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Topic: starting relationships
gigm Joined Mon 12/03/07 Posts: 202	Sat 12/15/07 12:51 PM
pleas i beg you for help & advise, i can never make it past the first date without the person i'm with saying that it's not going to work out, in fact 66% of my dates stand me up, i need help & advise or i will die a virgin. pleas message me with advise as i'm sure this topic will get closed.

Jill298 Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 16316	Sat 12/15/07 12:53 PM
uummm did you actually break down the stats to 66% of your dates? or that just a number you threw out there

gigm Joined Mon 12/03/07 Posts: 202	Sat 12/15/07 12:55 PM Edited by gigm on Sat 12/15/07 12:55 PM
well technically 66.666666666666... but whom is counting the decimals of a %?

unscarred Joined Wed 12/05/07 Posts: 63	Sat 12/15/07 12:55 PM
don't tell them you're a virgin. kinda scares women away.

Jill298 Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 16316	Sat 12/15/07 12:55 PM
Thats a really HIGH # of stand ups... maybe you are not listening to what they are saying? Getting a lil to eager or ahead of yourself.

Jill298 Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 16316	Sat 12/15/07 12:57 PM
well technically 66.666666666666... but whom is counting the decimals of a %? actually that would be 67% but man, that's just weird

gigm Joined Mon 12/03/07 Posts: 202	Sat 12/15/07 12:57 PM
no it's normal tabel 47 weather spoons aberystwyth that we agree to meet.

Swimforrealsgirl Joined Thu 05/03/07 Posts: 399	Sat 12/15/07 12:58 PM
pleas i beg you for help & advise, i can never make it past the first date without the person i'm with saying that it's not going to work out, in fact 66% of my dates stand me up, i need help & advise or i will die a virgin. pleas message me with advise as i'm sure this topic will get closed. Oh, honey.....You've got to look inward. Begin to ask yourself....What do I want in a relationship? What is she like? WHAT CAN I GIVE HER IN RETURN? Get active/involved with a woman who wants what you want. STOP reinventing the wheel..You cannot make anybody love you, or want to give you anything until YOU ARE ABLE TO LOVE YOURSELF.

Jill298 Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 16316	Sat 12/15/07 12:59 PM
no it's normal tabel 47 weather spoons aberystwyth that we agree to meet. what???

Sumthingdifferent Joined Tue 11/13/07 Posts: 2126	Sat 12/15/07 01:00 PM
Hello.. You want advise, so here it comes... The first thing I notice is you sound "desperate" and "begging" is a "turn-off" for most women. And just mentioning you are a virgin..that shows "desperately" seeking a woman for sex. Another BIG turn-off So slow down...get control of yourself...get some self esteem and confidence...lose the "deparity"..and learn some "class and style" on how to talk to women. Find RESPECT, SINCERITY and be GENUINE. That would be a good start. Good luck!

gigm Joined Mon 12/03/07 Posts: 202	Sat 12/15/07 01:01 PM
maybe you are not listening to what they are saying? QUOTE: no it's normal tabel 47 weather spoons aberystwyth that we agree to meet. what??? it's not me just going to wrong places.

unscarred Joined Wed 12/05/07 Posts: 63	Sat 12/15/07 01:01 PM
no it's normal tabel 47 weather spoons aberystwyth that we agree to meet. what??? I second that. WHAT?!

Swimforrealsgirl Joined Thu 05/03/07 Posts: 399	Sat 12/15/07 01:01 PM
I dated a guy who was a virgin. He was a 37-year-old hunk who's self esteem was totally screwed up. We didn't work out because he was too emotionally NEEDY. Be strong.

Jill298 Joined Fri 11/09/07 Posts: 16316	Sat 12/15/07 01:03 PM
maybe you are not listening to what they are saying? QUOTE: no it's normal tabel 47 weather spoons aberystwyth that we agree to meet. what??? it's not me just going to wrong places. I am thinking the place isn't whats wrong...

gigm Joined Mon 12/03/07 Posts: 202	Sat 12/15/07 01:03 PM
most of the time i see no self esteem problem in me.

gigm Joined Mon 12/03/07 Posts: 202	Sat 12/15/07 01:04 PM Edited by gigm on Sat 12/15/07 01:05 PM
maybe you are not listening to what they are saying? QUOTE: no it's normal tabel 47 weather spoons aberystwyth that we agree to meet. what??? it's not me just going to wrong places. I am thinking the place isn't whats wrong... what is then? & before you say your sounding too desprate, in RL i am nothing like i am on fourms.

northernexposure Joined Fri 08/24/07 Posts: 153	Sat 12/15/07 01:04 PM
Watch that movie, 40 year old virgin. You might just learn something, or at least get a good laugh out of it.

Swimforrealsgirl Joined Thu 05/03/07 Posts: 399	Sat 12/15/07 01:05 PM
pleas i beg you for help & advise, i can never make it past the first date without the person i'm with saying that it's not going to work out, in fact 66% of my dates stand me up, i need help & advise or i will die a virgin. pleas message me with advise as i'm sure this topic will get closed. aren't there any girls your age, or older women where you live?

Swimforrealsgirl Joined Thu 05/03/07 Posts: 399	Sat 12/15/07 01:06 PM
most of the time i see no self esteem problem in me. There must be some problem if you're not meeting anyone...

gigm Joined Mon 12/03/07 Posts: 202	Sat 12/15/07 01:06 PM
pleas i beg you for help & advise, i can never make it past the first date without the person i'm with saying that it's not going to work out, in fact 66% of my dates stand me up, i need help & advise or i will die a virgin. pleas message me with advise as i'm sure this topic will get closed. aren't there any girls your age, or older women where you live? non that i trust, there is lots of slander around about me in my town, pepole try to run me over in there cars, throught stones @ me & so on so i don't trust easily in RL.