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| Topic: how can you recover from a long years relationship breakups? | |
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OP has left the building!!...Rats!!...i hate an unfinished novel...and it was getting good...sigh... |
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Grab yourself a younger upgrade and go to town. Your pain will pass on no time. You'll be ok, don't stress
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Trust takes a long time to rebuild. Rather than focusing on having a relationship try focusing on making yourself happy. Invest in yourself. Do things that make you happy, fit and healthy. If someone comes your way then you'll be ready for it, if not, you can be happy without it.
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Some people sincerely believe this ... Get laid  ... to be the solution for world peace. Normal feelings after break up: light has gone out of life / pictures remain; etc. Advise: meditation Wonderful advice! Except substitute that t for c , meditation= medication!! Mmhmmm, yes sir, smoke a bowl ........ |
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Had all that but those solutions dont work for my heart. Broke up after 18 years. Cant shake the limbo feeling unless i stay busy. Suggest you stay busy till you pass out ;)
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First . fell the pain. second. accept and get moving forward. 3rd... Doing what you love...Love yourself. Self worth since day one.❤
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ahmmmm... just close your eyes den sleep
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Therapy, positive support system, spirituality, and definitely not putting any expectations or pressure on yourself. Also, do not compare yourself to others. The healing process is different for everyone and some people never fully recover. I hope you recover and find that happiness again. Don't rush it. It's a process.
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Grab yourself a younger upgrade and go to town. Your pain will pass on no time. You'll be ok, don't stress Been there done that. Can't say it didn't work. LOL |
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Had all that but those solutions dont work for my heart. Broke up after 18 years. Cant shake the limbo feeling unless i stay busy. Suggest you stay busy till you pass out ;) Grief is different for everyone and not everyone heals or moves forward. There is no answer or solution, you just have to live every day the best you can. You can still have a meaningful life. You can still have companionship w/o getting into a serious relationship. Lots of men are looking for that as well. |
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Had all that but those solutions dont work for my heart. Broke up after 18 years. Cant shake the limbo feeling unless i stay busy. Suggest you stay busy till you pass out ;) Grief is different for everyone and not everyone heals or moves forward. There is no answer or solution, you just have to live every day the best you can. You can still have a meaningful life. You can still have companionship w/o getting into a serious relationship. Lots of men are looking for that as well. |
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I wouldn't know because I have never had a "relationship" with any woman in my life - I don't even know what it is or what it means and no woman has ever been able to explain it to me. I have no concept of it at all. I can tell you I was going to get married to a woman in Florida in the mid 80s and my mother called her the night before our wedding and confessed that she was an intravenous drug addict with Hep C. So my marriage never happened and I never got over it. I lost my job and home and everything. I couldn't even function at work. I've not had a single girlfriend ever since then. I don't think the damage will ever go away because my mom won't apologize and make amends. She is in complete denial about it. This is part of the reason I hate drug addict American women so much. My mother is one of them! But you have had a relationship-- with the woman you were going to marry. |
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