Topic: Advice please
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Sat 06/29/19 05:26 AM
I've been talking to a girl on tinder and she seems really nice. Yesterday she had an accident on her horse and long story short, her horse didn't make it. Obviously she's upset and not in a great place at the moment, although she seems to be handling it well. Do you think it's a good idea to offer to take her out for dinner?

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Sat 06/29/19 06:37 AM

If you are chatting with her and like her then just ask her out on a date. I wouldn't use the sad loss of her horse as an excuse, it is a kind thought. but could be seen as a bit of arm twisting.

Welcome to Mingle2 and good luck in your search.

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Sat 06/29/19 06:49 AM
first you might want to ask her if you can take her out, if she says No then tell her whenever she’s ready to let you know.

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Sat 06/29/19 10:38 AM
You've only been talking to her on Tinder and haven't really met her. Keep talking and be supportive but not aggressive about going out. BTW if she asks you for any financial help, gift cards, account numbers etc. to "help her get through her time of sorrow and hardship", run.

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Sat 06/29/19 05:23 PM

I've been talking to a girl on tinder and she seems really nice. Yesterday she had an accident on her horse and long story short, her horse didn't make it. Obviously she's upset and not in a great place at the moment, although she seems to be handling it well. Do you think it's a good idea to offer to take her out for dinner?


I don't think you're ready, since you have to ask if it's ok. You'll know when it's the right time because you'll just ask her instead of contemplating.

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Sat 06/29/19 06:48 PM
oh Hopeless Romantic, you 89 year old from England you. Are you kidding me?
You know this is a ploy now, don't you? Just give her the money and get on with it.

My two cents
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Sat 06/29/19 06:56 PM
Hopeless romantic got on here today with no profile.

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Sat 06/29/19 07:10 PM
Empty profile = empty ........

Larsi666 😽's photo
Sun 06/30/19 03:45 AM
Maybe he sent her all his money already and can't afford a profile

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Mon 07/01/19 09:31 AM
How long have you been talking to her for? I'd say if you haven't been talking long, perhaps keep talking until you get to a comfortable place.

But, if you've been talking for awhile and there's something there. Shoot your shot. Ask her out for dinner. You'll never know unless you give it a try.