Topic: Anyone else hate being called cute
delightfulillusion's photo
Sun 07/21/19 04:44 AM


I definitely don't like being called cute, beautiful, gorgeous etc.

Once got a message that said "hello mum". What the fluff??? Total turn off for sure grumble



Maybe, that chap noticed, how helpful and patient you are in the Help forum? :wink:




Don't think so Larsi. He was 23 and I think he was looking for a mother figure laugh

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Sun 07/21/19 04:55 AM


Any way thanks for the input guys :)
So if on the rare occasion i meet a woman I am attracted to and she starts calling me stevie.

then ill leave it there...

And shave my arse :)


Why? Some women like a hairy arse!

More to the point... You haven't said what you prefer to be called or what endearing words you'd rather hear than sweet or cute?


That's a point. I prefer a compliment to be veiled if poss.

chatted to a woman a few weeks ago (on another site)
she said "a lot of sharks here"
I said " not any problems yet, maybe I'm not such attractive bait"
She started txing something ad then broke off mid sentence And said "oh you smooth"
I prefer banter.

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Sun 07/21/19 04:58 AM
Yea definitely veiled compliments.. Floats my boat :thumbsup:

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Sun 07/21/19 05:02 AM



I definitely don't like being called cute, beautiful, gorgeous etc.

Once got a message that said "hello mum". What the fluff??? Total turn off for sure grumble



Maybe, that chap noticed, how helpful and patient you are in the Help forum? :wink:




Don't think so Larsi. He was 23 and I think he was looking for a mother figure laugh


I guess, in the end he was asking how to delete his profile? laugh

delightfulillusion's photo
Sun 07/21/19 05:09 AM




I definitely don't like being called cute, beautiful, gorgeous etc.

Once got a message that said "hello mum". What the fluff??? Total turn off for sure grumble



Maybe, that chap noticed, how helpful and patient you are in the Help forum? :wink:




Don't think so Larsi. He was 23 and I think he was looking for a mother figure laugh


I guess, in the end he was asking how to delete his profile? laugh


The guy that messaged me isn't on the forums

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Sun 07/21/19 05:10 AM
I think I would get more riled up about some woman calling me A$$hole, as opposed to cute or sweetie.

I know I'm cute and sweet when I want to be. So to me it's just being me, and the other person noticing.

Thankfully most don't get to see my other spectrum side. pitchfork

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Sun 07/21/19 05:55 AM


I'ts an anoying thing. Sometimes or quite a lot actually, women as the get to know me start telling me I'm cute or sweet and start calling me stevie.


Cute baaa
I'm trying to be a bloke here, I mean I've got a hairy arse and everything.

Sweet........... stevie............... Pa!
I'm not alone on this I hope.

Anyone have similar things that get their goat.


You could have told me in private grumble

Haha, I'm with you on cute... Even as a woman it's a little annoying. But I have called you sweet and have told other men they are sweet, it's good to know you don't like it... Makes me wonder how other men feel about it. Guess I'll find out with this thread laugh


You can call me sweet River :) flowerforyou some flowers for you smile2


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Sun 07/21/19 05:57 AM
Cute? If you drop the e and add an n into the word people have called me that embarassed

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Sun 07/21/19 06:10 AM

Cute? If you drop the e and add an n into the word people have called me that embarassed


You sure they weren't dyslexic? lot of it about..

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Sun 07/21/19 07:57 AM



I'ts an anoying thing. Sometimes or quite a lot actually, women as the get to know me start telling me I'm cute or sweet and start calling me stevie.


Cute baaa
I'm trying to be a bloke here, I mean I've got a hairy arse and everything.

Sweet........... stevie............... Pa!
I'm not alone on this I hope.

Anyone have similar things that get their goat.


You could have told me in private grumble

Haha, I'm with you on cute... Even as a woman it's a little annoying. But I have called you sweet and have told other men they are sweet, it's good to know you don't like it... Makes me wonder how other men feel about it. Guess I'll find out with this thread laugh


You can call me sweet River :) flowerforyou some flowers for you smile2




Aww, thanks Steve... That warms my heart flowerforyou

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Sun 07/21/19 11:34 AM
it only seems patronizing when women do it to us not when we do it to them. we don't need any equality on this.

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Sun 07/21/19 12:01 PM
You're this close to being friend zoned


quick, smack that azz and show her whos boss laugh smokin


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Sun 07/21/19 12:03 PM

Is it like when they say "ain't you special" like they women do in the south? Or maybe it's Well aren't you cute?

I see youre from UK. The ladies in US use the word cute loosely like butter. You are either the toast they are buttering up or the chicken she is frying in the butter. LOL

Good Times, keep smiling.


Think you've hit the nail on the head, it's a Brit vs Yank thing...

Cute and sweet are the death knell for any possible romance over here, and it is based on looks more than anything.

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Sun 07/21/19 12:04 PM

You're this close to being friend zoned


quick, smack that azz and show her whos boss laugh smokin



lol.

If i fancied them i would :smile:

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Sun 07/21/19 02:02 PM
cute thread ya gots here, stevie :thumbsup:

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Sun 07/21/19 02:05 PM

You're this close to being friend zoned


quick, smack that azz and show her whos boss laugh smokin





smitten

tongue2

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Sun 07/21/19 04:55 PM


Is it like when they say "ain't you special" like they women do in the south? Or maybe it's Well aren't you cute?

I see youre from UK. The ladies in US use the word cute loosely like butter. You are either the toast they are buttering up or the chicken she is frying in the butter. LOL

Good Times, keep smiling.


Think you've hit the nail on the head, it's a Brit vs Yank thing...

Cute and sweet are the death knell for any possible romance over here, and it is based on looks more than anything.


Thanks sweetie, I'll keep that in mind bigsmile

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Tue 07/23/19 09:06 AM

You're this close to being friend zoned


quick, smack that azz and show her whos boss laugh smokin




my girlfriends keep dumping me for being too boring.

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Tue 07/23/19 09:16 AM
"Oh, you're such a cutie pie" laugh laugh

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Tue 07/23/19 09:23 AM

"Oh, you're such a cutie pie" laugh laugh


Oi ! stop that lol