Topic: Could I get a straight forward answer
Justwantsomethingreal's photo
Sat 07/18/20 10:07 PM
I would like some hi eat opinions because my self esteem is completely wrecked and I would like to know if I could get. Few straight forward answers please. Am I ugly work am I just completely unattractive or what do you think ???????? frustrated

Madhur's photo
Sat 07/18/20 11:17 PM
Edited by Madhur on Sat 07/18/20 11:23 PM
You seem good to me brother. What ruined your esteem?
edit: I am straight (Do not assume that I feel attracted to you, just said with good intention, hard to speak straightforwardly theese days, don't you think?)

Freebird Deluxe's photo
Sat 07/18/20 11:56 PM
Hi we don't see much of you just a cool ZZTOPP look, add some more pics and a main one without shades plus some interest's , "I'll tell you later " makes people think why can't he spend 2 mins writing a couple of lines? It is seen as lazy,boring and not serious, often skipped past to someone who will tell us now.
Phone numbers attract scammers and gold diggers

no photo
Sun 07/19/20 10:45 AM
beauty is not just about physical. anyone who see what is inside is the real beauty :)

ivegotthegirth's photo
Sun 07/19/20 02:11 PM

Hi we don't see much of you just a cool ZZTOPP look, add some more pics and a main one without shades plus some interest's , "I'll tell you later " makes people think why can't he spend 2 mins writing a couple of lines? It is seen as lazy,boring and not serious, often skipped past to someone who will tell us now.
Phone numbers attract scammers and gold diggers


Yeah I agree and IMO the beard makes you look at least 20 years older than you are. If that's your goal I guess it's up to you.........

Poetrywriter's photo
Sun 07/19/20 02:13 PM
I would add a photo without the shades so your eyes can be seen. Include more of a write up. And take out your phone number in your write up. That invites calls from scammers. You can always give your phone number out if you message someone who seems interested.

Nancy's photo
Mon 07/20/20 01:43 PM
you are certainly not ugly. ditch the shades in your primary photo. show your eyes. I agree that a beard is aging. you're young enough to get away with it for now, and it's a well groomed beard. I'm in Missouri and will not contact men in my age bracket with full beards. And there are many more with beards than without. a smile would help. I know it feels awkward to smile to a selfie. your writeup seemed ok. did you state what you're looking for in a woman because I don't remember reading that?

feelyoungagain's photo
Sat 08/01/20 08:49 AM

I would like some hi eat opinions because my self esteem is completely wrecked and I would like to know if I could get. Few straight forward answers please. Am I ugly work am I just completely unattractive or what do you think ???????? frustrated


First of all, you haven't even taken anyone's suggestions seriously. Why ask if you don't plan on using feedback. Secondly, I suggest you work on your self-esteem or you will be disappointed in your journey and the results; not to mention, wasting your time. No woman will want to be with a man who doesn't feel good about himself. It's a downer and unattractive. What about posting at least one picture with a smile or laughing? Ugly? No, but that doesn't mean you're everyone's cup of tea either. I don't expect you are attracted to all women on this planet. Remove your number. No one is interested at this point. It would help tremendously if you wrote about what you are seeking/desiring in a partner. What are you hoping to get out of a partnership? Good luck!