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Topic: Real life Stalkers
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Sun 09/12/21 02:37 AM
Who has had real life stalkers? How did you deal with them?

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Sun 09/12/21 02:48 AM
I did and got the police involved. That didn’t do anything to deter him so I had a good male friend to warn him off. After that I didn’t hear from him again.

The ordeal lasted for around 6 months and I wouldn’t wish it on anybody. I was dating at the time too and the perp knew that.


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Sun 09/12/21 02:56 AM

I did and got the police involved. That didn’t do anything to deter him so I had a good male friend to warn him off. After that I didn’t hear from him again.

The ordeal lasted for around 6 months and I wouldn’t wish it on anybody. I was dating at the time too and the perp knew that.




Hmm. That is disturbing. I have had male friends want to assault mine, but I refuse to let them do that. My stalker is forever driving down my street hoping to see me. I honestly do not think he means harm, but he does not get he is harming psychologically.

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Sun 09/12/21 03:03 AM
I had a real life stalker, for many, many years.
I was finally able to breath freely, when I her
obituary was sent to me in March of 2020.

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Sun 09/12/21 03:04 AM
I am not trying to create drama, but honestly this guy is weird. I left my house after 2 weeks of lockdown and he was there, blocking taffic behind him to stop and get my attention. I ignored him. Getting put off men now....

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Sun 09/12/21 03:08 AM

I had a real life stalker, for many, many years.
I was finally able to breath freely, when I her
obituary was sent to me in March of 2020.


Well, I dont wish death upon him. I just want him to stop.

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Sun 09/12/21 03:19 AM


I had a real life stalker, for many, many years.
I was finally able to breath freely, when I her
obituary was sent to me in March of 2020.


Well, I dont wish death upon him. I just want him to stop.


I don't wish ill on anyone.
But, doesn't your country have strict laws
against stalking? Call the police.

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Sun 09/12/21 03:22 AM
How about long distance stalkers ??
Is that counted ??? If so I may be tempted .... could turn out fun yanno!!!!!.

Yeah ! Stalkers have to be dealt with very firmly ,..Had it happen to my daughter .. I just had to talk to him with my baseball bat in one hand ... seemed to have worked ....

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Sun 09/12/21 03:28 AM



I had a real life stalker, for many, many years.
I was finally able to breath freely, when I her
obituary was sent to me in March of 2020.


Well, I dont wish death upon him. I just want him to stop.


I don't wish ill on anyone.
But, doesn't your country have strict laws
against stalking? Call the police.



I see his car often, my flatmates saw him once parked up.I need more proof, I feel.

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Sun 09/12/21 03:32 AM
No stalkers here, but I'm so sorry for what you're dealing with, Ladywind! I hope he stops soon. Hang in there. :heart:

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Sun 09/12/21 03:34 AM


I did and got the police involved. That didn’t do anything to deter him so I had a good male friend to warn him off. After that I didn’t hear from him again.

The ordeal lasted for around 6 months and I wouldn’t wish it on anybody. I was dating at the time too and the perp knew that.




Hmm. That is disturbing. I have had male friends want to assault mine, but I refuse to let them do that. My stalker is forever driving down my street hoping to see me. I honestly do not think he means harm, but he does not get he is harming psychologically.



Apologies but I should have made it clearer. My male friend warned my stalker verbally only.

Yeah, I understand what you’re going through and how you’re feeling :hugging:

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Sun 09/12/21 03:36 AM

How about long distance stalkers ??
Is that counted ??? If so I may be tempted .... could turn out fun yanno!!!!!.

Yeah ! Stalkers have to be dealt with very firmly ,..Had it happen to my daughter .. I just had to talk to him with my baseball bat in one hand ... seemed to have worked ....



Stalk me anytime hun lol. But this guy is serious chit. We had a thing/ fling from Dec till March. Then I walked away and blocked him from everything online.
My flatmates know him and being male, no offense intended, they do not think he is dangerous. But they do not get I hate going out to the street in case he gets the time right and I run into him.

Feeling weird.



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Sun 09/12/21 03:42 AM
Edited by Unknow on Sun 09/12/21 03:42 AM

No stalkers here, but I'm so sorry for what you're dealing with, Ladywind! I hope he stops soon. Hang in there. :heart:


Bon bon. Thank you. I am psychologically scared. When we were together he was obsessed with his ex, tis why I walked.... ❣❣❣


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Sun 09/12/21 03:48 AM


How about long distance stalkers ??
Is that counted ??? If so I may be tempted .... could turn out fun yanno!!!!!.

Yeah ! Stalkers have to be dealt with very firmly ,..Had it happen to my daughter .. I just had to talk to him with my baseball bat in one hand ... seemed to have worked ....



Stalk me anytime hun lol. But this guy is serious chit. We had a thing/ fling from Dec till March. Then I walked away and blocked him from everything online.
My flatmates know him and being male, no offense intended, they do not think he is dangerous. But they do not get I hate going out to the street in case he gets the time right and I run into him.

Feeling weird.





Yup , it is weird when you get the feeling that you are a prisoner in your own home ...
Hopefully all things will pass ....

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Sun 09/12/21 03:50 AM



I did and got the police involved. That didn’t do anything to deter him so I had a good male friend to warn him off. After that I didn’t hear from him again.

The ordeal lasted for around 6 months and I wouldn’t wish it on anybody. I was dating at the time too and the perp knew that.




Hmm. That is disturbing. I have had male friends want to assault mine, but I refuse to let them do that. My stalker is forever driving down my street hoping to see me. I honestly do not think he means harm, but he does not get he is harming psychologically.



Apologies but I should have made it clearer. My male friend warned my stalker verbally only.

Yeah, I understand what you’re going through and how you’re feeling :hugging:


It sucks. Xxx

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Sun 09/12/21 04:00 AM
Edited by Blondey111 on Sun 09/12/21 04:01 AM
I have had two serious stalking episodes ., one he broke into my home and I woke to find him standing next to my bed

The other he stood outside my home , my work , the gym I went to all hours of the day and night ,

Both times the police were involved and arrests made . I had no relationship or connection to either man .

If your ex is stalking you then notify the police . I am not sure just driving by is enough ., unless he does not live locally and is going out of his way to see you . Like you say .. you may need more evidence .

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Sun 09/12/21 04:13 AM

I have had two serious stalking episodes ., one he broke into my home and I woke to find him standing next to my bed

The other he stood outside my home , my work , the gym I went to all hours of the day and night ,

Both times the police were involved and arrests made . I had no relationship or connection to either man .

If your ex is stalking you then notify the police . I am not sure just driving by is enough ., unless he does not live locally and is going out of his way to see you . Like you say .. you may need more evidence .



Agree. I am being patient. Sorry that happened to you. Xxx

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Sun 09/12/21 04:21 AM
No need to be sorry .. I never felt I was a victim . I handled the situation and it had no impact on my wellbeing or my life .

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Sun 09/12/21 04:22 AM

No need to be sorry .. I never felt I was a victim . I handled the situation and it had no impact on my wellbeing or my life .


Nice. Strong woman!!!

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Sun 09/12/21 04:35 AM


No need to be sorry .. I never felt I was a victim . I handled the situation and it had no impact on my wellbeing or my life .


Nice. Strong woman!!!


She keeps me in check. bigsmile

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