nope, i dont think so, not unless you live in the mountains sweety (i think..)..

and yes i do have the freedom of choice.. just having a hard time making one..

let your heart make it for ya

It is cause I am so fascinating!

Told ya....I have logical sh*t sometimes. My mommy and daddy did a good job raising me.

So never let that ice princess declaration get to you. I find you open minded and articulate and you have built up my trust and respect enough for that freindship request.

gosh, if i really am in love then i would have to relocate with him and drop everything here, my career, friends and family.. hmmmm.. and risk everything.. now if im not..then life goes on.. start a new again alone..

all for the so called LOVE.. i wish that there was a manual or something to follow..but i guess then that would take the excitement out of it,confussion and the human errors that some people find fascinating.

UUUUUUUuuuuuuuuurgggghhhhh!!!! so, should i go?.. take a risk? he did, he came over here for me..but he's going back to his country now that things didnt work out for us..

I know exactly how you feel...when my relationships end, I never cry! I don't think I have actually been so IN love with someone that I felt like I would die for them. How do you know when you are in love? I don't think you really know! If you did know there wouldn't be so many divorces!! I am sure that everyone that got a divorce swore up and down that was the person for them..was it? Obviously not or they wouldn't be getting a divorce!! I think all it is...is its someone that fits well with you at that time!! I think its all it is, I really think its an easy answer and people like you and I question everything about it to death.
I guess we just need to go with the feeling that if it feels right, then obviously it must be alright. I know I have never had my heart so filled with "love" that I just wanted to be with that person 24 hours a day~~I mean come on, give me a break. Its hard enough to live with that person 24 hours a day during the weekend..I need my space. This is why I have always wondered if I needed to be single!!! So hey, just realize that you are not the only person that feels this way!!!

and yes goofball...you are fascinating...

hehe its like you read my mind
im totally sick of girls tellin me this , of course i was in love before , but hope to be in true love, maybe i wasnt meant to leave my ex,
i feel like im gonna be single forever too
man you truly read my mind girl

hey unsure.. how've you been?.. im still at it.. another failed relationship...

I have been doing good, I like being single...maybe just try being single for a bit! Its really not so bad
Just take your time and who knows what might happen!!!

Things didn't work right? So....the answer is...without a doubt.....NO! Read the signs babe.

i tried being single too.. i was single for 2 and a half years ..but didnt date anybody and just focused on work and career.. i ended up miserable and started drinking wine by myself.. now i have this guy..and hes driving me insane... now im thinking.. which would i rather have?.. but im not sure if hes the "one" .. like worthy enough for me to make the effort.. so im asking people.. of cors.. good old reliable JSH people :)

See post above yours Masey.

Short...sweet....but to the point!

cheers to you.. join the club then..

.................. And this comes from a person who posts solicitation of pity posts on why he can't find a decent woman, and if I was in america I wouldn't be single I'd be taken now because canadian women are not normal and who can forget carisloves post where he asked "what color panties are you wearing?" and "would you like to go out to dinner with me?" in the same sentence! Just pokin fun at ya carislove! Love ya man!

thanks for the info longhair.. peace carislove..

Masey, just out of curiosity.... Was your man an australian?

Johnny Cochran says:

"If you don't KNOW, He's got to GO..."

are serious with that question? nope..hes american. why?

im soo confused..you guys have no idea.,,