Ihab you answer that one?

ok sir ,will do
i will stop loving someone when she is fuzzy ,vague ,mystic,sloppy too

Good answer, but a difficult question..

I know that is a difficult question but I would like to know whether these things can be nurse or not ?
(remember that you love the person )

You got my answer..

hahahaha
i got it sir
i can read in between the lines

If they asked for a new pair of shoes before the other pair are worn out

hahahahaha

That sounds more like a list of things that will make you give up on trying for a relationship, rather than a list of reasons to stop loving someone.

Maybe I think of "loving someone" as something that comes about after we've gotten to know and like each other to the point where that sort of thing isn't a surprise.

In my own life, I haven't found that I ever stop LOVING someone, after I start doing so. But I have often decided to stop trying to be a part of their life, or have them as a part of mine.

The main reason I have ended up doing that, has always been the same: I realize that they don't actually love me. For example, in some cases, I was just a place holder while they were looking for the "real" guy they wanted; in some cases they really thought they loved me, but all it really was, was that I appeared to be able to fulfill some of their expectations about what a "real love" does for someone.

A basic way to describe it is that I gradually realized that whenever I just behaved as who I am for an extended period of time, they would start complaining that I wasn't behaving the way a mate is "supposed to."

After the running list of "don't be like that" stuff reached a certain (ever smaller) number, I would realize we weren't actually compatible, no matter how much I enjoyed them otherwise.

If you truly love someone, you will never stop loving that person you fell in love with. You may not love the person they have become or may no longer be able to live with the person they are today, but you will still love the person they were that you fell in love with.

Sir o agreed with you

thank you mr igor frankensteen

yeah deep feeling mr oldkid46

What would make me stop loving someone is getting lied to, telling me exaggerated stories, and manipulative behavior to try and put fear in me so if I leave something will happen to me. Current situation I am in.

no idea , i might try to find this post again if it ever happens
i dont give my love away easy
even all the past people that have done me wrong
i still love them for what ever reason i gave my love to them in the first place,
but keep in mind there is a big difference between loving someone and being in love with someone

example : after my at the time wife decided to open her legs to other guys
i loved her and still love her , but i am not in love with her
<shrug>

uhm i guess another way of looking at that

her husband comes home
<face palm>
i should prob stop hanging out in forums so much lmao
and no that is not me , but i thought it was a funny answer

no dat you need to hang out here more to learn all the bitter ways not to be