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A guy & a girl who had met once before over a decade prior as just friends come together many years later & become a very intense ,very physical relationship;; she brings him home to meet her family, let's him stay over repeatedly...now mind you they are absolutely inseparable...then after not even a couple months she calls him & gives him a load of copout horseshit that all a sudden they're no good for each other & he gets the 86. Now he Knows this is horseshit & after agreeing to meet up in the near future she blocks him & finally calls & tears him a new one! Why she pull a jeckyl&Hyde & why is she denying her true emotions to seclude herself in various alleged personal issues... Anyone?
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A guy & a girl who had met once before over a decade prior as just friends come together many years later & become a very intense ,very physical relationship;; she brings him home to meet her family, let's him stay over repeatedly...now mind you they are absolutely inseparable...then after not even a couple months she calls him & gives him a load of copout horseshit that all a sudden they're no good for each other & he gets the 86. Now he Knows this is horseshit & after agreeing to meet up in the near future she blocks him & finally calls & tears him a new one! Why she pull a jeckyl&Hyde & why is she denying her true emotions to seclude herself in various alleged personal issues... Anyone? IT MAY BE A GAME CALLED RAPO PLAYED BY THE WOMEN. ERIC BERNE DESCRIBED IT IN DETAIL. ITS MORE COMMON THAN FIRST BELIEVED....ITS A WAY TO GET BACK AT MEN......I BELIEVE ITS IN HIS BOOK -GAMES PEOPLE PLAY: THE PSYCHOLOGY OF HUMAN RELATIONSHIPS...THE PROBLEM IS THEY TRY TO HURT SOMEONE WHO DID NOT CAUSE HER TO BE WOUNDED....ON THE OTHER SIDE THEY GET TO RECYCLE FAVORITE FEELINGS, AND VALIDATE THE NEGATIVE BELIEFS THEY HAVE FOR MEN..... GAMES ARE A WASTE OF TIME BECAUSE EVERYONE IN THE TRIANGLE END UP AS A VICTIM..... |
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A guy & a girl who had met once before over a decade prior as just friends come together many years later & become a very intense ,very physical relationship;; she brings him home to meet her family, let's him stay over repeatedly...now mind you they are absolutely inseparable...then after not even a couple months she calls him & gives him a load of copout horseshit that all a sudden they're no good for each other & he gets the 86. Now he Knows this is horseshit & after agreeing to meet up in the near future she blocks him & finally calls & tears him a new one! Why she pull a jeckyl&Hyde & why is she denying her true emotions to seclude herself in various alleged personal issues... Anyone? IT MAY BE A GAME CALLED RAPO PLAYED BY THE WOMEN. ERIC BERNE DESCRIBED IT IN DETAIL. ITS MORE COMMON THAN FIRST BELIEVED....ITS A WAY TO GET BACK AT MEN......I BELIEVE ITS IN HIS BOOK -GAMES PEOPLE PLAY: THE PSYCHOLOGY OF HUMAN RELATIONSHIPS...THE PROBLEM IS THEY TRY TO HURT SOMEONE WHO DID NOT CAUSE HER TO BE WOUNDED....ON THE OTHER SIDE THEY GET TO RECYCLE FAVORITE FEELINGS, AND VALIDATE THE NEGATIVE BELIEFS THEY HAVE FOR MEN..... GAMES ARE A WASTE OF TIME BECAUSE EVERYONE IN THE TRIANGLE END UP AS A VICTIM..... You may have a point here. I would have just said "because she's a woman" but that's perhaps a bit dismissive. I long ago gave up trying to understand some of the incredibly strange, emotionally and irrationally charged things some women do out there. Whether its out of anger, guilt, "suppression", or revenge, its definitely out there. I see it online fairly often. A woman who might be a 2 or 3 in the real world and barely gets any male attention in the real world, suddenly becomes a "9" upon logging online into a dating site. It doesn't matter that 99.9% are just messaging her for sex, it goes to their heads. Suddenly, it's "payback" time to all the men who "hurt" her. She gets cocky, mean, rude, entitled, etc and acts out in her own strange ways. Probably makes her feel good after all those years of inattention out in the real world. If your story here is accurately told (I have no reason to believe it isn't), then that definitely sucks and would make most people wonder. However, it is what it is. I'd venture to guess its her own weird reasons (perhaps she was in another relationship and now feels guilty so drops you like a hot potato?) and have little to do with you. |
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cleve
