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Topic: Finding the right person or being rhe right person? 🙂
iamrei❤'s photo
Thu 04/09/20 10:12 PM
Happiness is not finding the right person it is being the right person. :slight_smile:✌❤

Rumesh Hopkins's photo
Fri 04/10/20 05:58 AM
I tried to find a girl that fits to me. But I was unable to find. Every dating site is useless. can't find a true love or friendship.


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Fri 04/10/20 07:00 AM
you must prove to be truly loving .

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Fri 04/10/20 08:01 AM
being the right person coz if you are right person it's sure you gonna find and meet right persons

no photo
Fri 04/10/20 08:05 AM
U re right

Eih's photo
Fri 04/10/20 12:58 PM
just drag that person on your left to your right. :blush:

iamrei❤'s photo
Fri 04/10/20 05:29 PM
🤦‍♀️:grin::joy:

duane's photo
Fri 04/10/20 05:33 PM
the right person is sometimes in front of us in the crowd we just gotta stay the course

iamrei❤'s photo
Fri 04/10/20 05:51 PM
Yeah.. And if we find the right person and we are not the right person what do we think we're gonna do to that poor right person.:pensive::slight_smile:

iamrei❤'s photo
Fri 04/10/20 06:15 PM
I tried to find a girl that fits to me. But I was unable to find. Every dating site is useless. can't find a true love or friendship.




cheer up..i believe there is someone out there for you.:slight_smile:

iamrei❤'s photo
Fri 04/10/20 06:16 PM
just drag that person on your left to your right. :blush:


🤦‍♀️:joy::grin:

iamrei❤'s photo
Fri 04/10/20 06:17 PM
U re right


:slight_smile:

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Sat 04/11/20 04:59 PM
hey

darkowl1's photo
Sat 04/11/20 07:41 PM

Happiness is not finding the right person it is being the right person. :slight_smile:✌❤


Wise beyond your years... being good with yourself and being alone, comfortable and happy is best. You then have the time to sort out the person to ENHANCE your life instead of making a hurried decision.... if...... that is what you're looking for....

Some of us though... get to being alone and like it more than being with others.

iamrei❤'s photo
Sun 04/12/20 12:23 AM
hey

:grin:

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Sun 04/12/20 12:29 AM
Edited by No no no no on Sun 04/12/20 12:34 AM
Being the best you can be attracts people to you. My views are not mainstream , but I still strive to be my best. It takes all kinds to make the world go around. What you seek is almost always not what you find. And more time than not what you find is better than what you were seeking. You being happy is not something someone else can do for you, You have to make yourself happy 1st. Yes it takes a long time to work on yourself to attract the ones that will be happy with you. Have great day .... STAY SAFE!

Jennifer's photo
Mon 04/13/20 08:16 AM
dating sites now have freaks ..all what the men do on dating sites is to show me there ugly ***** and be expecting me to show them my nude pictures

Tom4Uhere's photo
Mon 04/13/20 12:00 PM

Happiness is not finding the right person it is being the right person. :slight_smile:✌❤

On the surface this sounds right.
Thing is, life is messy.
Life doesn't always go as planned.
Assumptions and expectations often blind us from reality.
There is no "one size fits all" answer.

Realizing happiness and inner contenment is not the same thing might help.
Happiness is an emotion and emotions are often fleeting and not meant to be constant.
You often hear people saying they just want to be happy.
More likely what they mean is they just want to find contentment.
How many people do you know who just want to be sad or angry?
Happiness is an emotion and should be allowed to come and go naturally.

The moment someone says 'right person' it implies expectations.
To search for the 'right person' for you places expectations on another that they live up to your idea of who the 'right person' shall be.
Its an assumption based on expectation.
"Right person" needs to be the 'result' rather than a 'predisposition'.
You find out they're the 'right person' after you meet them and get to know them.

If I love you when you are being you, you may be the right person for me.
And (never 'or')
If you love me when I am being me, I may be the right person for you.
However, 'right person' requires both statements to be true because relationships are not one sided.

Anticipation of fulfilled expectation often deludes us from the reality.
We tend to 'see' only that which we want to 'see' in others.
Relationship wityh the so-called right person can go bad because we do not see them as the person they actually are but as a culmunation of our own anticipation and expectations based on our assumptions.

Plus, we live in a constantly changing Universe. We are part of the Universe, not outside it. It changes and so do we.
We change constantly so our relationships also change constantly.
The Right Person right now, may not be the Right Person tomorrow.
Even if we find someone who fits our assumptions and expectations right now, our expectations and assumptions change with time as well as the people involved.
Living in the moment without assumptions or expectations allows you to build experiences with someone as they are. When those experiences are more often pleasing, we determine them to be 'the right person'.

1. Contentment is the foundation from which all emotions flow.
2. The "Right Person" can't be found but only experienced.
3. Accept or reject the person as they are, not as you expected them to be.
4. Always be yourself.
5. Live in the moment, right here/right now.

iamrei❤'s photo
Tue 04/14/20 02:03 AM
:pensive::pensive::pensive:

iamrei❤'s photo
Tue 04/14/20 02:04 AM

Happiness is not finding the right person it is being the right person. :slight_smile:✌❤

On the surface this sounds right.
Thing is, life is messy.
Life doesn't always go as planned.
Assumptions and expectations often blind us from reality.
There is no "one size fits all" answer.

Realizing happiness and inner contenment is not the same thing might help.
Happiness is an emotion and emotions are often fleeting and not meant to be constant.
You often hear people saying they just want to be happy.
More likely what they mean is they just want to find contentment.
How many people do you know who just want to be sad or angry?
Happiness is an emotion and should be allowed to come and go naturally.

The moment someone says 'right person' it implies expectations.
To search for the 'right person' for you places expectations on another that they live up to your idea of who the 'right person' shall be.
Its an assumption based on expectation.
"Right person" needs to be the 'result' rather than a 'predisposition'.
You find out they're the 'right person' after you meet them and get to know them.

If I love you when you are being you, you may be the right person for me.
And (never 'or')
If you love me when I am being me, I may be the right person for you.
However, 'right person' requires both statements to be true because relationships are not one sided.

Anticipation of fulfilled expectation often deludes us from the reality.
We tend to 'see' only that which we want to 'see' in others.
Relationship wityh the so-called right person can go bad because we do not see them as the person they actually are but as a culmunation of our own anticipation and expectations based on our assumptions.

Plus, we live in a constantly changing Universe. We are part of the Universe, not outside it. It changes and so do we.
We change constantly so our relationships also change constantly.
The Right Person right now, may not be the Right Person tomorrow.
Even if we find someone who fits our assumptions and expectations right now, our expectations and assumptions change with time as well as the people involved.
Living in the moment without assumptions or expectations allows you to build experiences with someone as they are. When those experiences are more often pleasing, we determine them to be 'the right person'.

1. Contentment is the foundation from which all emotions flow.
2. The "Right Person" can't be found but only experienced.
3. Accept or reject the person as they are, not as you expected them to be.
4. Always be yourself.
5. Live in the moment, right here/right now.

:heart_eyes::heart_eyes::heart_eyes:

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