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Topic: Single for a YEAR???
RSK Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 24	Sat 12/22/07 02:27 PM
yea so i have been single for a whole year now, and i have no luck with the ladies anymore. Any advise?

WarDriverJ Joined Wed 09/19/07 Posts: 7571	Sat 12/22/07 02:28 PM
Stay single

ZacharyRyan Joined Tue 11/20/07 Posts: 3166	Sat 12/22/07 02:30 PM
I've been single longer than that, so I guess I can't give you any advice Maybe I'll just see what others have to say instead

Trinette Joined Sun 10/07/07 Posts: 140	Sat 12/22/07 02:31 PM
TRY 4YRS LOL, JUST AINT MET THE RIGHT GUY YET.XX

gottaluvit Joined Fri 12/14/07 Posts: 3	Sat 12/22/07 02:31 PM
um un the same boat brotha

RSK Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 24	Sat 12/22/07 02:31 PM
lol thnks for tryin to give addivice man lol its hard lol.

sexybear Joined Tue 04/10/07 Posts: 60	Sat 12/22/07 02:31 PM
same here, why the hell you think I am on a stupid dating site, to try and actually find a girlfriend...

Nightsnack Joined Fri 12/21/07 Posts: 20	Sat 12/22/07 02:32 PM
O come on be nice ....lol

RSK Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 24	Sat 12/22/07 02:37 PM
yea no need to be pissy about this bulletin man, i just need advice maybe im doin somethin wrng.

covington Joined Fri 07/06/07 Posts: 1491	Sat 12/22/07 03:56 PM
been single for almost seven years now and i really dont think that will change for me.

MZKat Joined Thu 12/13/07 Posts: 1899	Sat 12/22/07 04:02 PM
The only advice I can give is.... If the timing is right, it will happen...being single isn't a bad thing you know...none of that guessing games, or silly games in general people play when it comes to dating... Enjoy your time now...do things you have never done before...learn new things, new cultures...don't wait around for that Miss Right...enjoy your surroundings and friends :) This could be a time for you to grow and learn....

Jtevans Joined Fri 08/10/07 Posts: 30654	Sat 12/22/07 04:03 PM
been single for 4-5 yrs,no advice for ya here,sorry

MsTeddyBear2u Joined Fri 04/06/07 Posts: 22031	Sat 12/22/07 04:07 PM
I can't give you any advice... Been single too long myself... Going for a record here...

Moondark Joined Tue 11/27/07 Posts: 5866	Sat 12/22/07 04:13 PM
Single for a year is one thing. Try no dates for a year as well. Bleh. I'm sure 2008 will be better. I'm thinking so, since for the past several years, every January I try to start writing 2008. So something must be up with the year.

cutelildevilsmom Joined Sat 04/07/07 Posts: 8862	Sat 12/22/07 04:20 PM
6 yrs here...no dates for 4 yrs..i hope you have better luck..

shadowdog Joined Fri 10/13/06 Posts: 12773	Sat 12/22/07 04:25 PM
17 yrs--kinda long time--

Jistme Joined Wed 10/31/07 Posts: 2991	Sat 12/22/07 04:29 PM
Any advise? I learned something once when I stayed single with a purpose for 2 years. After leaving a 16 year relationship I decided I'd take some time and get to know me. A by product of that was woman... I just thought it was God playing a practicle joke on me. Testing my resolve, maybe. With exception to an occasional meet over a cup of coffee... I stayed abstinant. I didn't die from it. It also confirmed something I've probably always known. There are some things in life that work best if you aren't trying. Meeting women is one of those things.

Puffins1958 Joined Tue 02/27/07 Posts: 13637	Sat 12/22/07 04:30 PM
For me...Nov. 15th was 1 year since I left my soon to be EX. I've gone on dates, enough even...just not men that want to be in any kind of a relationship. We just see things differently, that's all. I wish you luck in your search for happiness...

IrishMom Joined Sat 12/15/07 Posts: 116	Sat 12/22/07 04:58 PM
Socialise more?

msnj52 Joined Sun 09/16/07 Posts: 9893	Sat 12/22/07 05:02 PM
You're way too young to be anything but 'single'. Enjoy your youth, date a bit & good things will come in time. (Guess I sound like a mom, but that's what I am with 2 boys close too your age.)