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Topic: How long should one wait?
Zion Joined Fri 05/08/20 Posts: 1008	Fri 06/12/20 11:07 AM
There might be some girls out there who are okay with just being a blowup doll with a voice box, but in general most WOMEN have a little more respect for themselves. Some yes...I'm just astounded at the amount that don't and just flash all the goodies in their profile pics... What is even more shocking is that these 20-somethings have had 2 decades of "Don't Objectify Women" lectures and yet the amount of self-deprivation is astounding.

Robyn Elvia Joined Mon 06/15/20 Posts: 1	Mon 06/15/20 05:32 PM
That’s very bad

Shelley Joined Thu 05/21/20 Posts: 132	Mon 06/15/20 07:43 PM
Is it normal to wanna score on the first date? Do ladies ever want it? Depends. For men -"Is it normal to wanna score on the first date?" Oh hell yeah. Men are hardwired by nature to try to procreate at every opportunity, just as a dog is hardwired to want a steak at every meal. For women - "Do ladies ever want it?" Oh hell yeah. BUT - their sexual attraction is tied to their emotions - which can be turned on/off like a light switch and do not have to be tied to "soulful love" as they would want men to believe. Thus the proverbial "gals weekend to Vegas" where a string of one-niters may occur "for the thrill" - an emotion she doesn't get at home anymore in her current relationship. Or from her sneaks back to her Ex - for those emotional thrills that sneaking around create. If the gal emotionally wants the thrill, they'll pull the trigger on the first date, such as if you were a top-tier guy. If not, they have to develop a want for you first. Very true! What would you consider as a top-tier guy? Haven't heard it phrased like this before.

butribu Joined Tue 03/17/15 Posts: 10533	Mon 06/15/20 09:21 PM
not long.

ctr916 Joined Sun 06/17/18 Posts: 889	Tue 06/16/20 10:18 AM
...until she tells me she wants to be friends simply because she is a "girl" and I am a "boy".

Larsson71 Joined Sun 03/08/20 Posts: 1061	Tue 06/16/20 10:22 AM
Is it normal to wanna score on the first date? Do ladies ever want it? Depends. For men -"Is it normal to wanna score on the first date?" Oh hell yeah. Men are hardwired by nature to try to procreate at every opportunity, just as a dog is hardwired to want a steak at every meal. For women - "Do ladies ever want it?" Oh hell yeah. BUT - their sexual attraction is tied to their emotions - which can be turned on/off like a light switch and do not have to be tied to "soulful love" as they would want men to believe. Thus the proverbial "gals weekend to Vegas" where a string of one-niters may occur "for the thrill" - an emotion she doesn't get at home anymore in her current relationship. Or from her sneaks back to her Ex - for those emotional thrills that sneaking around create. If the gal emotionally wants the thrill, they'll pull the trigger on the first date, such as if you were a top-tier guy. If not, they have to develop a want for you first. Very true! What would you consider as a top-tier guy? Haven't heard it phrased like this before. A guy who is financially secure, is classed as a "Top tier guy" usually Shelley!

butribu Joined Tue 03/17/15 Posts: 10533	Sat 06/20/20 08:25 PM
some long.

Shelley Joined Thu 05/21/20 Posts: 132	Sat 06/20/20 11:57 PM
A guy who is financially secure, is classed as a "Top tier guy" usually Shelley! Really... Is that all women are looking for? How shallow! Wealthy men are not necessarily amazing guys filled with stellar personality. Don't think they got to the top by being kind.

Emmy Tex Joined Sun 06/21/20 Posts: 1	Sat 06/27/20 03:41 PM
Could be days, weeks, or months, depending. I waited over a year for an angel, but she was asexual, and never did. Don't ask. If you can't wait, move on.

Dekster Joined Sun 12/15/19 Posts: 3	Mon 07/06/20 07:39 PM
the answers quite simple. waiting is for beginners you know, the first time. once its gone, you cannot treat it the same way. its like a new car after you put it in gear on a road test, its no longer new. same as a bottle of wine when you pop the cork the seal is broken. ladies, the first time is special( that's why you wait until you're sure to get a man thats a keeper. anytime you go for a test ride before you give it up you should be getting married. any other time say a lot about about the woman's moral character, huh? so it doesn't matter how long you wait after the first time, it isn't special no longer. your used

Dekster Joined Sun 12/15/19 Posts: 3	Mon 07/06/20 07:49 PM
actually, its flashed before being posted online. most leave the house with all their business in the street. its called looking ses-sy. if you're not showing it you are not hot.

feelyoungagain Joined Wed 02/28/18 Posts: 444	Sat 08/01/20 01:02 AM
Is it normal to wanna score on the first date? Do ladies ever want it? Well, why don't you ask yourself why it wouldn't be normal? Do ladies ever want it???? If you don't know the answer to this yourself, I certainly can't help you.