It wasn't a great show but wasnt bad either

Amen pixie

well thanx for helpin me feel better bout it everyone, time for me to go to bed! night and i appreacite the help.

omg- i just read this through.....wouldnt it be just awful if you peeked out the window to see a trailer hitch back into your driveway ( used to carry her )
or worst yet, you appear on a milk carton because your need to find that special someone went horribly wrong.....

seriously dude- youre not crippled or ugly: and thats what makes this conversation useless- tell the creepy internet dreck to stay home....youll save alot of time, and possibly your life in the process......

how do you know weither or not youve been expressing your love to a gay rasta or a serial killer with a well and poodle in your future?

Have a good night sweet dreams and dont let it bother you

ummm i think you got the wrong idea really... #1 we're meeting somewhere public, so if i don't like what i see from the jump the whole situation is over... #2 she's coming to me, and if it were to work out, she's expressed that she does want to move away from where she is... so a well and a poodle i dont' think i have to wory about... and yes i got the joke thanx for the concern.

Bro,
I dont mean to rain on you're parade but no pic man??? There's a reason for that. 2. You have not spoken to her on the phone???? Thats my biggest problem plus you're driving 4 hours to meet someone you have'nt even heard the voice of? Dont be surprised if she's not real and youre there waiting alone being the butt of someones joke. You need to at least talk to her man with a phone number/real person. If you dont then dont cry when you get burned....

He isn't the one driving she is.

lol - have a merry christmas....and remember to be safe- and update us here at justsayhi

and dont forget to carry a piping hot cup of coffee upon seeing this mystery date...( i do it all the time- just in case )

I agree with this idea

how great would it be if a ebony goliath by the name of Peaches show up at his doorstep with a napsack and a sleepyrag....that's chloriform to you folks !!

i bet peaches is mapquesting his house as we speak.....

Sorry. I can tell Bro you dont date alot for the wat you're acting about this.( No offense) I see alot of bro's here saying how they dont get alot of attention or mails here and I can relate to why you're excited. You seem like a good guy and I real feel in my gut you're being made a fool of. No pic no phone number....Think bro. Ill solve this 4 u right now. Simply ask to speak with her on the phone. If she refuses you're being played. Its very simple my man. Again if you dont listen to me which u probably wont because you want to meet someone so bad,lol again dont whine cuz i told ya

Of course talking on the phone doesn't mean anything really. I am hard of hearing so hate talking on the phone. I only do to be nice and not have the guy think I am avoiding him. But yeah 1 phone call wouldn't hurt even if it was just to talk for a few minutes.

Advice?

No expectations, no disappointments.

Go with an agenda, and we shall be hearing how terrible it was.

You are building up to something huge, when it isn't.


You are meeting another human being....big deal, if you leave your house once a year, you risk meeting someone you don't know.


Just chill.

Hi Jess and good advice

... i wonder what the ouija boad will say when they cant locate him ,but the signs of a struggle in his apt...

........."He isn't the one driving she is."

Heck every time you walk out the door you risk meeting a person you don't know. It's what makes life fun.

i bet " peaches " is working on something spectacular too- namely a glorious " mam- suit "....and all he needs is one more guy to complete the job ...

ok, partner, i have done this and its very delicate to decipher, and not every situation is the same. i met some one, not on this site but a similar site, heres how it went, we somehow saw each others profile in what the site calls a quick match(its like the mutual match on this site), well she immediately messaged me and wanted me to chat with her on IM(but not the sites IM), well i agreed, so we talked quiet often, and the one thing that concerned me was she was already calling me hun, baby, sugar, and this didn't seem right, my gut was telling me something didn't seem right, well anyways time went on and we talked about everything, some really personal stuff, she sent me provocative pics, and stuff and i thought that was cool, well she wanted to fly in from chicago and i said thats great so i told her i would take time off at a desiganated time, everything was lining up for me until the last minute when we were IMing each other before she was ordering the pland ticket, she tells me she doesn't have enough and wanted 600 dollars from me to get here, well i immediately broke off communication. morale of the story is, if it sounds too good to be true, it just might be and the thing is i had seen pics of her, and had her number and email, so even with that much info, you can still get the shaft, just be careful, i would make it a point to make her send you a pic and maybe even a pic of her drivers license, you never know how old this girl could be too, follow your gut, its usually right 90% of the time.

Try not to listen to all these 'Gloom and Doom' people. It ain't that big a deal.
The chances of you running into an axe murderer, a con, someone that has written some really convincing ransom notes in the past.. Are no where near the chances of you hurting yourself before you even meet her..as spun as you seem to be. At the rate you are going, you will tip yourself over long before she has a chance!

Relax!

And listen to Jess.