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we were always taught when young , if you have nothing nice to say , it's better not to say anything at all!
Now as we have grown older , we like to speak our mind , but we always have to choose our words wisely.... for the greater good ....and life goes on !!! |
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Just curious, as I always am, hihi. If you come across a person of your OWN gender -whether in real life or on tv- does that intimidate you or make you feel envious, maybe trying to outdo them in one way or another? OR can you simply take in their beauty and appreciate it? Now this can be anything from a pretty/handsome face, a good body or both etc. How do you handle this and can you? personally.. I dont even consider how other guy's look. their attitude in how they treat others around them. is what I would actually notice. but that only interests me if I have to work around them, or if they are openly being jerks.. I'm comfortable with my self. so the guy in the mirror(my reflection) is the only one I worry about how he looks. my job is to be the best me, I can be I have noticed it is different with many women, because are taught from an early age to compare them selves to others. and it takes a lot of deprograming for some..to feel accepted for who they are, not who they should be. of coarse I'm a guy...so my point of view is that of a man. and my own. Yes I do think there is a difference in how this works for/in women and men. That's what I was curious about too, to hear men's views :) I think women get judged more easily, including by other women, for how we look and what our bodies are like. And this starts at quite an early age, sadly enough, somewhere around 9 yrs old. Which I suppose is shortly after we shift out of Theta where we just take everything in without filters. This happens around approx. 7 yrs old. I suppose ego isn't formed really until after that either. . . . I dont know if women/ girls get judged more easily . I'ld say it is just differently then us males judge each other. again just speaking from my point of view: because I was all ways the new kid in school, I was all ways being challenged. to see how I would react. because, I was just trying to fit in. but basically male or female, we were still judging and testing each other. by the standards of our piers. |
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I am confident in my own beauty and not easily intimidated by aesthetics . There are women I am drawn to and others I clash with . As for the latter ...it is usually an incompatibility or behavioural issue which has very little to do with envy or a beauty bias . That is true of any connection , irrespective of gender .
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