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A guy & a girl who had met once before over a decade prior as just friyears later & become a very intense ,very physical relationship;; she brings him home to meet her family, let's him stay over repeatedly...now mind you they are absolutely inseparable...then after not even a couple months she calls him & gives him a load of copout horseshit that all a sudden they're no good for each other & he gets the 86. Now he Knows this is horseshit & after agreeing to meet up in the near future she blocks him & finally calls & tears him a new one! Why she pull a jeckyl&Hyde & why is she denying her true emotions to seclude herself in various alleged personal issues... Anyone? IT MAY BE A GAME CALLED RAPO PLAYED BY THE WOMEN. ERIC BERNE DESCRIBED IT IN DETAIL. ITS MORE COMMON THAN FIRST BELIEVED....ITS A WAY TO GET BACK AT MEN......I BELIEVE ITS IN HIS BOOK -GAMES PEOPLE PLAY: THE PSYCHOLOGY OF HUMAN RELATIONSHIPS...THE PROBLEM IS THEY TRY TO HURT SOMEONE WHO DID NOT CAUSE HER TO BE WOUNDED....ON THE OTHER SIDE THEY GET TO RECYCLE FAVORITE FEELINGS, AND VALIDATE THE NEGATIVE BELIEFS THEY HAVE FOR MEN..... GAMES ARE A WASTE OF TIME BECAUSE EVERYONE IN THE TRIANGLE END UP AS A VICTIM..... You may have a point here. I would have just said "because she's a woman" but that's perhaps a bit dismissive. I long ago gave up trying to understand some of the incredibly strange, emotionally and irrationally charged things some women do out there. Whether its out of anger, guilt, "suppression", or revenge, its definitely out there. I see it online fairly often. A woman who might be a 2 or 3 in the real world and barely gets any male attention in the real world, suddenly becomes a "9" upon logging online into a dating site. It doesn't matter that 99.9% are just messaging her for sex, it goes to their heads. Suddenly, it's "payback" time to all the men who "hurt" her. She gets cocky, mean, rude, entitled, etc and acts out in her own strange ways. Probably makes her feel good after all those years of inattention out in the real world. If your story here is accurately told (I have no reason to believe it isn't), then that definitely sucks and would make most people wonder. However, it is what it is. I'd venture to guess its her own weird reasons (perhaps she was in another relationship and now feels guilty so drops you like a hot potato?) and have little to do with you. MEN ALSO PLAY DESTRUCTIVE GAMES,,,, WOMEN DO NOT KNOW THE EMOTIONAL NEEDS OF MEN AND MEN DO NOT DO NOT KNOW THE EMOTIONAL NEEDS OF WOMEN....EVERY COUPLE NEEDS TO SIT DOWN AND HAVE A INTIMATE CONVERSATION ABOUT THERE EMOTIONAL NEEDS BECAUSE EVERYONE VARIES.......THE TRUTH IS MOST ARE THE OPPOSITE OF THE OTHER GENDER.....BY THE TIME A GIRL BECOMES A WOMEN THE BEAUTIFUL GIRL INSIDE HER IS WOUNDED IN MOST CASES.... IT TAKES A LOT OF PATIENCE AND UNDERSTANDING FOR THOSE WOUNDS TO HEAL.....WE NEED TO LISTEN MORE AND WORK HARD ON NOT TRYING TO SEE THE SENSE IT MAKES TO US...WE NEED TO HEAR THE SENSE IT MAKES TO HER AND '' LET IT STAND''. EVERYTHING WE DO OR SAY EFFECTS THEM..... GOOD LUCK..... |
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She probably thought the grass was greener on the other side .. so instead of watering the side she was already on , she crossed over ... only to be deceived.... now she wants back in ....
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A guy & a girl who had met once before over a decade prior as just friends come together many years later & become a very intense ,very physical relationship;; she brings him home to meet her family, let's him stay over repeatedly...now mind you they are absolutely inseparable...then after not even a couple months she calls him & gives him a load of copout horseshit that all a sudden they're no good for each other & he gets the 86. Now he Knows this is horseshit & after agreeing to meet up in the near future she blocks him & finally calls & tears him a new one! Why she pull a jeckyl&Hyde & why is she denying her true emotions to seclude herself in various alleged personal issues... Anyone? Just let the psycho slag go, and don't look back. |
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did she catch him cheating?
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She is running scared....
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Hm....need more information. I think there's probably more to the story, something that probably seems insignificant to you, but that seems like a deal-breaker to her.
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