I know the feeling, all i am looking for is a good
relationship, but a lot of guys seems to want just
sex. sometimes it makes me wonder, if there are
any good men left in this our world.

We really are not all alike. Keep looking you'll find the right one.

Who are your friends?
where do you and your friends hang out?
what do you and your friends do for fun?

You are who you hang with and if you are constantly getting bedpost-notching losers its a sign that you're fishing in the wrong pool.

it only madters what you think anyways

I did look at your profile and you did state that you are looking for a relationship. Reword the profile a little.

Well....I dont really have a whole lot of time to hang with anyone....and the guys i hang out with are usually at least 3 or 4 years older then me...they call me their little sister....also...most of my female friends all have boyfriends...so i dont like to hang with them a whole lot....it gets sickning hanging with couples all the time....

I never said all men are alike...i simply stated that MOST guys are like that....i know there are still good ones out there....Ive been single for a year now and its making me think i will never find the one that was perfect for me....

umm until my mid to late 30's, I was always afraid to go up to a girl and tell her how beautiful I thought she was. And a guy always takes a chance when he says that to a girl, because if she is not attracted to him, she might get angry. If a guy asks you for a phone number, then he wants to talk to you. If he can carry on a conversation without talking about sex, then you just might have found someone good. As far as what you might find here on the internet, I dare to say that most are just here for their own personal amusement, and do not take any of it seriously unless by some freak of nature you find one that is good.

Not to completely burst the bubble you have hear but you're asking that you "want" someone to say you are beautiful.

I think you just need to take care of yourself and drive in the lane that leads you the direction you want to go. I said this in the last post. Don't seek the attention. It will come when it does.

You are 19 and need to chill anyway.... Just hang out with a group of people without the pressure of sex.

One of my gl's told me that she works, wants to eat, then wants sex twice a day as she said it's like brushing teeth - for maintenance. And we had great sex all the time. Some women do like sex a lot. I have had gl's that don't and I back up for them.

Just send clear signals, hang with the right people, and don't worry.... You are looking/waiting for "The One". Let it take some time dear as you've got 80 years left to live.

J

Well now, you might not find "good men" and "good looking" in the same package.

Just always remember that YOU control YOUR body and MIND, ..
Don't sleep with a dude because thats what HE WANTS, let it be WHAT YOU WANT. Then YOU won't have alot of regrets if he leaves ya..
But dudes now hell, always..lol
Have always been ALL ABOUT sex, but the ladies have learned how to control us guys and HOW WE NEED to ACT and BE to get some from them,,lol so just don't be EASY, AND "YOU" WON'T BE!!!
Good Luck,,,and just know ITS NOT A YOU OMLY THING,,K?

Okay now I'm going to be rough. Tough Love here.

YOU ARE 18. and you are already negative about the future. Stop, go learn something new, chill out on the dating and looking. It will happen while you do other things.

If you are seeking..... that is the worst way to do it. You should be engaged in life not in looking for a partner.

Your 18....... Go learn a new language.

I know a lot of girls feel this way....sol by posting this...other girls can come and read what people say....

I already know another language...actaully i can speak 3 languages fluently...i have a 3.9 gpa in college...i work two jobs...one full time and one part time job....i am very mature for my age...i had to grow up at an early age....so by telling me that i am 18 and all that other stuff...doesnt matter...age doesnt make you who you are or what you should do...your experiences do

Well okay.... good pathetic post then. All young people. Anyone under 55. Just chill and learn something new today......

Don't seek out a relationship. It will come as you enjoy life.

I'm an expert I tell ya!

Only YOU can allow that to happen. IF that is not what you want, then you are the one who has to speak up. I think if you show them that you won't allow that to happen and you do not want a friend with benefits, they will respect you for being honest. If they like you, they will date you again! If they drop you...its their loss!!
You can only be treated the way you allow someone to treat you! If you think about it, women are the ones who actually have the final say so about sex! I guess the quote that comes to mind is "just say no."
This is why I don't date...I truly believe that sex boggles the mind! You don't know if you like that person because he is a great guy OR because the sex was great! Thats why you should never have sex until you get to know that person inside and out!! Good luck

How is it a pathetic post?

hay your hot id sleep with ya lol

sorry iam a brat...

you have too look harder for the right guy there are out but no worries i can find a bf either but your much cute then me so... lol

Ummmmm I'm sure there are not many people here who are in their older age... Me.... who would agree with you. You are young. You have not seen everything..

I am impressed that you speak 3 languages fluently and have such a great book knowledge of certain subjects.

Even with this.....you have the capacity to learn new things and really take on life with gusto...

I'll tell you this. Colombus Ohio guy wrote on your site that he thinks you're beautiful. I think you are pretty. But it's not what it's about for me..... It's looks with personality.

Enjoy!

dont say i am much cuter then you...you are very cute....i am not lesbian or bi...i am just comfortable admiting when another woman is cute or beautiful....