Hi im Tristan. Im new to this site. Well one part of my personality is that im clingy. Im not gonna change that for anyone because i want someone to love me for everything i am. I just wanna know what you ladies think. Is clingyness a turn-off or do you like it?

Welcome to the site Tristan! Honestly, for me, it's a turn off. But I don't think a lot of girls mind it, I think a good amount would even like the attention. I'm sure you'll find someone who appreciates it.

Tristan you're young yet, loads of time for the clingyness to change.. For me clingyness is a turn off as well as neediness but I think that both of those are cured with a person being secure within themselves.. Only my opinion... Good luck with your search and happiness

Be the Barnacle!

First, I wanna let you know that I love the name Tristan

Now as far as your being clingy.... not cool man! Sorry, but it is a total turn-off! Being affectionate is one thing but I do not want a man breathing down my neck every waking minute of every day!!!!! Ever hear the expression "absence makes the heart grow fonder"? It's true, for me at least. Everyone needs personal space, it's what keeps us sane

The best way to describe it is to give you the lyrics to Leave Me Alone (I'm Lonely) by Pink

Go away
Give me a chance to miss you
Say goodbye
It'll make me want to kiss you
I love you so
Much more when you're not here
Watchin all the bad shows
Drinking all of my beer

I don't believe Adam and Eve
Spent every goddamn day together
If you give me some room there will be room enough for two

Tonight
Leave me alone I'm lonely
Alone I'm lonely
I'm tired
Leave me alone I'm lonely
Alone I'm lonely tonight

I don't wanna wake up with another
But I don't wanna always wake up with you either
No you can't hop into my shower
All I ask for is one ***kin' hour
You taste so sweet
But I can't eat the same thing every day
Cuttin off the phone
Leave me the ***k alone
Tomorrow I'll be beggin' you to come home

Tonight
Leave me alone I'm lonely
Alone I'm lonely
I'm tired
Leave me alone I'm lonely
Alone I'm lonely tonight

Go away
Come back
Go away
Come back
Why can't I just have it both ways
Go away
Come back
Go away
Come back
I wish you knew the difference
Go away
Come back

ewwwwwwwwwwwwwww a CLING ON~~~!!! JK

clingyness seems to turn off a lot of women. I guess they don't much like the attention. But there are some who do, you just have to find them. As far as the reason for that, I think that once you know you have a relationship, and that you're not going to lose each other, a lot of that stuff goes away. It's kinda funny to me how clingyness is a turn off, spells insecurity, but then I think that often women want what they cannot have, NOT what they can have. Strange how that works

Oh and how the parlor tricks have begun.

-Drew