Am 56 and can say I have been ther and done that. No man can understand a woman and vice versa. Have been married for 30 years and now I realise we have moved away from each other trying to correct our imperfections. Had we learnt to live with them, we would not have lost the passion and spark which has literally ended. We continue to live under the same roof, for the sake of our kids, sleep in different rooms for over a decade now. At home, the max communication is less that 20 words a day, no hugs, no kisses, much life official. My tries to bring in normalcy only ended in arguments