Topic: I just got a message from a guy when I am a guy also
John's photo
Sun 08/22/21 06:25 AM
I got a message from a guy seeking just girls and I am a guy also seeking girls. What the hell is that all about? I keep getting messages that make no sense and illogical. Even half the messages are from users other side of country or even the world - clearly those ones aren't genuine but ones from my area, even a guy, sounds like something is amiss. An explanation would be appreciated.

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Sun 08/22/21 02:20 PM
Obviously a scammer

Poetrywriter's photo
Sun 08/22/21 03:22 PM
Set your mail filters to say gals only.

soufiehere's photo
Sun 08/22/21 03:25 PM
"Please Note: To message John you MUST meet the following conditions:
Age: 45 and younger - Live within 50 miles"

You might add 'females' to that.

Richard 's photo
Sun 08/22/21 05:54 PM
Edited by Richard on Sun 08/22/21 05:56 PM

I got a message from a guy seeking just girls and I am a guy also seeking girls. What the hell is that all about? I keep getting messages that make no sense and illogical. Even half the messages are from users other side of country or even the world - clearly those ones aren't genuine but ones from my area, even a guy, sounds like something is amiss. An explanation would be appreciated.

had the same thing happen last week, a guy from michagan... he said he read my profile and thought we could be "work out buddies"... I live in oregon. and my settings were set for women from my local area. make sure to check your filters regularly.. seams they might go blank and need to be reset.

John's photo
Mon 08/23/21 04:18 AM
My mail filter was set and is still set to a 80km distance yet I got and currently still getting heaps of mail from users that not just live in another state but also from countries around the world (mostly USA). I have been a member for 27 hours and it hasn't been a good experience as I hoped.