Topic: Can you rate my profile?
Er Lin Da's photo
Sun 01/15/23 09:18 AM
Edited by Er Lin Da on Sun 01/15/23 09:19 AM
Hi everyone. I receive likes and nudges and messages. I feel like something is wrong in my profile for receiving messages even from a 24 year old guy and guys who calls me "baby", "honey", "darling" and other sweet endearments even on our first chat. I feel uncomfortable with that and always tell them that I prefer to be called by my name and then I loss my interest to know them more because they might only looking for lust and not love. I want to know if there is something in my profile that makes these guys thinks that I am an easy to get girl for them to talk to me that way. Thanks

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Sun 01/15/23 09:30 AM
Likes are just common, it doesn't mean anyone is seriously interested, secondly every users have same service nothing to worry..

Tell about yourself instead of mingle2 features...
Fill In The Blanks

Good Luck..

motowndowntown's photo
Sun 01/15/23 09:43 AM
Your profile looks fine, much better than a lot of others who ask to be rated.

Don't be too discouraged. It's a free international site and you're bound to get some unwanted messages. Delete them and move on with life.

delightfulillusion's photo
Sun 01/15/23 09:50 AM

Hi everyone. I receive likes and nudges and messages. I feel like something is wrong in my profile for receiving messages even from a 24 year old guy and guys who calls me "baby", "honey", "darling" and other sweet endearments even on our first chat. I feel uncomfortable with that and always tell them that I prefer to be called by my name and then I loss my interest to know them more because they might only looking for lust and not love. I want to know if there is something in my profile that makes these guys thinks that I am an easy to get girl for them to talk to me that way. Thanks


You do know that you can set your email filters to prevent those that don’t interest you from contacting you?

You can do that here https://mingle2.com/inbox/filters

Larsi666 😽's photo
Sun 01/15/23 12:56 PM
I think, it's quite decent. So keep the good spirits up, hang around in the forums and take it from there :blush:

SparklingCrystal πŸ’–πŸ’Ž's photo
Sun 01/15/23 01:45 PM
What's wrong is that it exudes 100% negativity.
After I'd read 2 sentences I was going "UUGGHH!!!"

Good profiles have a happy upbeat vibe to them, not negative AND CERTAINLY NOT SCREAMING THE NEGATIVE.

So in that sense not surprised it isn't working for you...

Er Lin Da's photo
Mon 01/16/23 06:03 AM
Yeah. my bad. I was heartbroken when I posted that profile from a guy here on mingle. Still thinking what should i put there.
thanks for that honest feedback :slight_smile:

Er Lin Da's photo
Mon 01/16/23 06:07 AM
Edited by Er Lin Da on Mon 01/16/23 06:11 AM


Hi everyone. I receive likes and nudges and messages. I feel like something is wrong in my profile for receiving messages even from a 24 year old guy and guys who calls me "baby", "honey", "darling" and other sweet endearments even on our first chat. I feel uncomfortable with that and always tell them that I prefer to be called by my name and then I loss my interest to know them more because they might only looking for lust and not love. I want to know if there is something in my profile that makes these guys thinks that I am an easy to get girl for them to talk to me that way. Thanks


You do know that you can set your email filters to prevent those that don’t interest you from contacting you?

You can do that here https://mingle2.com/inbox/filters


-where can i find that filter thing?is is available to the cp browser?i didnt installed mingle app on the phone

Er Lin Da's photo
Mon 01/16/23 06:12 AM

What's wrong is that it exudes 100% negativity.
After I'd read 2 sentences I was going "UUGGHH!!!"

Good profiles have a happy upbeat vibe to them, not negative AND CERTAINLY NOT SCREAMING THE NEGATIVE.

So in that sense not surprised it isn't working for you...


sorry. my bad. i was heartbroken from a guy here on mingle when i did that. and yeah, i need to post a fresh one. thanks for the honest feedback :slight_smile:

delightfulillusion's photo
Mon 01/16/23 06:18 AM



Hi everyone. I receive likes and nudges and messages. I feel like something is wrong in my profile for receiving messages even from a 24 year old guy and guys who calls me "baby", "honey", "darling" and other sweet endearments even on our first chat. I feel uncomfortable with that and always tell them that I prefer to be called by my name and then I loss my interest to know them more because they might only looking for lust and not love. I want to know if there is something in my profile that makes these guys thinks that I am an easy to get girl for them to talk to me that way. Thanks


You do know that you can set your email filters to prevent those that don’t interest you from contacting you?

You can do that here https://mingle2.com/inbox/filters


-where can i find that filter thing?is is available to the cp browser?i didnt installed mingle app on the phone



Just click on the red link and it’ll take you there directly

SparklingCrystal πŸ’–πŸ’Ž's photo
Mon 01/16/23 07:50 AM

Yeah. my bad. I was heartbroken when I posted that profile from a guy here on mingle. Still thinking what should i put there.
thanks for that honest feedback :slight_smile:

Well, learn from the experience and remember to not write a profile text when you don't feel good!

If you want advice on how to write a good one... use Google. Plenty of great tips on there!

YukonGentleman's photo
Mon 01/16/23 06:22 PM
Your profile is actually quite good, and a lot better than many on here. I like the humour that you use. However, overall it feels more negative than positive. I would change that which should bring your profile from good, to excellent.

Oh, and men can be idiots. And, pigs. I don't know why; niceness works a lot better in my opinion, but....

Diva59's photo
Mon 01/16/23 06:59 PM
I dont think that you reflect by the way you look that someone has to call you baby. Youre not the only one that receives those kind of messages. I have received them also, all I do is to tell them how I feel about it, and I stop communicating.

Larsi666 😽's photo
Tue 01/17/23 07:05 AM

I dont think that you reflect by the way you look that someone has to call you baby. Youre not the only one that receives those kind of messages. I have received them also, all I do is to tell them how I feel about it, and I stop communicating.


I wouldn't even go that far. I would block them straight away. Telling someone not to call me any fancy names and why, could open a can of worms ... as in people trying to justify themselves.

Prettie 's photo
Fri 01/20/23 01:34 AM
Online dating has a lot of scammers. Not everyone on the site has good intentions. I equally get irrelevant and unnecessary messages, my advise is delete, block and move on. There is someone for everyone. Stay positive!

Mr Good Guy's photo
Fri 01/20/23 07:55 AM

Online dating has a lot of scammers. Not everyone on the site has good intentions. I equally get irrelevant and unnecessary messages, my advise is delete, block and move on. There is someone for everyone. Stay positive!
or deactivate?