where your marriage is planned out. I mean, how would you like to be arranged to some guy who is uglier than sin, has bad acne, but he is the Prince (for some f*cked up reason) and you were always meant for him cause you dumb ass parents couldn't pay there land taxes? So be grateful.

chuck366 Joined Tue 10/16/07 Posts: 4666	Wed 01/02/08 10:34 AM
sound like my ex, minus the wealthiness

maseygirl Joined Thu 03/15/07 Posts: 721	Wed 01/02/08 10:34 AM
aaawwww... thats sweet, thank you.. now if men could just be their sweetest selves everyday for the rest of my life then i would be the happiest girl in the whole world.. why dont men just be like that?.. spout each day undyling love to their spouses and better halves instead of just playing cool .. i mean, thats why were women, your suppose to be gentle when it comes to us, ..you can be your rowdy selves with the other menfolk, but be different with us..

maseygirl Joined Thu 03/15/07 Posts: 721	Wed 01/02/08 10:36 AM
im learning...see ladies.. if we are nice to them they sing to you.. :)

chuck366 Joined Tue 10/16/07 Posts: 4666	Wed 01/02/08 10:37 AM
aaawwww... thats sweet, thank you.. now if men could just be their sweetest selves everyday for the rest of my life then i would be the happiest girl in the whole world.. why dont men just be like that?.. spout each day undyling love to their spouses and better halves instead of just playing cool .. i mean, thats why were women, your suppose to be gentle when it comes to us, ..you can be your rowdy selves with the other menfolk, but be different with us.. If I had one I would.

maseygirl Joined Thu 03/15/07 Posts: 721	Wed 01/02/08 10:37 AM
Just be thankful we don't live in a country where your marriage is planned out. I mean, how would you like to be arranged to some guy who is uglier than sin, has bad acne, but he is the Prince (for some f*cked up reason) and you were always meant for him cause you dumb ass parents couldn't pay there land taxes? So be grateful. Point taken.. im gratefull

longhairbiker Joined Tue 09/04/07 Posts: 26589	Wed 01/02/08 10:38 AM
Masey if even once that man removes your charming smile from your face he's not the right one. Don't let your relationships end disasterously because you want something to hold onto. When its over its over. Move on. Let your instinct rule over your desire and hope for something that is gone.

maseygirl Joined Thu 03/15/07 Posts: 721	Wed 01/02/08 10:43 AM
thanks longhair.. i shall remember that..

longhairbiker Joined Tue 09/04/07 Posts: 26589	Wed 01/02/08 10:53 AM
Masey don't get us wrong. You are currently talking to some of the brightest, most vocal, quick witted gentleman on here. If you would have started a repeatedly overdone thread like "why are all men pigs/dogs/crap/garbage/liars/scum/dishonest/buttheads and or where are all the good men/women/inflatable sheep" you may have seen us in a different light. Never forget we are men. We are sometimes predictable and simple. But we are not stupid. We are but only when the right threads tickle our fancy. And only then do we lower our standards and stoop as low in intellegence as the original poster.

Goofball73 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 33913	Wed 01/02/08 10:54 AM
Allow me to suggest also to not go looking for love....cause you never find it and it is frustrating as all get out. Sit back, and one day while you are contemplating the dynamics of the sponge, love will find you. It just happens that way.

longhairbiker Joined Tue 09/04/07 Posts: 26589	Wed 01/02/08 11:02 AM
And goofball had a good point about arranged marriages and freedoms of choice. Masey are you residing in P.I.? Do they still have arranged marriages there at all? I know they had some in class and caste there maybe 80 years ago. I was just curious.

maseygirl Joined Thu 03/15/07 Posts: 721	Wed 01/02/08 11:02 AM
Allow me to suggest also to not go looking for love....cause you never find it and it is frustrating as all get out. Sit back, and one day while you are contemplating the dynamics of the sponge, love will find you. It just happens that way. Wow.. you seem to fascinate me each time.. hmmmm....interesting..