Would you date anyone with a disability. Im honest enough to put that i have a condition that one could assume im disabled but I'm not at all. And thats where it ends. So even the older generation are looking for a page 3 and a trophy girlfriend.... Im no stunner but I've certainly not seen a Brad pit or George Clooney on here l

Curvature of the spine.
Your disability is more common than
you might think.

You should have no problem finding
someone.

lol hi Looking 4 love, you'd be surprised. I had seen young George Clooney, Al Pacino and lots of famous Bollywood stars on here.

Don't worry about your disability. Most people here have some sort of disability whether physical, emotional or mental. I am not one of them... I is perfect jk

Welcome to Mingle2

No I would not ,we all have our likes and dislikes,I see you dislike shaven heads, Good luck here

I'm lookin for someone as crazy as I am. :>P

That might take a while

A shaved head is a choice, a disability isn't

I love this since I've never figured out a reason for willingly shaving your head unless of course you don't have much left up there.
What I really don't get is doing it because it's trendy and you have hair but I usually hate fads..........................
As I've sarcasticlly said here before, "shave your head and grow a beard and you can shower once a week need to or not". But I'm a smartazz.

You just say it is something you don't like ,so bald is ok with you ? ,It is not a choice but looks just the same as shaved

been disabled is nothing in love,love only talks about heart , so love live in your heart, I can date a disabled since he really love me

they are human being that is trying to survive before they become disabled, so love in there heart, view don't judge love

I guess to some, it would be an issue. Others would not even think twice about it.

If you say you have a disability, you might want to specify whether or not you are mobile with or without assistive devices (cane, walker, wheelchair, etc.), or something about the nature of restrictions ("can't drive; can take short walks to the store, etc.)

Rosie, you is perfect!

OT: I have no issues dating someone with a disability. I could never be that shallow.

Some disabilities are brought about by the
choices of the disabled.

Nobody forced Christopher Reeve, onto the
horse that threw him.

No.

People aren't compartmentalized.

They're not just perfect little beings with this one little sidecar attached labeled "disability" (or baggage) that "good" people ignore, and doesn't affect anything, it just sits in that sidecar.

For instance, I know an older woman dating a guy with diabetes. He is also on a bunch of medication which thins his blood. He still eats candy.
He can't feel his feet very well. If he gets any kind of cut he may bleed out.
He can't go to the dentist because if they perform any kind of oral surgery he could bleed out and die. His teeth are rotting out slowly and it's causing all sorts of insecurities and emotional problems and additional health problems. What makes him feel better? Candy. Too much of which also cause mental problems in impulse control and understanding.

She used to "dream" about traveling, going to see family, having friends, living life. Due to his medications and everyday health he can't fly. He has problems in certain environments (like mountains).
Now she's in a cycle of depression where she can't leave him because he doesn't have anyone else and she thinks if she leaves him he'll die, and thoughts of leaving him to fend for himself make her feel so bad, that she's a bad person, that she gets more depressed and starts to believe there's no one else out there for her, because who would want to date someone that just left someone for their "disabilities."

This isn't who they are, but some of the crap they're dealing with. Trying to deal with this, while not fighting, and trying to enjoy their lives together, are leading to spiraling into both becoming worse people. Trying to deny that whole "our disabilities don't define us! We're good people!"

In the beginning it was all "oh, well, we'll be careful and just go here, do this, that, the other, we'll make it work."
In the beginning it was all "oh, diabetes is manageable. Depression is manageable. Low mobility is okay. We're going to live how we want to. Candy? Bring it on. We'll just drive everywhere and take it slow."

She wallows in depression, he in insecurities, and they use/feed off each other to feel better than that, where the stress just pushes more of their life in dealing with their "disabilities."

Their lives are constrained, fenced in, nearly defined by their "disabilities" now, and they don't realize it. They go nowhere, they do nothing, and pretend they're satisfied, rationalizing why they can't live the lives they want.
"Oh, it's not the diabetes and medical condition or depression keeping us from doing anything! It's this stupid bad weather, it's family that may potentially need us at some point. Nope, no disability here!"


Personally, I have no desire to even potentially be sucked into that black hole.

HEY!!!! I got feelins,,,,at home in a jar, but still. :>P

I love everyone no matter their condi6

And something could happen to you, either at work, or in traveling, that could cause *you* a disabilty....
Not everything shitty involes "choice"..sometimes it is just doing normal stuff at home or work, and something goes wrong...like guys at a construction site when a scaffolding collapses..that has happend in Nashville more than a couple of times over the past decade...

i would definitely date a girl with a disability. i would see her for her inner beauty.