Men more often just have lust rather than true feelings for anyone....why just why

Honestly when you ask for short term relationships, one can not expect men to want more then just a one night stand that will leave one feeling lonely..

One must respect themselves before they should expect anyone else too..

I agree with TxsGal, Alina. You also mention in your profile you're looking for someone to satisfy the virgin in you... that will pretty much only attract those looking to de-virginize you.

For better success online, maybe add more to your profile stuff that is activity related, things you like doing and the kind of guy you are looking to do those things with. And consider taking Crystal's advice from the rate me forum and add pictures that portray the "real" you.

In the real world, seek out social gatherings or events with like minded people so that you develop so friendships. It's not easy starting over with a new life, it takes time and effort to get out there and meet people who accept you for who you are.

In the meantime, hang out in the forums and join in... it will help with some of that loneliness.

You're asking 2 separate things. Lonely and lusty men is not the same.
Lonely is a result of not having anything going for yourself in life that is fulfilling and brings you joy. So that's your job to work on.

Lusty men has a lot to do with how you present yourself. You keep using these altered / Photoshopped / beauty-filtered photos. That's what women do who aren't serious, possibly even scammers or women who are merely looking for sex (and to get paid for it).
Almost everyone here has told you to get real photos, you don't. Then this is what you get.
So like the lonely thing, this part is also your job to change, or not.

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thanks guys! I'll do make the necessary changes

Most men do But I don't I believe that a woman is special and should be treat like that, I am looking for a long term relation ship.

Don't generalize, pm me and find out what true feelings are for real ❤

Hi Alina
You have several good suggestions above so I look forward to reading your new profile if and when you come back.
Good luck

This is one of the things I hate is being lumped into one group witch I can understand. However I can say all men are not alike

Am 56 and can say I have been ther and done that. No man can understand a woman and vice versa. Have been married for 30 years and now I realise we have moved away from each other trying to correct our imperfections. Had we learnt to live with them, we would not have lost the passion and spark which has literally ended. We continue to live under the same roof, for the sake of our kids, sleep in different rooms for over a decade now. At home, the max communication is less that 20 words a day, no hugs, no kisses, much life official. My tries to bring in normalcy only ended in arguments