is it possible to find an honest mature man in this world?

You don't have to be

By "mature" do you mean pay your bills on time and always wear clean underwear or do you mean no longer finding fart jokes funny?

This whole "mature" thing rules me out.

He's not a real man if he don't find fart jokes funny.

IDC how old I get, crop dusting a Walmart aisle will always make me chuckle.

Im almost 50 and just started trying to date again after 22 years. I feel insecure trying to talk to a potential date now. Unsure of what to say and I have to put on a face of self confidence. I feel just like I did when I was a teenager.. I want to be honest but I feel I will seem not mature, with the things Im interested in, what I think is neat about the world ..

So from my perspective you may have to chose one .. Do you want honesty or mature? Because honestly .. I NEVER fell like I am mature enough for a woman.

Possible? Yes...you have to just put yourself out there and get to know a man better before getting into the serious stuff.

not in your age group....we are so different in so many ways...how we take in

info then how we process it....at your age men are usually focused on careers

, accomplishments or sex...women on the other hand take pride in there

relationships more.....the more men you date, the more you will start to see

''the one'' when he arrives....the best advice can give is '' make the boy

earn you''

....any man, generally will not appreciate what is just been handed over

to him without earning it, at least its that way it is with most....befriend

older women they are a wealth of info......

feel the same.

Pull my finger

You are never alone. You have yourself. You NEED to love yourself. Learn to love yourself until you don't feel like you are alone. If you don't, you will never be ready to connect with anybody. As for mature men, good luck. We are not mature. We were men since birth. We were never boys. That is a label that is put on us by society. We were always men. Only of smaller stature. We will always be what you call immature. Because our maturity is physical. When women don't try to refine men, they won't create their irrelevant standards. "I want a real man!" All men are real. "I want a man with a good job." Get a good job of your own. "I want a rich man!" Are you rich? "I want a tall man!" How much do you weigh? Really any man will do. Your needs will guide you as partners. If you try to find a man who meets your needs, everything you need will be gone when he is gone and you will be left with what feels like nothing.

She's gone mates.

All that pseudo philosophy has gone for naught.

yes I'm here

That's okay, I came to yank Rock's finger.

Don't do it man!!!!!!

There's enough "crop dusting" going on around here already.