Well, PLEASE man, BE REAL with the WHOLE picture and SEE that YOU LET THIS HAPPEN TO YOU.

So many here want to just blame the other and NOT SEE THEIR FAULTS in the experience..

It TAKES TWO to allow ANYTHING to happen BETWEEN THEM,,,

And YES,,,she has ISSUES, BUT, YOU SHOULD HAVE DONE FOUND OUT """"THAT""", not just pass time with her and LET HER TOTALLY GUIDE YOUR EVERY MOVE!

And NEVER question her WHYS????

I hate one sided stories or one sided FAULTS...
No-one is perfect and to know THAT to SOME is impossible for THEM to SEE THAT!

To find LOVE, ALOT goes WITH THAT..

To find HARMONY with ANYONE in a EVERYDAY TOGETHER LIFE, is
all but almost impossible to find, and have IT last your life-time..

So people change and their desires change and that harmony will fade FAST in SOME, and SLOW in OTHERS.

Just be good with finding someone you can call your bestfriend, and talk about anything together, and know THEY will NEVER leave your side as a FRIEND, THEN,,,BUILD FROM "THAT"!!!!

I know this relationship was only a month and a half, but I have been laying in bed for the past 3 hours trying to sleep. I can not get any freaking sleep over this break up.

Dude,,YOU are YOUNG, you have good HEALTH, Your NOT handicapped, You have a place to live, you have someplace to vent(here).
You have SOooooo Much ahead of YOU.

AND YOU CAN'T FREAKIN SLEEP??????

Lets not show everybody to much more of HOW BAD YOU ARE FEELING,,ok.
Because there are WAYyyyyy to many folks on this site who have SO """""MANY"""""MORE DEMANDING ISSUES, that "THEY" can't change about THEIR LIVES....

WOW,,I am like so sorry you have some lost sleep over a girl you
knew a month and a half.

Tell THAT to the GUY here who dated the lady for a year then asked her to marry him and found out SHE WAS MARRIED!!!

Tell that to all the ones here who consider their selves ugly,
or over weight and CAN'T CHANGE!!!

Or the ones here whos wife left them or husband left them for another person AFTER 25 YEARS of marraige...

Or the one here THINKING LIFE IS SO BAD their wanting to """DIE""".

Or the handicaped people here who are blind, deaf, in wheel chairs missing arms, or only a short time to still LIVE.




















And "YOU" can't sleep!!!!!!!



ARGHHHHHHHHHH

She played with his heart Terry, he thought they were going somewhere and he had feelings for her. You are right though, there are people with very serious issues on here.

I wouldn't downplay the sadness/grief Steve is feeling over this "breakup." After all, he thought he had a relationship.

Give yourself some time Steve and things will get better. Not much consolation, but as they say, better to find out now than months down the road when you have invested a lot more time and much more of your heart.

The girl's own description of not being able to feel anything, being asexual, etc pretty much indicates a deeper problem within herself, most likely a past history of sexual abuse. She must have sensed you would soon ask questions and want explanations..... thus she broke it off.
As others have said, this could have been a long, hard, unfulfilling road for you. Consider yourself lucky this did not go further, and that she took the initiative to break it off.
Don't give up on finding someone who will reciprocate your feelings.

thanks marie and texas

Ditto

I have never hated anyone as much as I hate Kelly right now. I got absolutely no sleep and I have to go to work now. I drive for a living and I need to have a good night rest...awesome.

I fell way to fast and hard for this girl, I need to learn to have fun and just date several women at once.

Ahhh, Steve, I'm so sorry about the break up. Hate is too strong a word. Disappointed, maybe?

There are many other girls out there...some who like to kiss. She has too many issues that need to be worked out.

Hugs, M

yes, I know, that was yesterday, I was very tired which is why i said i hated her. I will find someone else, it just may take some time...hopefully not much time though.

you should have no problem darlin

I think you are lucky that this happened early on in the relationship, I know that it doesn't help much with your heart right now....but give it a few months and you will be ready to try again. Just realize that not all women are like that! Not all women hold back their emotions and don't communicate.
I suggest that with your next relationship if your next girl don't communicate with you...the first thing you need to do is suggest communication. IF she doesn't want to do that, don't wait around for her. You see how messed up some people can be, I am just glad that you got away from her before you wasted a lot of time!!
Keep your chin up and give yourself some time to heal. Don't worry I am sure you will be ready to start your search for your mate very soon!!! Good luck

thank you, i hope i can get back before a couple months, but if it takes that much time, so be it.