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Topic: Two loves
Riverspirit1111 Joined Wed 06/27/18 Posts: 100738	Wed 02/26/20 01:25 PM
Really fall in love? Not for me, nope. I really fall in love and then there's no room for another. This!

Ladywind7 Joined Sun 04/08/12 Posts: 7833	Wed 02/26/20 03:05 PM
Ahh, us Minglers are a loyal bunch. It was a random question, great answers

cajunman59 Joined Sun 01/10/10 Posts: 318	Wed 02/26/20 04:47 PM
Maybe in my youth. Not sure if it was love.

Bastet127 Joined Wed 06/12/19 Posts: 967	Wed 02/26/20 06:50 PM
Love is a tricky little devil. We can love so much (romantically) and end up not standing the sight of the same person one day. It moves in mysterious, and unsuspecting ways. It gives us answers and asks us questions. So, who knows. It doesn’t seem natural to romantically love, be in love, with two people at the same time. But, I think it’s possible, but most would limit their heart to one at a time. I know I do.

royyyyyy Joined Wed 02/26/20 Posts: 2	Wed 02/26/20 07:26 PM
Hello am new here

Can i be ya side guy Joined Sun 12/29/19 Posts: 3	Wed 02/26/20 07:34 PM
Yeah

ivegotthegirth Joined Fri 08/17/18 Posts: 6666	Wed 02/26/20 07:43 PM
Really fall in love? Not for me, nope. I really fall in love and then there's no room for another. This! This is me also. I can and do have an assortment of lady friends but keep things straight about being good friends and liking a woman very much and being in love. I found long ago it's important to always be clear about it. I know and hear a lot of low life type guys professing their love to women when they are totally insincere. I don't approve, it's childish and hurtful.

catinidaho Joined Fri 10/24/14 Posts: 10665	Wed 02/26/20 07:51 PM
I don't fall in love easily or deeply. It's hard enough to love one person.

...... Joined Tue 02/25/20 Posts: 4	Mon 03/02/20 10:02 PM
I did and I am. I am in too deep. lol

Sariamehar Joined Mon 03/16/20 Posts: 1	Mon 03/16/20 10:21 AM
Yes

Sijo Joined Wed 03/25/20 Posts: 2	Wed 03/25/20 09:04 AM
Is it possible to fall in love with two people at the same time? How would you choose the one?

Brianwilli Joined Tue 03/24/20 Posts: 3	Wed 03/25/20 10:27 AM
Yeah you're right but why do women find it difficult to respond to messages?

Brianwilli Joined Tue 03/24/20 Posts: 3	Wed 03/25/20 10:29 AM
It is and it also depends on the person involved

delightfulillusion Joined Fri 06/24/16 Posts: 119332	Wed 03/25/20 10:36 AM
Yeah you're right but why do women find it difficult to respond to messages? This has been discussed here http://mingle2.com/topic/561021

The Wrong Alice Joined Thu 04/26/18 Posts: 1437	Wed 03/25/20 12:51 PM
Yes, and no I discovered this much to my confusion and horror My first girlfriend had split up with me Awhile after, I got my second girlfriend I thought I loved them both It was horrible Although a to be fair, I was falling out of love with 1, and falling in love with the other I was 15, and didn't realise what a complete bitc¥ my first girlfriend had been, until I realized how lovely my second girlfriend was Although in hindsight, I was probably just totally in lust and infatuated

favour Joined Wed 03/25/20 Posts: 1	Wed 03/25/20 01:43 PM
I agree with you. It's only wise to stick with one.playing with people emotions is not my cup of tea.In any case do to others what you would love to be done to you.

...... Joined Tue 02/25/20 Posts: 4	Sat 07/11/20 11:40 AM
That's pretty clear cut

Kevin Joined Tue 12/20/11 Posts: 36	Sat 07/11/20 06:07 PM
Choose both, if both are okay with that. Some people are polyamorous and can love more than one at a time.

feelyoungagain Joined Wed 02/28/18 Posts: 444	Sat 08/01/20 12:19 AM
Is it possible to fall in love with two people at the same time? How would you choose the one? maybe, but you better pick one or leave them both while you get your head straight and figure out which one you can't live w/o. Don't string them along. It's cruel.

feelyoungagain Joined Wed 02/28/18 Posts: 444	Sat 08/01/20 12:20 AM
Choose both, if both are okay with that. Some people are polyamorous and can love more than one at a time. This is true. Completely slipped my mind in my reply.