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Topic: Being Disrespectful
Toodygirl5's photo
Thu 09/24/20 02:59 PM
I'm already sugar and spice :blush:

Toodygirl5's photo
Thu 09/24/20 03:00 PM
Edited by Toodygirl5 on Thu 09/24/20 03:01 PM

Wouldn’t it be simpler just to treat people the way they want to be treated?


For Some men it is just that !

I know of a couple!

LarchTree's photo
Thu 09/24/20 03:11 PM
Edited by LarchTree on Thu 09/24/20 03:14 PM
Probably good to avoid envy like the plague. Condescending behavior is often a sign of envy. If a man is disrespectful, it may be because they are worried they are not good enough for you. But they stick around because I like you. If you notice you get “reverse feedback“ in terms of appreciation, that’s probably it. It’s not just between men and women, I see it all the time.

ctr916's photo
Thu 09/24/20 03:55 PM

I'm already sugar and spice :blush:

But are you also, everything nice? Lousy "client relations" for free under Capitalism could be considered, less moral if not less ethical. xoxo

no photo
Thu 09/24/20 04:13 PM
Edited by Seamus on Thu 09/24/20 04:14 PM
If you found him disrespectful on the first date (when we're all usually on our best behaviour), then he's unlikely to change/and you're unlikely to change your opinion of him.

shimul parvez's photo
Thu 09/24/20 04:53 PM
yes

Toodygirl5's photo
Thu 09/24/20 07:44 PM
Edited by Toodygirl5 on Thu 09/24/20 07:47 PM


I'm already sugar and spice :blush:

But are you also, everything nice?



I'm picky!! the Man, who gives me anything, has to be a Gentleman.

I've been told I'm Nice!

I agreed.



caty's photo
Thu 09/24/20 07:54 PM
yes

anehl's photo
Thu 09/24/20 08:02 PM
Yes

no photo
Fri 09/25/20 12:53 AM


It depends .. What was the trigger why and how was he rude ?

Everyone has potential to behave disrespectfully ., even those who polish their own halos biggrin



I disagree!

Real men move on but don't disrespect the woman.
so if she misrepresented herself and lied about her looks to lure him on a first date and waste his time .. he is not allowed to be rude or express his disappointment ???

Seems you hold The man’s behaviour to a standard but not the woman ???

Toodygirl5's photo
Fri 09/25/20 05:34 AM



It depends .. What was the trigger why and how was he rude ?

Everyone has potential to behave disrespectfully ., even those who polish their own halos biggrin



I disagree!

Real men move on but don't disrespect the woman.
so if she misrepresented herself and lied about her looks to lure him on a first date and waste his time .. he is not allowed to be rude or express his disappointment ???

Seems you hold The man’s behaviour to a standard but not the woman ???




We just disagree!

Toodygirl5's photo
Fri 09/25/20 05:44 AM
Edited by Toodygirl5 on Fri 09/25/20 05:54 AM
I met a man in person! He said he met one woman once, she walked into the coffee shop and took a look at him and said, Oh..hell no, and walked out.

He was very nice man, overweight. It didn't show in his photos online.
He was not attractive ether just nice.

He said the woman was attractive, but rude.

I told him everyone should be treated with respect. We had a nice meet.
Even though he wasn't right for ME.

I like the character of a man ! Looks can be very deceiving!


Don't post old pictures and be deceptive about yourself, if you PLAN to Meet Upfront and inperson.

The men I met traveled here, so I'm always kind.



Toodygirl5's photo
Fri 09/25/20 05:47 AM
Edited by Toodygirl5 on Fri 09/25/20 05:56 AM


Oops

Toodygirl5's photo
Fri 09/25/20 05:49 AM
Edited by Toodygirl5 on Fri 09/25/20 05:51 AM


I don't date just Online!

Toodygirl5's photo
Fri 09/25/20 05:55 AM

If you found him disrespectful on the first date (when we're all usually on our best behaviour), then he's unlikely to change/and you're unlikely to change your opinion of him.



I agree :thumbsup:

no photo
Sun 09/27/20 06:32 AM
A man should be respectful towards the women always

Courcor's photo
Sun 09/27/20 10:42 PM
Yes, pay attention to what they are showing you. If they are disrespectful to anyone on a first date , you should run the other way.

💫John 💫's photo
Mon 09/28/20 12:41 AM
no

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