Unfortunally, whether we want to accept it, or not, looks is the first thing that attract us to the opposite sex. There is no doubt, no way around it, no excuses, if, or buts about it.

LC

so what you have just sead is that it is all about looks then ??????

so what about you no one chooses there looks you are born whom you are with no say so at all about it in no way so what about woman and men whom dont have good looks so thay are sappose to die alone then????

and one more thang no one keeps there looks no one with no way around that??http://www.chismah.net/articles/women/2007/51.html go to these link and tell me what you all thank about it is it right??? are wrung ?????

There is always one for everyone. Just have to wait your turn.

I use to be concerned with this issue because I thought I was not attractive, but is just how we perceive ourselves. If you think you are good looking and have self confidence, then that is the image you portrayed to the outside world. Is about the whole package, not only looks.

LC

Well, if that is indeed true, then I applaud you for being more enlightened than the average woman. :)

go to the link in the last post and tell me what you thank if you would up to you but would like to see what you thank about these

Hey, Tom Cruise is only 5' tall! :)

That is indeed true!

Looks count for something cause its attraction that brings you to that person...With that being said, I belive like some have said here as you age your looks can fade, money may not always be there. So I go for personality. Having lots of money and good looks. Hey, if they have it great. If not, doesnt make you any less of a person. take care all

Exactly! Interesting way to say "that's what I'm looking for, but don't really know it or want to admit it"

Not to get a date. It isn't just looks and money. To get a date it is about interests, things to talk about, having fun. For it to go anywhere else, there then has to be some sort of chemistry. I dated guys that weren't that great to look at, but were fun and interesting and there was that sexual spark. I've dated guys that were fun and interesting, but absolutely no spark. It doesn't matter if you go on one date or 10 dates, without that spark, it won't go anywear. But you won't know if there is a spart until actually meeting and getting together a few times. It can't be forced. And hot looking dates that are boring to talk to won't last long either. Who wants to work that hard, to pretend to be interested, for such a minimal pay off.

I myself have to be attracted to the person, but that doesn't mean he has to be a model. My taste varies from others. As far as money, I'm not looking for someone who is rich, but I'm looking for someone with the stability to "support" a family in the future. When I say "support" I do not mean to carry me or anything like that, it's just that my ex husband couldn't keep a job and it caused too much stress on me.

BUT, the main thing I am looking for is someone who fits my personality and can be my best friend too!

Again, everyone but Bill especially, re-read the above line a couple times.

it hard to find a date or a soulmate because of looks and most woman are very picky

You go Stylish! I agree. Too serious? TOOOOOOO BORING.

Not true .. a lot of women believe self-confidence is the 'key factor' for themselves and for the men they are attracted to!

A persons looks is NOT what first attracts me to them..it's what they say in their "opening note"..MOST of the people I have met/talked to on these sites didn't even HAVE a picture and I'd still get to know them.It seems that what I have notice is there are 3 things a guy looks for in a woman..LOOKS..MONEY and SEX..not always in that particular order but those are the top 3.

i can hold a job and im a nice loving honest intellgent respectful with great personalty good heart

of course it is all about looks and money...get over it. Make some money and get that plastic surgery so you can compete

i look for personaly and good heart and who is honest respectful who dont lied or cheat