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Topic: Name a positive/ negative for being single
Poetrywriter Joined Sun 10/14/07 Posts: 22675	Wed 09/09/20 08:28 AM
Positive - Being suddenly named never. Negative - Not having someone cook me ham & bean soup.

🍫 KitKat 🍫 Joined Thu 09/27/18 Posts: 40344	Wed 09/09/20 08:30 AM
rock Y'all are good at this... really got me thinking I'm happy being single... yes there are things I miss but not enough to deal with all the extra negative Anyone else come to any conclusions with this thread??? Yes, it has made me realise what I'm missing. I am beginning to find it harder and harder to think of positive of being single. Negatives... plenty of those! So yeah, for me it made really crystal clear that I want a partner, and what I'm missing out on by being single. I already mentioned that few days back, I think in "What are you thinking about" to thank you as I'm really happy you started this topic that brought me this clarity Awww crystal Positive thoughts that you find each other Thank you! You're amazing... the only thing I can say is maybe it's time to start being more proactive... possibly start venturing out and exploring some of those unknown roads???

🍫 KitKat 🍫 Joined Thu 09/27/18 Posts: 40344	Wed 09/09/20 08:30 AM
Positive - Being suddenly named never. Negative - Not having someone cook me ham & bean soup.

🍫 KitKat 🍫 Joined Thu 09/27/18 Posts: 40344	Wed 09/09/20 08:32 AM
Positive: Being able to have a long time secret crush on someone. Negative: Living in Too~Far~Away Land. Who??? I won't tell anyone If she gives permission to be identified as my crush. Maybe you could ask the mystery woman? I PM her..... waiting for a response

Rock Joined Thu 10/09/08 Posts: 21258	Wed 09/09/20 08:37 AM
Positive: Being able to have a long time secret crush on someone. Negative: Living in Too~Far~Away Land. Who??? I won't tell anyone If she gives permission to be identified as my crush. Maybe you could ask the mystery woman? I PM her..... waiting for a response It could be possible, she might not want her name mentioned in the same post as mine.

Tom4Uhere Joined Sat 12/17/16 Posts: 16240	Wed 09/09/20 09:04 AM
Positive to being single: Freedom to explore my imagination Negative to being single: Less chance of broadening my horizons.

SparklingCrystal 💖💎 Joined Mon 05/20/13 Posts: 33472	Wed 09/09/20 09:34 AM Edited by SparklingCrystal 💖💎 on Wed 09/09/20 09:36 AM
rock Y'all are good at this... really got me thinking I'm happy being single... yes there are things I miss but not enough to deal with all the extra negative Anyone else come to any conclusions with this thread??? Yes, it has made me realise what I'm missing. I am beginning to find it harder and harder to think of positive of being single. Negatives... plenty of those! So yeah, for me it made really crystal clear that I want a partner, and what I'm missing out on by being single. I already mentioned that few days back, I think in "What are you thinking about" to thank you as I'm really happy you started this topic that brought me this clarity Awww crystal Positive thoughts that you find each other Thank you! You're amazing... the only thing I can say is maybe it's time to start being more proactive... possibly start venturing out and exploring some of those unknown roads??? Yes, hahaha. I will indeed have to venture out more as it's become pretty clear to me over the months that dating sites don't seem to work for me anymore. I have to find a better assorted 'shop'. actually also another way that suits me better than a dating site. And thank you for the compliment

Toodygirl5 Joined Fri 10/26/12 Posts: 15296	Wed 09/09/20 01:16 PM
Cook whatever I want- positive No negative

🍫 KitKat 🍫 Joined Thu 09/27/18 Posts: 40344	Thu 09/10/20 03:17 AM
Negative I rarely take the time to just sit and watch a movie by myself Positive I don't have to share my popcorn

Rock Joined Thu 10/09/08 Posts: 21258	Thu 09/10/20 05:09 AM
Positive: enjoying peace & quiet. Negative: enjoying peace & quiet.

eric22t Joined Wed 08/13/14 Posts: 27928	Thu 09/10/20 05:21 AM
positive: watching sunrises and sunsets when ever you can negative: watching sunrises and sunsets alone

SparklingCrystal 💖💎 Joined Mon 05/20/13 Posts: 33472	Thu 09/10/20 09:25 AM
Negative: No one to get rid of these hotdanged sea gulls on the shed across the street. A well-aimed shot from an air gun should do. Seen a neighbour do it years back, but I do not want him by my side. Tad tooooo old! Positive: I dunno

eric22t Joined Wed 08/13/14 Posts: 27928	Thu 09/10/20 10:44 AM
Negative: No one to get rid of these hotdanged sea gulls on the shed across the street. A well-aimed shot from an air gun should do. Seen a neighbour do it years back, but I do not want him by my side. Tad tooooo old! Positive: I dunno i had one girlfriend who could out shoot me. so you do it

SparklingCrystal 💖💎 Joined Mon 05/20/13 Posts: 33472	Thu 09/10/20 11:04 AM
Negative: No one to get rid of these hotdanged sea gulls on the shed across the street. A well-aimed shot from an air gun should do. Seen a neighbour do it years back, but I do not want him by my side. Tad tooooo old! Positive: I dunno i had one girlfriend who could out shoot me. so you do it Much nicer to have a man who does the masculine things

eric22t Joined Wed 08/13/14 Posts: 27928	Thu 09/10/20 11:05 AM
yes dearrrrrr

Unknow Joined Wed 06/27/18 Posts: 101536	Thu 09/10/20 11:46 AM
Positive... plenty of hot water to take long showers. Negative... no one to wash your back

cityblues21 Joined Sat 07/05/08 Posts: 20033	Thu 09/10/20 03:55 PM
Positive: I always get to drive.. Negative: I have to drive..

Rock Joined Thu 10/09/08 Posts: 21258	Thu 09/10/20 09:15 PM
Positive: Love of complete solitude. Negative: there are no negatives.

SparklingCrystal 💖💎 Joined Mon 05/20/13 Posts: 33472	Fri 09/11/20 01:52 AM
Positive: I always get to drive.. Negative: I have to drive.. That's a good one! Indeed always having to drive yourself when alone...

bobtail76 Joined Mon 02/10/14 Posts: 7011	Sat 09/19/20 04:20 PM
Positive: Getting frisky whenever the mood strikes Negative: Rubbing one out