I want to make sure ive done everything there is to me done which helps.. I just want to know what y'all think of my profile.. thank you in advance :)

Profiles that try to get people off the dating site typically are scammers. If you are for real, trying to do just that will work against you.

Answer the "do you have children' question. You're honest you say. Then be honest.

Use another profile photo. No offense, but it looks like your a woman showing off cleavage meaning that photo isn't working for you.

I keep adding i have a daughter but it wont update and my pic isnt there anymore but still shows up on this post!??? wtf everything you said isnt there anymore.. how are you seeing that?

the photo I started off with worked for everyone else who wanted to meet but i have a daughter and cant be having wild people around so i changed it right away, still it showed up in the post LMAO!! and i have a beautiful 16 year old daught and i DID put that i had one who lives with her mom but shes here half the time..
**PERSONALLY i think if your going to be giving this negative feedback why not balance it with, "i like how you have this, or i like that. nice way of explaining this or whatever.... dont just be negative, negative is good but theres a balance to everything... thank you nevertheless even though none of that was there when you posted hehehe... HEY, THANK YOU. BTW
-Mike

It would be better to list some of your interests rather than say your list is too long to mention. That way, it would give us ladies a better insight to you as a person. Potential matches won't know if they have common interests with you and may well bypass your profile.

It would also be nice to see a full body shot too rather than have several face pics

Good luck.

I don't see how it is negative. That's your own personal interpretation, and prolly frustration that the site doesn't work the way you want.
You ask for rating and if it's good, you get feedback on that, not personal coaching to make you feel better about yourself.
I don't need to be attacked for trying to help someone out. I think I'm going to stop doing that. Best to let people sod around within their own stuff it seems.

Here here..

I agree with Delightful.

Also, I'd take out the word "actually" from your heading. Simply "Hi...looking for someone who has a kind heart." will do. You can mention that you're interested in meeting face to face in your "about me" section. And consider removing the comment about having yet to meet someone honest. It comes across negative, like you generally distrust people, women especially... most women aren't going to take the time to try and convince you that they are honest or worthy of you.

I agree with Crystal about the email address and going off site. Most will want to stay onsite and communicate here before going to other means of communication.

Welcome and best of luck to you.

Similar to others , if the list is that long just put your favourite 10,
Dump the shades pics they annoy lots of girls

Yours was not negative Crystal. It was an honest opinion which the OP asked for.

Thank you, Poetry

I will never understand why people ask for honest answers, and then get all bent out of shape when people give them honest answers.

Crystal: please continue with your very worthwhile and truly honest contributions...cheers...

Owww... thank you, Maybwecan
And Poetry.

Gosh, I almost feel awkward now as this is not my topic, but I sure do appreciate your reactions!!!

thank you sparkling crystal and everyone else. i really do appreciate it.. sometimes things can be taken differently through words since we cant use high pitch and low pitch words which means one sentence can mean more than 2 things hehe.. i didnt mean that, I went back and read it and your just fine.. i am sorry..i was wrong... also thank you i will work on the list as well..