Topic: why no hits
Robert's photo
Thu 04/15/21 09:00 PM
okay so their are alot of beautiful women of all shapes and sizes on her and I've messaged quite a few but no response and I'm not rude or vulgar I simple say how do you do. and I just not attractive

SparklingCrystal 💖💎's photo
Fri 04/16/21 02:38 AM
Well... you look very unhappy which is not attractive.

Your profile text is defensive, although I think passive aggressive is a better description. Also not attractive.

Great happy people are attracted to other great happy people. So if you want to find a great partner and relationship you yourself will have to meet those criteria.

no photo
Fri 04/16/21 11:39 AM
You should look for Olive Oyl. :thumbsup:

Rock's photo
Fri 04/16/21 12:51 PM
Based on your profile?

Get therapy.

no photo
Fri 04/16/21 02:16 PM
try looking at the camera as if you are talking to someone nice and you have just thought of something incredibly witty to say.

well it works for me. And just look what I've got to work with :smile:

oh and try and say something light or even a bit witty as a profile piece.

you come across as a different character that way.

good luck m8.:thumbsup: :thumbsup:

PhotogVA's photo
Fri 04/16/21 03:06 PM
95% or more of the women on here are fakes and scammers so be glad that they don't answer back.

I get tired of over 70 likes a day from 20-40 year olds 500+ miles away. Sure they want a relationship with a 60ish man. My rear.

This site being free is being overrun by them and I must report at least several dozen a day, so count your blessings, LOL

Kevin's photo
Wed 04/21/21 11:14 PM
Okay kinda profile for this site. It's a bit aggressive though!

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Thu 04/22/21 06:27 AM
Ten years of doing this, I've never come up with a good reason why no responses. I've asked the same question you're asking many times, I never got one satisfactory answer.

I've changed profiles, photos, nothing works. Then I looked at the numbers. In some areas, men outnumber women 8 to 1. Now, how does one overcome this?

Be stellar at selling yourself. Learn to sell an Eskimo an icebox. Learn to lie flawlessly. Be able to hold up a conversation with a cadaver. Dress like you just stepped out of the best menswear shop in town. Having a 6 figure income helps. Have a job with a title, in an admirable profession.

Or just learn than this is the way it is, and find some other form of entertainment.

Trixie's photo
Thu 04/22/21 08:31 AM

95% or more of the women on here are fakes and scammers so be glad that they don't answer back.

I get tired of over 70 likes a day from 20-40 year olds 500+ miles away. Sure they want a relationship with a 60ish man. My rear.

This site being free is being overrun by them and I must report at least several dozen a day, so count your blessings, LOL


You know you can set filters on your account so you only receive messages from your preferred age group,
and you can also put a distance limit on there too.

Good luck in your continued search :heart:

Trixie's photo
Thu 04/22/21 08:42 AM

okay so their are alot of beautiful women of all shapes and sizes on her and I've messaged quite a few but no response and I'm not rude or vulgar I simple say how do you do. and I just not attractive



waving Hi Robert. I do agree with fellow Minglers that maybe you should add some other photos where
you look a little more cheerful. Also I would rewrite your profile and say a bit more about yourself and what you are looking for. Ditch the negatives. Good luck in your search :heart:

Mark's photo
Thu 04/22/21 01:28 PM
Upload more pics and smile. If I don't see a smile, I assume the person is unhappy or has no teeth.