Topic: Hey people, I need mad advice!
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Sun 12/30/07 10:01 AM
Ok, there is this girl I have kinda liked but she has had a boyfriend. So, I was respectful, and kept my distance. Then I had a party last Friday, and she tells me she has broken up with her boyfriend. So I'm like "sweet! time to make a movie" and it is all good, she is holding my hand sitting on my lap. Then she tells me she wants to spend the night, and I am all for it. Granted we are both pretty drunk. But, her sister wouldnt let her spend the night.so the next day we are texting, and she calls me a couple times. We set it up to go out next Friday. Then I tried to slip in a comment about her being cute, and then she puts me on blast and says "I'm really sorry if i gave out the wrong signals lat night but I'm a very affectionate drunk, you are like a brother to me"... So, basically I'm confused, she totally seemed into me, she was all over me one night, she wanted to spend the night, she text me the next day and even called me, we set up another time to go out... and now it seems like i have no hope. Advice?

Nervesgone's photo
Sun 12/30/07 10:02 AM
If you just want to get laid, get her drunk again!!laugh laugh laugh laugh

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Sun 12/30/07 10:03 AM
Bro its called rebound lust influenced by alcohol. Best bet is to sit back and keep your friendship.

trueokie2's photo
Sun 12/30/07 10:06 AM
Oops entered the wrong room
Exits the room

irisheyesinKy's photo
Sun 12/30/07 10:07 AM
It seems she is a different person when she was drunk.Do you think alcohol could hae been the reason.But in her straight head she says she wants you as a friend.So take that as the gift it is given as.

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Sun 12/30/07 10:07 AM
SLOW DOWN
Be her friend & see where it goes.
Drunk sex may be fun, but seldom builds to something real.
Choices are all YOURS.

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Sun 12/30/07 10:07 AM
not trying to sound mean but it sound like she was using you to make her feel better. probly better to just be frinds. dont involve you self to much of you feelings in her that way. good luck

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Sun 12/30/07 10:08 AM
yeah i'd say rebound, just sit back, relax and let some time pass. try making your move a few months down the road and see what happens.

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Sun 12/30/07 10:08 AM
If she just broke up with her boyfriend, chances are she doesn't really know what she wants yet. Give her some space, and when you do spend time with her, skip the alcohol. You will get a better feel for what she is thinking if you are both clear headed.

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Sun 12/30/07 10:08 AM
That's what alcohol will do to them. Don't jump the conclusion dude. Move on!

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Sun 12/30/07 10:09 AM
Dude, the chick hasn't been single that long. Give it time. Never take a girl serious when she is drunk though. That is another mistake. Don't stress, go out and find other girls to talk to. You play it like you don't care, she will either forget you or be eating out of your palm. But mean it.

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Sun 12/30/07 10:11 AM
Edited by Nervesgone on Sun 12/30/07 10:12 AM
Okay, so I was being BAD!!laugh laugh laugh laugh

Don't let drunk sex ruin a relationship!!Take it easy.drinker

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Sun 12/30/07 10:12 AM
alrite, thats kinda what i was thinking, rebound status, thanx guys

wouldee's photo
Sun 12/30/07 10:12 AM
you just had a casual encounter with a horny woman

simple.

smokin drinker bigsmile

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Sun 12/30/07 10:14 AM
If you want to stand any chance at all, be her best friend and let it grow naturally. If she has any like towards you, then it will manifest itself in a proper way when it is ready, dont forget, sometimes people do grow on each other. Also, be happy that she didnt stay the night that night. if you really like her, and she doesnt yet feel that way towards you, then you would never stand a chance at her in future if you had slept with her. Good luck!

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Sun 12/30/07 10:14 AM
No! More like a tease!noway

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Sun 12/30/07 10:15 AM

No! More like a tease!noway



laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

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Sun 12/30/07 10:17 AM
Sorry to say that!laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

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Sun 12/30/07 07:43 PM
Edited by ctrcus1 on Sun 12/30/07 07:47 PM
sick Dude she's a long list of priorities with easy come easy go going floaters. It's near the NYEve go the course, take the bubbly, and savor a nonambrosic sparkle. Spumante dosen't linger pop-up-hit-meeasy.:smile:mad