How to put it? Personally, I think that if a man really wants to be with you, he will respect you, so he can't start talking about sex with you after only knowing you for a few days. Therefore, most of these men are not looking for marriage, they just miss Bai Piao once, and these men are really disgusting.

Why should we look for marriage in the first place? Is this a dating or marriage website

yes,agree, friends first,get to know each other and dont judge...allow each to be who they want to be..a good road to mutual respect

If you don't like the chat with them online you just end the conversation, some people don't deserve your time why waste it on them, spend your time on those of interest to you.

Welcome to Mingle2 and Good Luck in your search.

Bai paiao???
Don't tell me you all know what that is as I don't have a clue!

Also don't see the point of the message, but alas. Kind of like posting "The sky is blue!" or "grass is green". Deuuuhhh...

Each person is individualized and perceive life events differently. Some women/men feel it is an important issue to discuss, and some joke about the topic of sex.

It is a difference in personalities, and you should just tell the individual your speaking with that sex is not a topic your interested in speaking about at this moment.

People may also misunderstand what you have written, as one try's to figure out how to woo you. Absolutely nothing wrong in wanting to wait to have a physical relationship.

Society also misleads that sex is not about breeding, but of monetary value to manage. Look through history, it is not just one genders responsible, or statis in society.

Agreed!