OK, so, I have been on here for a bit and I was wondering if anyone had any suggestions for me to spice up my profile to draw more attention. NO one has even looked at my profile in about 2-3 weeks...maybe longer? Does it read bad? Should I eliminate the pics? Do I need different ones?

perhaps you need to take out that "fat" part. Thats about it..your pics are fine however its always good totake new 1s as well...

take it easy there girl... no need to rush in..you will find someone...

hell we can even change places if you'd wish. i have these old farts looking at me and emailing me about how sexy i am....ewww!

i read your profile, and in it you say that your not going to lose weight until you find that someone

do you know how hard it is to lose weight, you may want to start now, and then by the time you find that someone you'll be, as society calls it "ideal" (actually i guess it depends on how much weight YOU want to lose)

Ok, I will do that. Yeah, this is the only place I don't get the old creepy guys. lol

Nothing empowers a pervert like a screen to hide behind eh?

I have actually started losing weight, but I have found that in the past, It has been easier to do it when I am dating someone.

Thanks for the input. I will try to find something MORE positive to put into it. It seems so short without it.

put you are curvy or voluptuous[spelling rubbish]lol better positive words hun

I couldn't do that. lol. It's either I am fat or not mentioned at all. I am a very blunt person and don't think that I should be shading the truth. curvy women to me sounds like a chick with nice hips and tits and little waist or at least not a tummy.

Hi!

When someone asks what do I look like, What could I do better to attract the opposite sex, What can I write etc !
Now this is always a very gray area and most people will not give you a 100% honest answer just in case they sound offensive to you and also look bad in other peoples eyes.

Now I think most men will first look at your photo's and only if they like what they see will they read your profile ! My only advice would be to look at other photos of people around your own age and size and see how they look to you ! If you think you like the why some lady looks on a photo........Have a few photos taken of yourself in a similar manner.



"All the world's a stage
And all the men and women merely players;
They have their exits and their entrances,
And one man in his time plays many parts,

wow! that is really good advice. thanks a lot!

OK, I changed it up. tell me what you think.

Well, that was what I was shooting for. :) being real and all.

Hey, wispy_moon: you might get some additional info/input if you find the "profile peer review" thread. I saw it in General, I think.

I think a wide variety of photos in your profile is always a good thing!

What about putting full figured???