to some people this may fall in the line of religion but it is also suppor...ill get to my point...no matter what you do it happens for a reason like me i have had 4 relationships in the past two year which have all gone down hill and i think maybe all of this is happening because she is still out there maybe if i keep getting into relationships they will be the same way until i am with the one (that doesn't mean i wont stop dating) but anyways yeah.

Dont go into a new relationship with an old attitude, you will do yourself no favours and insult the new girl...Learn lessons by all means but dont begin by destroying.

Imagion having the dream car you have always dreamed of...but its the same colour you had before (your favourite colour) Imagion driving it with the belief that your gonna crash...the crash will happen, you make it happen...its called a self fulfilling prophesy...laymen call it baggage...

i always say that. there is a reason we just don't know it.

I don't know if I believe it ....why do innocent people die horrible deaths... and horrible people live healthy long lives..I don't think there is no rhyme or reason sometimes.

What if life is just some one's dream and they are about to awaken.....
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I agree. There are no coincidences in life, only failure to understand. We don’t truly know others, so it’s foolish to assume someone was a good person and died an unfair death. Furthermore, I believe we live until our purpose is complete. Living a long life doesn’t indicate we’re being rewarded. It means we’re taking longer to finish. *off to kill*

My philosophy pretty much coinsides with yours. I believe in a "twin flame," or someone who resonates on the soul level with you. However, if you find yourself in a new relationship you should give it your all. No one deserves to suffer because the other person won't commit entirely to them. Personally I'd suggest reserving yourself physically for a while because that bonds you on a physical level but often times prolonges relationships that shouldn't be prolonged.
"The Secret" is 80% right. Your focus has a huge impact on your reality. Put it into what you want(otherwise it's "I don't WANT TO BE HURT, I don't WANT TO BE HURT). Otherwise breakdown pretty much nailed it

yea i use to believe strongly that everything happens for a reason but after losing both parents very young to cancer and watching there entire body break down i lost all faith.the child molesters and rapists live on and on and that makes me sick.

I think it would be a good time for you to try to figure out why the four relationships did not go on or if you will failed. Maybe there was something you were meant to learn from each one of them or there was a reoccuring problem. Since you are the common denominator in the four relationships you might have to ask yourself was it me or were they just stepping stones. I am sure they and you got something out of it. I had a friend who asked the question of what's wrong with dating once. I thought it was a legitimate question because how else will you know until they meet you and you meet them. Might find out that you are just not ready to settle down, yet or that like you said you just haven't met that right one. I sure haven't found two exactly alike, yet.

Hey. you don't have to be a serial mengogamist to find the right person and starting a new realationship just to see, well that is just settling.

People aren't to be played with and niether are you. You are playing with fire and dating seems the best option at this time if you ask me. Keep it on a one on one dating relationship and don't take it any further until you know what went wrong and maybe both of you have touched souls.

Keeping on with realtionships is not fair to either of you and I think it is wrong. Self fufilling prophasy...yup! Dont' do that to yourself or another person anymore. IF the right one comes along you will know. You don't have to drag out a serious realtionship to know. Good luck and thanks for the opportunity to comment.