Not a long term thing more like friends and things like that and yes I can see why that would be weird

It's simply weird that Granny is the desire of a young boy....
Now if it was a cougar or a mature older woman you were interested in , I would say normal .... been there done that ... yup I had my Summer of '42 many years ago .....
To sum up .... it's just weird ...

If she's your own Nana,
it would indeed be weird.

Friends... you and a much older woman have nothing to share really. You are in the phase of discovering what it means to you to be a man, she's been there done that concerning being a woman, and guided her kids through that too.
Interest and phase of life are a galaxy apart, as are maturity.

As for 'things like that', if you're referring to sex... that is also weird with a guy who's so much younger, not physically mature yet, and much younger than her own kids.
Some women may fancy a young lover, but it can also depend on if you have any experience in that area.
To be blunt... a newbie adolescent in that field lasts about 30 seconds. Not very interesting for a woman.
There are, however, some who like that, so you never know.

But it remains weird.

Also... think about who you call a granny.
Women in their 50s aren't. I find it offensive.
Holding such a condescending conviction won't help your quest.

If it was My Nana , it would be even more weird ....

I told him that too in another thread

My X was a grandmother at 46.
My sister was a great grandmother at 67.
I'm 60, I've dated women who were up to 9 years older than me.
There were many issues in the relationship which kept it from being right.
From interests to activity levels to health related sex limits.

At 60, my youngest child is 30 and is married with 3 children.
My GF is 51 and a great match for me in every way.
There are times, instances where the age factor does come into play, mostly on my part as I am now disabled.

At your age, there are many things driving you. Its likely you would bed any woman with a heartbeat right now. You may be missing your mother or seeking motherly love for your insecurities. Its kinda normal, especially in these high stressful times during the pandemic. Many people feel insecure over many things right now.

Its likely, your interest in much older women is a temporary thing.
If you do enter into a relationship with a much loder woman, it will get bad rather quickly. It all depends upon your motivations.
If you are looking to get written into her will, it might cause you to stick with it in hopes she kicks the bucket so you can get that payoff.

Then there is the fact many older women are in better health these days.
There's also a significant larger ratio of lonely old people because you are seeing the 'baby boomer' generations aging out. Easy pickings.

Of course, there's also the possibility you have never had a relationship with a woman in your age group who was mature enough or interested in you enough to allow you to feel a bond with or attraction to people your own age.
That's kinda weird.

If you make decisions based on your insecurities and choose paths in life based on curiosity you will find a life full of stress and insecurity.
Figure out what you truly want and stick with it.
Make wise choices and be prepared to be flexible and understanding.
Know yourself, know your limits and choose wisely.
For most people - that is normal.

She told me that I didn't know so I changed it to mature

it's weird.

Have you tried volunteering in a nursing home? Maybe you could be a gigolo or try to get in the porn business? Then you could make money while doing what you love. The plus side is you don't have to worry about getting them knocked up. Are you planning on taking out a large insurance policy on this woman if you find one?

Mate, since Mamabear is in charge I won't get into your confusion here! But I can't resist myself from making a general observation. You are 19y.o, right? You joined this site in 2019. That implies, you were 17y.o when you joined mingle2. Now I am confused! Whoops

This forum is done and dusted no more replys please ladywind helped me and I have my opinions in the right place