Topic: relationship nowadays are toxic
i_do_care(Sid)'s photo
Fri 01/07/22 01:52 AM
like today's it is very difficult to find someone who have feelings for you all left is the materialistic need either of man or women...
what r your experiences??

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Fri 01/07/22 02:15 AM
Edited by Unknow on Fri 01/07/22 02:23 AM
Nope, not toxic. Just no real interest from me and I do not hang around long enough past the first red flags they wave. I often make the first move and then regret it and have to find a way out.
I do believe there is the right person, the right time and the right flow.


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 Ꮢ Ꭷ Ᏸ ɨ Ꮑ's photo
Fri 01/07/22 02:29 AM
I don't think so.
I'm having one itself here an long time an we are doing well.

Ups and Downs will be in life,
We itself choose it then why tpo cry if its not worthy...

All The Best :thumbsup:

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Tue 01/18/22 09:47 PM
I think so it is correct relationships have becoming more and more toxic.
I started dating with someone whom had a crush on me.Our relationship went well only for 6months.After that he started ignoring me.I always took the initiative to text him or call him for date & now when i asked him for marriage he said he will do only according to his parents will.My will doesn't even stand in front of him.If this all was going to happen then why did he start dating me & showed interest in me?

Tom4Uhere's photo
Tue 01/18/22 11:17 PM
relationship nowadays are toxic

Its to be expected when most people expose themselves to toxic stimuli.

There was a time when society in general was open and friendly. People would actually talk with each other and build friendships.

For nearly everyone the phone was at home hanging on a wall and it was used to talk to other people.

Out and about, people paid attention to their surroundings and actually saw the other people around them.

Now, many people have their attention on their phones or are preoccupied with matters of self.
People don't talk to each other much anymore. Always too busy or too afraid of strangers.

This trend bleeds into relationships as well.
People are more focused on themselves and their little worlds.
Take two people who seek justification, put them together and one will feel left out, usually the one who needs that constant acknowledgement or justification.

Its an inbalanced relationship before it even starts. Mainly because people, in general, are more imbalanced solitary. They now find fulfillment thru their phones, media or electronic devices.

Society has become imbalanced, insane and off kilter. Ya can't see it cause you're too close to it but step back and put down that phone and turn off the TV and radio and start looking and paying attention to the world around you and it all reveals itself just how imbalanced society has become.

My gf and I have a balanced relationship because neither one of us are addicted to our phones or the mainstream media. We pay attention to the world around us.

If your relationship is toxic, one or both of you are causing it because you're not paying attention.

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Wed 01/19/22 02:58 AM
Hi Sid waving . What you describe sounds more like dating “blues” or incongruent expectations rather than toxicity.

Rod's photo
Wed 01/19/22 11:46 AM
Covid 19 is too.