what do you prefer ??

In this country there is no such thing.
Unless brought over by a family from the old country.

Am American would never take someone else's word
on who to marry.

Why not ask that on a site of your nationality? Over here it's mostly western people and we don't do arranged marriages.

oh come on crystal i bet you could arrange me a great marriage

What's in it for me?

a spinner in training

right mam

Oh I think I indeed could! But you could still decline

It's been years since I read/seen studies about marriage. I believe it was 65% success rate either way.

How could I possibly know that?

And why would you trust my answer?

I mean if I had a love marriage that failed so that I could then be in an arranged marriage (or vice versa) and it failed, leaving me to be on an online dating site looking for a third marriage based on my "preference"...would you "really" trust my opinion on what type of marriage is "best?"

Not to mention, would I really be on an online dating site if I "preferred" an arranged marriage? Unless maybe I was completely unsuccessful and bitter to want other people to do the work for me?


Other than that, it just depends on too many factors.
I mean a lot of people load up the word "love" to mean too many things and come to expect too much from it/each other.
Other people make "arrangements" that benefit themselves to the cost of others.
There's too much in the way of short term vs. long term, priorities, purposes, goals, morals, individual vs. group, which group(s).