Topic: Minnesota people who were CatFished... Is ir Cheating if you
Jsn's photo
Mon 09/21/20 04:32 AM
Dated a person who pretended to be the person I would be interested in until after they moved in as a long term relationship... Shortly after moving in they said ... Now I can be who I really am...

soufiehere's photo
Mon 09/21/20 07:15 AM
Welcome :-)
We all want to be able to be who we really are,
that should be cause for rejoicing.

Tom4Uhere's photo
Mon 09/21/20 08:32 AM
Perhaps they felt so comfortable in your presence the could finally let their guard down.

Welcome to M2 forums
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mature friend's photo
Mon 09/21/20 10:05 AM
Many portray themselves differently on-line. Some do so purposely to mislead, and some do it unintentionally, wanting to be that person...but it still misleads.

Sometimes the view we have of ourselves is not what others see, and who we really are.

jugari007's photo
Mon 09/21/20 10:40 AM

Dated a person who pretended to be the person I would be interested in until after they moved in as a long term relationship... Shortly after moving in they said ... Now I can be who I really am...


That's how things are always have-been and always will be.

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Mon 09/21/20 10:55 AM
I think that the most important question here would be, and did you like the person they were when they weren't pretending to be someone else?'

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Mon 09/21/20 05:13 PM
My question would be, how long were you dating before you moved in together?

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Wed 09/23/20 03:30 PM
Sounds like marriage