Most guys want the quick pleasure of wham bam thank ya while the other guys get pleasure out of talking to u and getting to know you.. The problem is that u gota find the ones that are the later maybe some one thats a little older and sorta settle but still knows how to raise hell on occasions

I know what josh thinks...i saw what he wrote..and he tells me that i am all the time...but josh also mentions sex all the time to me....I love talking to him and he is a very sweet guy...but then he starts in on the sex topic....and i dont mind talking about sex...i just think it shouldnt be talked about until you know someone better

Well it's just my opinion but I never ever thought this way at that age. I didn't even start to think like that until well into my late 20's. But I got over it quick cause I thought I was just being pathetic to believe there "Was no one for me". I went to work, school.... invested myself in myself and I soon came across my Future ex-wife.

So I say pathetic becuase when you are that young I don't expect you to have "Broken Dreams" about love as yet. At least wait until your in your mid 20's.

Although maybe in your neck of the woods 18 is Spinsterville.

Respectfully, J

So she's talking to men who are "Clearly" at that age of just Hormone City.

At 42 I am still very active. Even though I love sex it is not all I want from a relationship. But because we have 6 hours in a night I'm not going to spend all of it watching TV or talking! Break it up into nice sections. Sex here, talk there, Talk there, movie there, dinner here, sex over there.

Why not go to a church that promotes groups that abstain from sex?

Just a thought!

I am not saying i am opposed to sex.....i am clearly not...i am not a virgin....im not a prude...im just saying i want to find a guy who is respectful, kind, a gentlemen, and that sex is not the only thing he wants from a girl

Then YOU need to be ALL of THAT!
And when YOU feel YOU ARE THAT, ,,,,THEN you will SEE the GUYS who will BE THAT! Now you are just taking on dudes who YOU SEE as a dude to love you because of WHAT they say to you..
When YOU can LOVE yourself then YOU will be ready to be LOVED.
But NOT before, you will un-knowingly seekto find only the BAD GUYS...

You are young and the pains of romance will break your heart many times.
But YOU must learn to CHANGE through your relationships and GROW into a BETTER YOU!

Then YOU can find a BETTER THEM!!

It's not a pathetic post. The purpose of this site is to find a possible mate or relationship. If someone says that your post is pathetic, it is because they either already have a relationship and don't like it, or they don't even want one.

First of all, your really young, your gonna get allot of that, take your time, you will find a good man, if he cant look into your eyes and speak to you, he's probably the wrong guy, there are allot of good men out there, "good luck".

Yes, Yes! That's it! I agree with that one 100%

cause you open your legs!!!! Try Duct tape next time!!!

What does FWB mean?

fukc buddy......not sure what the w is for fukc with buddy??

I have no F*cking Wild B*itchass idea?

oh its friends with benefits.

Fort Walton Beach

Men open the door at times, I know I do most of the times, as well as hold out a chair for my date.

Sex is an important part of the human condition. If it weren't enjoyable, to both partners, there'd be no procreation. Because it IS enjoyable, it's an activity sought by both genders for the sake of pleasure alone. Pleasure can be physical, emotional, and mental as well.

Many guys, particularly young ones, focus primarily on their own physical needs, and how to attain them. So when you're stating that they want you 'only to sleep with', that's why. In other words, they're NOT the guy that you're looking for to fulfill YOUR needs, which may or may not include physical.

Bottom line- There are plenty of guys that provide more than JUST physical satiation. If you haven't found one, keep looking.

Men open the door at times, I know I do most of the times, as well as hold out a chair for my date.

Sex is an important part of the human condition. If it weren't enjoyable, to both partners, there'd be no procreation. Because it IS enjoyable, it's an activity sought by both genders for the sake of pleasure alone. Pleasure can be physical, emotional, and mental as well.

Many guys, particularly young ones, focus primarily on their own physical needs, and how to attain them. So when you're stating that they want you 'only to sleep with', that's why. In other words, they're NOT the guy that you're looking for to fulfill YOUR needs, which may or may not include physical.

Bottom line- There are plenty of guys that provide more than JUST physical satiation. If you haven't found one, keep looking.

but do you show them your boobies when ya do??? haha im just bustin your chops darlin

i do not open my legs.....im not like that

Most guys see woman as meat. They are the hunter looking at prey. Some of my friends are the same way. We will be walking through a store or wherever, and a nice looking woman catches their eyes it's over. "Damn she's fine" or the infamous "I'd hit that". Then they proceed to what they call game . Only to be turned down. Honestly i get a kick out of harassing them about it. They don't seem to understand though. Sex isn't without emotion. Anyway i'm getting way side tracked. You'll find a genuinely nice guy i'm sure. It may not be the easiest thing , but it will happen.